20 kinds of speaking skills in dealing with people.

1. Dare to speak if you are desperate.

If you can overcome the fear of speaking, you will not only become eloquent and have a good eloquence, but also have a subtle influence on other aspects of you.

The truth can move the audience most.

When you speak, despite your enthusiasm and skill, everything you say is irrelevant and impossible. When you speak, you must focus on a center, classify your meaning reasonably, explain the problem clearly, and use examples consistent with this center. The above are the most basic requirements for speaking, but one thing needs to be noted. Your words must be from the heart. Conversation has a purpose, different purposes, different details, key points, etc., otherwise, your words can't express your thoughts.

3. True feelings are better than endless words.

In conversation, the true expression of feelings is more important than paying attention to gorgeous language. The criterion for evaluating a person's charm is not how fluent and eloquent he is, but whether his feelings are sincere.

Second, fight a sure battle.

If you want to speak, you should be prepared.

As the saying goes; Be prepared, a person is afraid to speak in front of everyone, often because the preparation work is not in place and he has no bottom in his heart. It must be understood that under no circumstances can we fight an uncertain war.

5. Make it clear before you can make it clear.

"Knock yourself out and make people shine" is the main reason why many people fail. If you know everything you say, how can you not understand?

6. Words need to be easy to understand in order to last forever.

Speak concisely and clearly. Don't grab your eyebrows and beard, and you can't grasp the main points. If you want others to understand you, then what you say should be clear, say it first and then say it.

7. Remember each other's names, and you will win a good impression.

Although the name is only a person's code name, people still attach great importance to their own names. Remembering the other person's name in the process of speaking is one of the effective ways to get the other person's good impression.

8. Read more good books and increase your knowledge.

If you make up your mind to study and stick to it, your vocabulary will be gradually enriched, your language will become more elegant, and slowly, you will have the brilliance, beauty and noble temperament of the protagonist in your book.