Learn to refuse others without hurting others (43 sentences)

Learn to refuse others without hurting them. Sentence (Part I) 1. Can politely refuse: If you can politely explain and politely refuse when you really have to, others will still be moved by your sincerity.

Every time you tell me that you need me, I can't bear to refuse. Someone once asked me why I never refused others. Can't bear to hurt, can also be understood as not knowing how to refuse. Why I won't refuse you. But, you are you, how can I have the heart to refuse?

Don't be afraid of "whether it will offend people", "whether it will make me not interesting enough" and "whether it will make him unhappy" ...

I learned to refuse to be busy in vain, but I didn't have time to experience the real coldness.

Soft-hearted people don't know how to refuse others. Soft-hearted people are good at swearing. Soft-hearted people will feel that it is their fault to refuse others.

6. Go against the customer and politely refuse. For example, borrowing money is a sensitive thing. Improper handling will cause economic losses or offend friends. What do you say when someone borrows money from you, knowing that he will definitely not pay it back, or that you really have no extra money? Don't say that I have no money, so I can't borrow it. Ask someone else. It would be much better to change the way. Suppose: we are in the same boat. I hesitated for two days and didn't have the courage to contact you. I need money now. I'm raising money everywhere. Now I don't have to call you. ...

7. When you learn to refuse others and learn to answer blows with blows, others will respect you and even fear you.

8. A true friend is never afraid of rejection. True friendship will not deteriorate because of one refusal.

10. Wu Xiao: The communication between us is still as difficult as it was many years ago. You don't realize it's pathetic. I didn't expect how many years of running-in can make you learn to avoid, learn to mature and learn to cherish, because you rejected the idea of correcting everything when you know you are wrong, and some people let you live in your own environment and be accommodated. In the running-in years, two people don't want to change, even if one person changes another, the result is the same. Such a relationship must be enough, and no amount of effort is self-measured. A person is multifaceted and cannot simply distinguish between good and bad, good and evil. In an encouraging or always found good environment, she can be gentle and considerate and unpretentious, but in an environment where she is entangled in the same problem again and again, she becomes crazy. An environment that is always accused of provocation and mistakes everywhere will make her fidgety and want to give up. Maybe as long as there is no love between us, we can only bind each other and hurt each other.

1 1. Heaven and earth provide endless fun for open-minded people to enjoy, but refuse narrow-minded people. (Hugo)

12. Rejection is a skill that human beings learn for better satisfaction. So, did the rejected people create better opportunities for the rejected people to meet?

13. Life is limited, so don't waste it in hesitation. Learn to refuse.

14. People who can't refuse to learn are the most vulnerable.

15. Why should we compromise with a fake smile? Because I don't know how to refuse, or I don't know how to refuse others without hurting others!

16. Maybe some friends will say that I am selfish and don't understand the importance of affection, friendship, colleague affection and marital affection, but I want to say: "When you promise others to do things that hurt you, your life will go downhill, and there may be no one to help you out."

17. If you know how to refuse, you can live without entanglement. Life is not easy. What you live is ultimately your decision.

18. I don't know how to refuse, I won't refuse, and my inner entanglement makes others misunderstand. When can I get rid of this problem?

19. A person's growth begins with learning to refuse.

20. People who really want to give you something won't ask if you want it. When someone asks you if you want it, you'd better refuse.

2 1. Only after separation from other places can we learn to refuse temptation, learn to fight for each other, embrace each other more tightly and grow old together.

22. The new year is coming, so that everyone can refuse others without embarrassment. If someone likes you, you say: thank you. That man won't have any other ideas.

Learn to refuse others without hurting them. 23. When your child learns to refuse, it means that he has learned to think. No matter whether this idea is reasonable or not, you should respect it.

24. Being kind, overbearing, generous, unprincipled, refusing, and learning to refuse others can lead a good life.

25. Learn to say no and learn to refuse. The standard answer is not 100% obedience, but a dialectical example. The more you do, the cheaper the better. The more sensible and kind you are, the easier it is to meet love rat. If you don't think of yourself, others won't think of you.

26. From now on, learning is cruel, because not knowing how to refuse will hurt my heart even more.

27. Laughter and crying are intertwined, and sadness and joy always appear repeatedly. When you cry, learn to forget. When you laugh, share it with others. No one wants to cry and no one refuses to laugh.

28. White lies are certainly not good, but white lies only give yourself a reason to refuse, and also protect each other's face. For example, a friend invites you to have a drink after work. You are tired and don't want to attend. You can't just say that you are too tired to go. This will embarrass the other party. And it's not good in the future, so we can find a reason to deal with it. For example, these days are really bad. I've had a toothache for some time, and I really can't go. Now I have to go to bed after dinner, and we'll make it up next time ... so that the other party thinks you can't come because of physical reasons, not because you don't want to.

29. The premise of saying "no" is that you have a "yes" in your heart, and you have clear and firm values, so you will naturally reject those things that go against your values. Saying "no" is not a gesture, and the highest level is not even saying "no", just going your own way.

30. If I tell you now: I love you, will you refuse me?

3 1. The suffering in life has taught us to endure it. Life is also ups and downs, joys and sorrows, which constitute the perfection of life: life does not need to refuse to be dull, nor does it need to be afraid of wind and rain. It is in dullness that we realize the true meaning of life and exercise people's strength in the wind and rain. It is in the bittersweet immersion that we become profound and richer in connotation.

32. Learn to refuse, learn to bear, learn to cheat, and learn to enjoy.

33. Learn to let go and forget. It's all over. Why don't you wake up from the nightmare?

Most of us like to wrap ourselves up and wear thick armor. We will not refuse. We lost the courage to speak, and even lost the ability to speak. We will only remain silent, remain silent. But sometimes silence hurts more than rejection, so we all learn to hurt each other.

35. Why do I always feel that rejecting others is just like doing something wrong by myself? I always find it difficult to do it for others.

36. If you don't know how to refuse others, you are afraid to see others' disappointed eyes, and you don't like to disturb others, you will always suffer. This character is hopeless, and it is hopeless in this life.

37. Refusal may hurt others. Don't refuse to be hurt by yourself!

Only life is sacred, but I refuse to sacrifice other people's lives for myself. (Roland)

39. Aries is simple but by no means simple. They just like to show their simple side. True sadness and pain, unless you are the most important person in her life, you will never see it. Maybe in a dark corner, when you can't see her expression clearly, there will be a flash of loneliness and sadness on her face. They look bold, but they are careful. She is sometimes hypocritical. Don't blame her. She chose hypocrisy because you forced her to do something she didn't want to do but couldn't refuse. She doesn't know how to refuse. What she is good at is getting herself into trouble. She doesn't want to upset you, so she wants to upset herself. She always stubbornly believes that she has extraordinary endurance. She thinks too strongly of herself and too fragile of others. She is always worried that her actions will hurt others. She didn't know that it was actually herself who was injured, but she just didn't know how to show it. She was confused and thought she was considered harmless by others. Don't think she is free and easy. Many times, she can't let go.

40. People who won't refuse, people who are lovable, people who live cautiously, people who are afraid of disturbing others and care about others' comments and opinions.

4 1. Reasonable rejection doesn't necessarily offend people, and unconditional acceptance will only make you live a humble life. A man must learn to refuse and dare to sayno. Learning to refuse is the beginning of being kind to himself and respecting others' refusal. No one is born to agree with all the demands of others.

42. You and your boyfriend are having dinner in a restaurant. When he went to the toilet, a man came to ask for your contact information. At this time, you should just refuse. The more euphemistic you are, the more you give the other person the illusion, and in the end it will hurt the other person more!

43. Learn to refuse, and don't take on what you can't do, which will only make the burden heavier and heavier. Sometimes the necessary refusal is to lighten the burden.

A collection of high emotional intelligence sentences that refuse to express the opposite sex without hurting people (60 sentences)

It doesn't hurt to say no to the opposite sex. Your tenderness is more suitable for the right girl.

I have decided not to associate with anyone.

Since you like me because of my face, you should accept me because your face doesn't like you.

You are very well. I wish you a happy family.

I really don't think I'm right for you.

6. I don't deserve you. You should find someone better.

I have always regarded you as my brother.

8. Do you want to try the feeling of doomsday? Want to back down? Then hurry up!

9. Do you know why I like to use color instead of color? Because I don't like "u"

10. I have been stung, and I have been stung by others.

1 1. What do you like about me that I can't change?

12. I like you, too. It's just that I used to like you, but I won't like you anymore. Men should be free and easy.

Thank you for liking me, but I don't like anyone.

You are really nice.

15. You meet the standard of being my friend, but you don't meet the standard of my boyfriend.

16. I still remember that we were front and back seats at that time, and our position created the story of those years.

17. You even value me. What else can't I do?

18. I can't change shifts correctly. A bad reason, but enough to stop you. )

19. file it first, and then read the document for discussion when you have time.

20. You like me and I like others, so you can only like others.

Refusing to express the opposite sex does not hurt people. Absurd method: In fact, it is possible for Mars to hit the earth, and it is not impossible for the Milky Way to drown the earth. You can even reach for the moon, what's more, you said you were pursuing me. You don't say! But you have to wait. After all, we are separated by several galaxies. I wonder if we can meet you hundreds of millions of light-years away. You wait, the universe is eternal, just like your waiting, my attitude.

Meeting you always reminds me of my childhood happiness.

23. Reason for refusal: Go ahead, I don't want you.

24. Men reject women: I don't like women, and women reject men: I don't like men.

25. Tell you what, when the national football team wins the World Cup, I will promise your confession.

In fact, I wish I could say this to you, but I can't lie under any circumstances.

27. Sorry, I'm not the cup of tea you want.

28. There are people who are better than me. They deserve your love.

29. The heart belongs, but it's not you.

30. Would you please stay away from me? Do you know how much psychological harm you have done to me? You make me despair of all the boys in the world! Leave me alone!

3 1. You can't give me what I want.

32. I think I need more space. I really don't want to see you.

33. This body is hard to be Summer Xu.

I wish I could tell you, but I can't lie.

35. My feelings for you are just those between friends. I hope you don't misunderstand me.

36. I just turned down another one yesterday, saying that I made up with my boyfriend.

37. I think I need more space.

I don't think I can give you the feeling you want. So it may be really inappropriate between us.

39. You're kidding!

40. You are really nice. I really don't want to be with you.

Rejecting the opposite sex does not hurt people. Everyone says so, and I'm used to it.

42. Everyone else is fine.

43. My monthly living expenses 10w. I dare not fall in love for fear that it will affect my dream.

If you like me, it must be a misunderstanding.

I know your heart, but I hate it unintentionally. I hope you can respect yourself and have a fate in the future.

46. Sorry, you are a good man! I don't think we are suitable.

47. The coldest thing: I don't think we are suitable for each other. Let's be friends!

48. It is easy to meet each other, but difficult to communicate. Two hearts are far apart, there is no need to disturb each other's safety.

49. But I will remember your tenderness. (lover! It's no use being gentle, you need Qian Qian)

50. I'm not worth your hurry.

5 1. I don't want to think about personal problems yet, but I want to work hard for a few years.

52. The most euphemistic: You are a good person, and you will find something better.

You are very kind, but I am not suitable for you.

There is nothing special about my type.

55. It's not that I don't know anything. I see everything you do in my eyes and keep it in my heart.

56. I'm not fit to be a lover. Nonsense, no one will be fit to be your lover.

57. If only we had known each other earlier. (Maybe you will wake up earlier)

58. Because I fell in love with Uncle Bird.

59. Sorry, I don't want to waste your time.

In order to make up for the ugly loss, God gave you the courage to confess?

It doesn't hurt to refuse the opposite sex you don't like (60 sentences)

It doesn't hurt to refuse the opposite sex you don't like (I) 1. Reason for refusal: I think it's good to be friends.

If there is next life, I will definitely marry you!

3. "Guess I like you", "Like" and "Guess again"

4. I don't like being together and regret it. What should I do?

5. Men reject women: I don't like women, and women reject men: I don't like men.

6. It's easy to meet each other, but difficult to communicate. Two hearts are far apart, there is no need to disturb each other's safety.

7. I have always regarded you as my brother or younger brother.

8. Sorry, I'm not the cup of tea you want.

9. The epidemic situation is not easy to talk about the importance of child's play and state affairs.

10. I'll introduce you to a good girl sometime.

1 1. That's very kind of you, but I'm sorry I can't read it in detail.

12. If you like my special, I am not special; If you like my Excellence, then I am not excellent. If you like me, I have nothing to like.

13. Meeting you always reminds me of my childhood happiness.

14. After eight years of getting along, I don't think our personalities are suitable.

15. Since you like me because of my face, you must accept me because your face doesn't like you.

16. I have a boyfriend

What do you like about me? I will change it. You are not my type.

18. I have a person in my heart. That man is what I use to stop people like you.

19. Wow, you have a good eye. Haha, but I still have no feelings for you. Keep it for the time being.

20. I just rejected another one yesterday, saying that I made up with my boyfriend.

Refuse to express your dislike to the opposite sex without hurting others (Chapter II) 2 1. My mother told me not to hurt others.

22. If you do this to me, I will have more than one man.

23. Take a deep breath: What did you say about me? Say it, I'll change it.

24. The teacher said: Don't quarrel with puppy love soon after the senior high school entrance examination, so as not to affect your mood; Don't confess without puppy love, lest rejection affect your mood.

25. You live at the head of the Yangtze River, and I live at the end of the Yangtze River. The spring water in one river tastes terrible.

26. Bragging without drafting: You look better than Pan An, you are richer than Shi Chong, you are better than Liu Yong, your poems are better than Li Bai, your words are better than Su Shi, and your spirit is better than Cao Cao. How can such a perfect man belong to me? I admire you, I admire you, but I really don't deserve you.

27. Sorry, I don't like you.

I care about you, but I don't love you.

29. You like me and I like others, so you can only like others.

30. You are a good person, and you will find something better.

3 1. You are not my type. No matter how long you pursue me, I will probably not be moved. You should find someone who loves you.

32. I have someone I like.

33. I am not afraid of thousands of people blocking me, but I am afraid that you will chase me.

34. I don't think I'm really suitable for you. I don't like you at all.

35. There are people who are better than me, and they deserve your love.

36. I am not as good as you think. Go out with really good people.

37. Actually, I am not suitable for you.

38. Our distance is too far. It's good to be friends, but I still want something.

In fact, I wish I could say this to you, but I can't lie anyway.

40. There are many flowers in the sea. Don't love a flower alone.

Rejecting the opposite sex you don't like doesn't hurt people (Part III) 4 1. When the national football team won the World Cup, we were together.

I don't think I can give you the feeling you want. So it may be really inappropriate between us.

43. Sorry, I'm married!

44. I want to sink with you for a century, but I am sentimental.

45. Sorry, I'm not the gummy bear you asked for.

46. Sorry, I have a toothache today, so we are not suitable.

47. What do you like about me? Can't I change it?

48. I'm not well at all

I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity.

50. You are like a sister in my heart. I think we'd better be friends.

5 1. Thank you for your liking, but I am not suitable for you. I will take what you said today as a big adventure. Good luck!

52. I am not suitable for anyone, not just you.

53. Life and work are so busy that I can't care about falling in love.

54. You are a good girl. I hope you can be with someone a hundred times stronger than me.

I don't want to hurt our friendship. There is only friendship between us forever.

Don't worry, we can be friends first. You can find a boyfriend at this time.

57. Sorry, I don't like you. Forget me.

58. There is a person in my heart. That man is what I use to stop people like you.

59. Reasons for refusal: We can talk about it later. I'm going to take this call.

60. Because I fell in love with Uncle Bird.

Some pleasantries that refuse others' confession without hurting people are universal (60)

Some pleasantries that refuse others' confession without hurting people (I) 1. Do you know why I like to use color instead of color? Because I don't like "u"

You meet the standard of being my friend, but you don't meet the standard of being my boyfriend.

My mother won't let me hurt anyone.

4. Our ages don't match.

I think your tenderness is more suitable for other girls.

Maybe you like the curved moon, but I am the moon of Mid-Autumn Festival.

7. How dare a pair of poor people get rich, and how dare a pair of clean hands miss beauty?

8. The epidemic situation is difficult to talk about the importance of child's play and state affairs.

9. Reasons for refusal: silence, no talking.

10. Reason for refusal: I used to be a man.

1 1. What? You're kidding!

12. "Guess I like you", "Like" and "Guess again"

13. According to the above reasons for refusal, if you are a woman, say: Are your breasts big enough? If you are a man, say: Is your bottom thick enough?

14. Take a deep breath: What do you say about me? Say it, I'll change it.

15. Be friends first.

16. It's better to forget each other in Jianghu.

17. I hold time in my hand. I will remain humble in every struggle, refuse to yell at you because of conflict, and promise not to give you a lonely place to turn around and be quiet. I hope my sincerity to spring can get your warm reply.

18. We are only suitable for brothers.

19. I know your heart, but I hate it unintentionally. I hope you can respect yourself and have a fate in the future.

20. You are so handsome, so cute, and so many people chase you. You are a heartthrob, you are perfect, and I don't deserve you!

Some pleasantries (Chapter II) 2 1 You can also ride your motorcycle. It's very convenient. Poor boy, how dare you pick me up without a car?

22. You are very kind, but my personality is not suitable for you. I think you are good. I believe you will find someone better than me in the future. Let's be friends again.

Don't worry, we can be friends first. You can find a boyfriend at this time.

24. You are so handsome that I am afraid of being beaten in the street.

25. It's not that I don't know anything. I see everything you do in my eyes and keep it in my heart. I feel your sincerity, thank you for your sincerity. Thank you for your respect and favor. It's very kind of you, but I can't accept it. I can't force my feelings.

26. This swan doesn't like lazy toads, okay?

27. If there is a next life, I will definitely marry you!

Don't worry, we can be friends first. I want to find my prince charming at this time.

29. There is a person in my heart. That man is what I use to stop people like you.

30. I fell in love with ice cream donuts. Tell them.

3 1. "I like you" and "Thanks for Lao Tie's support"

32. Sorry, I really didn't intend to fall in love with anyone.

33. I have always regarded you as my brother or younger brother.

I don't want to fall in love because it's too difficult. Please like others.

35. If you like my special, I am not special; If you like my Excellence, then I am not excellent. If you like me, I have nothing to like.

We know very little about each other.

37. If only we had known each other earlier.

38. Your will is profound, but your fate is shallow.

39. I already have someone I like.

40. I am not suitable for anyone, not just you.

Some polite sentences that refuse others to express their feelings without hurting others (Chapter III) 4 1. Thank you for liking me, and I like myself very much.

42. What do you like about me? I will change it. You are not my type.

43. You are a good girl. I hope you can be with someone a hundred times stronger than me.

44. Sorry, I'm married!

45. But I will remember your tenderness. (lover! It's no use being gentle, you need Qian Qian)

46. You are like a sister in my heart. 39. I think we'd better be friends.

Ah! Don't chase me because I don't have any urgent syrup.

48. I have always regarded you as my brother or younger brother!

49. You are very kind, but I can't accept it, and feelings can't be forced.

50. Reason for refusal: I think it's good to be friends.

5 1. I think I can't give you what you want.

I have already decided that I will not associate with anyone.

53. You are like a sister in my heart. I think we'd better be friends.

54. I hate you I hate it when I see you.

I don't think I can give you the feeling you want. So it may be really inappropriate between us.

56. Ha ha ha ha, are you kidding? I have someone I like, don't you know?

57. I'm not fit to be a lover. Nonsense, no one will be fit to be your lover.

58. Let's be friends.

You are a good girl, so I must refuse you.

60. If you want to fall in love in the future, you may not, but it doesn't matter.