Pay attention to your words and deeds when visiting.

In the process of visiting, the most important thing is words and deeds, which not only reflects personal etiquette, but also reflects one's own courtesy. The following is a collection of articles on words and deeds that I need to pay attention to during my visit. I hope I can help you!

Common sense of etiquette during the visit

(1) Be punctual and keep appointments.

(2) Pay attention to the art of knocking at the door. Knock on the door with your index finger, with moderate intensity, and knock three times at intervals in an orderly manner, waiting for an answer. If no one answers, you can try harder and knock three times. If you have an answer, you can stand sideways on the right door frame, and then walk half a step forward when the door is open, opposite to the owner.

(3) The host can't sit down casually until he gives up his seat. If the host is an elder or superior, you can't sit first without sitting. After the host gives up his seat, he should say "thank you" and then sit down in a polite manner. The host handed Yancha his hands and thanked him. If the host has no habit of smoking, he should restrain his addiction and try not to smoke as much as possible to show respect for the host's habit. When the host offers fruit, he should wait for the old man or other guests to start work before taking it himself. Even in your closest friend's house, don't be too casual.

(4) When talking with the host, the language should be polite.

(5) The conversation time should not be too long. When you get up and leave, you should apologize for "disturbing" the host. After going out, I turned and offered my hand to shake hands with my host and said, "Please stay." . After the host stopped, he took a few steps, then turned around and waved, "Goodbye".

Pay attention to your words and deeds when visiting.

1. Knock or ring the doorbell. No matter whether you go to the visitor's home or office, you should knock or ring the doorbell in advance, and you can't enter until someone answers the door and is allowed to enter or come out to meet you. It's very impolite to barge in without saying hello, even if the door is open.

Pay attention to the art of knocking at the door. Knock on the door with your index finger, with moderate intensity, and knock three times at intervals in an orderly manner, waiting for an answer. If no one answers, you can try harder and knock three times. If you have an answer, you can stand sideways on the right door frame, and then walk half a step forward when the door is open, opposite to the owner.

2. Pay attention to the placement of items. If you visit with items or gifts, or take them with you.

Coat and rain gear, etc. , should be placed in the place designated by the owner, shall not be littered.

Say hello to people indoors, whether you know them or not. If you take children or other people, introduce them to the host and teach them how to address them. When the host serves tea, he should lean over from his seat and hold the tea in his hand to express his gratitude. Smokers are allowed to smoke only after the host toasts or obtains the consent of the host. When talking with the host, you should pay attention to mastering the time. When you have something important to discuss or ask the host, you should show your intention as soon as possible, and don't ramble and waste time.

3. Pay attention to the norms of behavior etiquette. Pay attention to your posture when you enter the room and sit down with your host. Don't be too casual, even if you are a close friend. It is also impolite to cross your legs, tuck your knees in your hands and stagger. If there are other people in the host family, smile and nod and salute; If the host brings tea, he should lean over from his seat, take the tea with both hands and thank the host.

* The host can't sit casually until he gives up his seat. If the host is an elder or superior, you can't sit first without sitting. After the host gives up his seat, he should say it.

4. Control the visiting time and master the conversation skills. Visitors generally should not be among the hosts.

If you spend too much time at home, you should control the stay time according to the situation and master the conversation skills;

When talking with your host, you should be good at observing words and feelings, and choose the opportunity to show the purpose of your visit. If the master is in love,

In a better mood, Tan Xing is stronger and the stay time can be longer; If you find that the master is absent-minded, that is what the Lord means.

Bored people should stop talking in time and get up and leave in time.

5. When visiting, respect the living habits of the host. You should try to get used to visiting other people's homes.

Master's habit. If there is no ashtray in the owner's living room, it means that the owner has no habit of smoking.

Try not to smoke. If the host does not take the initiative to invite, it is best not to go to the host's living room.

Go to the other room outside.

6. When talking with the host, the language should be polite.

7. When eating at someone else's house, if something unusual happens accidentally, such as the knife and fork hitting the plate too hard, or knocking over the drink because the tableware is knocked over, you should be calm and don't panic. If the knife and fork make a noise, you can gently say "I'm sorry" to the host. If the tableware collides, spill wine on the neighbor and help dry it after apologizing; However, if the other person is a woman, as long as she hands me a clean napkin or handkerchief, she will dry it herself.

8. It is impolite to open a window or door without permission in other people's homes. And before opening the doors and windows, we should also consider the comfort of other guests present.

9. It is impolite for a guest to leave the table without permission during a meal. After dinner, stay at least half an hour before you leave, so as not to be rude, or it will be like you are here to eat and drink. Therefore, if you need to leave immediately after eating, it is best not to accept the invitation to eat. When leaving, it is usually the older married woman among the host or guests who proposes to leave first. When she (or he) is ready to leave, others can follow. Otherwise, don't go first without special reasons.

Pay attention to the mistakes in the details of words and deeds during the visit.

Error in visiting etiquette details 1: There is no visiting plan. It sounds simple, but if this business can't go on, then find a way to "end".

Solution: Never open the door until you first consider what you intend to achieve.

Details of visiting etiquette error 2: rude to administrative staff. If you act arrogant and superior, you will only cause disgust.

Amendment: Please be friendly again and respect the staff and others.

Visiting etiquette details error 3: flirting with the front desk. It may be tempting, but unless you have the appearance of a handsome guy in a TV series, you will probably only irritate the other person and then notify the security guard.

Correction: Polite, friendly and polite.

Visiting etiquette details mistake 4: show up with a group of people. If you bring too many people, it will make customers feel why your cost is so high.

Fixed: When you need to get others involved, please use the network conference.

Mistake 5 of visiting etiquette details: I didn't pay attention to your dress. Don't behave inappropriately, it may be bad to borrow the customer's bathroom quickly.

Solution: Before visiting customers, find a bathroom outside and tidy up your appearance and dress.

Visiting etiquette details error 6: Pretending to stop by. Who are you kidding? Do you think that pretending that this is not a special visit will reduce the possibility of rejection?

Correction: I came here on purpose because of an appointment.

Visiting etiquette details error 7: being late. If you don't arrive on time, it clearly tells customers that you don't care about them or their time.

Fixed: Always arrive 15 minutes earlier. If you drive to a date, turn on the GPS.

Mistake 8 of visiting etiquette details: being too friendly at first. There is no better camouflage method than pretending that a potential customer is a long-lost friend.

Solution: Respect the time of potential customers and approach them politely.

Visiting etiquette details error 9: too commercial at first. Remember, you are building a bridge with another person, not just selling things.

Solution: Smile and be friendly, but don't be too emotional.

Error in visiting etiquette details 10: Talk more and listen less. Initial visits are all about building relationships and collecting information. If you don't keep talking, you can't achieve your goal.

Solution: Be curious about customers and ask questions.

Error in visiting etiquette details 1 1: discussing politics or religion.

Solution: Limit the discussion to commercial or neutral areas.

Error in visiting etiquette details 12: arguing with customers. If the customer disagrees with a certain point of view, the argument will only make his differences more and more fierce.

Solution: Ask customers why they think so, and then listen.

The details of visiting etiquette are wrong 13: talking about your products. Make sure you have something to sell, but if you promote your product too early, you will be asked out.

Solution: Before you sell, ask some questions that can understand the demand.

The details of visiting etiquette are wrong 14: it seems rash or ironic. A well-meaning smile at a joke may be misinterpreted by people who pay close attention outside the window but can't hear the context.

Correction: always pay attention to your words and deeds.

Error in visiting etiquette details 15: lack of necessary product knowledge. Potential customers don't want to hear "I'll tell you next time" repeatedly.

Solution: Before visiting, make sure that you have a full understanding of current products and policies.

Error in detail of visiting etiquette 16: I forgot the customer's name. Is there anything more embarrassing than forgetting the name of the person you are talking to?

Visiting etiquette

Visiting means visiting someone in person. If you don't understand the basic understanding of visiting, you may destroy the feelings between friends, damage your image and even block the road to success. Specifically, the visit shall comply with the following etiquette and requirements:

1。 Make an appointment first.

When looking at the house, because the house is a private life area, it is inconvenient, so we should make an appointment in advance so that the owner and family can get ready. The appointment can't be too early or too late. You should choose a convenient time for both the host and the guest, preferably in the afternoon or after dinner, and try to avoid eating, lunch break, staying up late and busy hours in the morning.

2。 Keep your promise.

After the appointed time, arrive on time or a few minutes in advance. In case of special circumstances, you should inform the host in advance, apologize and make a new appointment.

3。 Prepare gifts properly.

You'd better bring some gifts when you go to someone's house for the first time. If there are old people or children in the host's family, the gifts should be as suitable as possible for their needs. Acquaintances generally don't need to bring gifts, but when they meet important festivals or special appointments, they might as well bring some welcome gifts.

4。 To decorate gfd.

It is very necessary to decorate your gfd properly before visiting. In this way, on the one hand, it pays attention to its own image, but also shows respect for its owner.

5。 Watch your manners.

During the visit, visitors should pay full attention to their words and deeds. For example, take the initiative to greet the owner after entering the door and put on slippers according to the owner's requirements; Don't sit down at will until the host gives up his seat; Thank you for taking the tea and cigarettes handed over by your host. During the visit, we should adhere to the principle of "feel at home", obey the arrangement of the host and fully understand the host. For example, when the host hasn't invited them to visit their other rooms or facilities, don't take the initiative to visit them, and don't rummage around without the host's permission. This is disrespectful to the host.

6。 It is necessary to properly control the visiting hours.

The visiting time should not be too long, and the first visit is 20 minutes. When the host and guests have finished talking about what they should talk about, they should get up and leave in time. If you find that the host is in a hurry or something else, or a new guest visits, or encounters the following concentrated situations, you should leave in time: First, the two sides are lovers, or the host is indifferent when talking, or even unwilling to take a reason; Second, although the owner is "serious", he repeatedly looks at his watch or the wall clock on the wall.

When you leave, you should greet your host and other family members, especially your elders, and sincerely invite them to your home. At the same time, I would like to thank the host for his friendly and warm reception.

What do you know about the reception etiquette at work?

Through visiting, people can get to know each other, exchange information, deepen feelings and enhance friendship. The following etiquette should be observed before visiting: pay attention to the time and necessity of visiting the appointment, choose the right time, and generally arrange it when the other party is free. "Uninvited guests" are usually unwelcome, because the arrival of uninvited guests will disrupt each other's life order and schedule, which is very impolite. If you can't keep the appointment because of special circumstances, you should explain the reasons, apologize and get the understanding of the other party, otherwise others will be dissatisfied with you and fail to achieve the expected communication effect.

When calling or writing to make an appointment, it is recommended to use the tone of request instead of imperative statement. When you find that the other party has a refusal or reluctance, you must not be aggressive, challenge the other party, and forcibly meet. Even if you are rejected, don't be angry with the other person. You should still say in a friendly and euphemistic tone, "well, I'll meet you at your convenience." I wish you all the best. " It is necessary to say some words of blessing and greeting. Warm words can impress the other person, make him feel sorry for you, and lay a good foundation for the next date.

There is a situation that must be avoided, that is, writing to tell the other party when to visit like a notice, and rushing to the door without waiting for the other party's answer. If others have other plans or more important things to do, your sudden arrival will make them feel embarrassed. Visiting is a matter for both sides, so we should respect each other and not act rashly, otherwise it will affect the friendly relations between people. Be punctual for appointments, and don't be late. If you can't arrive or go on time in case of emergency, you must inform the other party in advance in time to avoid the anxiety of waiting. It is the most impolite to stand up for no reason.

When you visit, you must be well dressed and groomed. No matter how close you are to each other's home, no matter how harmonious your relationship is, you should not wear vest, shorts and slippers, which is the greatest disrespect to your host. Take off your coat, hat and scarf after entering the house in winter, which means that you have come to a warm place and can't say "cold". In summer, you can't take off your shirt and pants no matter how hot it is.

The specific etiquette is this: make an appointment or notice by phone or letter in advance before visiting, and arrive on time. Ring the doorbell or knock at the door before entering, and the owner can only enter after agreeing. If no one answers the door, you can ring the doorbell or knock later (don't ring the doorbell for too long). In the offices of general organs, enterprises and institutions, because there are many people in the working environment and the telephone is interrupted, sometimes you can't hear after knocking at the door. Knock on the door for a while and you can push the door into the office; But ordinary private houses are not allowed to enter without the owner's permission.

After entering the room at the invitation of the host, if the conversation is short, you don't have to sit down and don't stay after it; If it takes a long time, sit down at the invitation of the host. When you see familiar people after entering the scene, you should always say hello and show friendliness. Nod when you see a stranger. If the host doesn't introduce all the strangers here to you, don't ask them about their relationship with the host.

The host asks you to sit down and say "thank you". Pour you tea, put your hands together and lean over to thank you. The host invites you to smoke, but you can't. You should say "thank you, I can't smoke". If the host doesn't let you smoke and you want to smoke, you usually say, "Excuse me, can I smoke?" Don't smoke until the host says "please"; Don't throw ash on the ground. If there is no ashtray, you can roll a piece of paper and play it in it. Don't underestimate these small details, it can make others feel good about you.

When visiting each other, you can bring a gift and say to the host, "A little something, a little thank you, please accept it." If you know that the other person has children at home, you'd better send some small toys or children's favorite food to show your concern. In each other's home, behave steadily. Besides reading magazines, don't read the owner's letters or notebooks, and don't open other people's drawers or bookcases casually. Don't look around and ask how much this or that item of the host's family is worth and where it comes from, because people are used to avoiding being asked about his private affairs.

Pay attention to your manners when visiting. Without the host's active invitation, you may not ask to visit the host's courtyard and house and touch the furnishings in the room. In the office, be careful not to talk too long and loudly, so as not to affect others' work. Visiting hours should generally not be too long. If the other person's mood is high, you may wish to chat for a while; If the other person is cold and absent-minded, or if the host and family ramble to pass the time and have nothing in common with you, then you must end the conversation immediately and prepare to leave. In this case, you should leave even if the host keeps you. At this time, the retention is often out of courtesy, not sincerity. If you find the host peeking at the watch, you should forgive yourself, because the host has ordered the guests to leave.