A 6-year-old mother-in-law's high emotional intelligence: I never argue with my daughter-in-law, so it's good to help them. What do you think?

The problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is often difficult to solve because mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't know how to take care of each other.

Many people say that it is always difficult to solve the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Every woman always brings up the same topic when talking to others after marriage, that is, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

But is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really as difficult as we have heard? Actually, it is not.

Xiaoli and Xiao Wang met freely in love, and everything went smoothly from acquaintance to love. With the passage of time, the two men also reached the age of marriage, and they also entered the marriage hall with the good wishes of their parents. However, after marriage, Xiaoli is still very happy. Those so-called mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, Xiaoli has never met.

Xiaoli says that her mother-in-law takes care of and cares for herself very much, and that her mother-in-law never competes with her for home. When she needs help, her mother-in-law always tries her best to help us, and they never compare Xiaoli with other people's daughter-in-law.

As for Xiaoli's mother-in-law, as long as she can get enough help, she will help without complaining. For a long time, Xiaoli and her mother-in-law have never been unhappy, so naturally there will be no so-called mother-in-law problem.

and Xiaoli's mother-in-law has always adhered to a principle, that is? As long as the small family is good, she has no regrets in whatever she does.

In fact, we can see that Xiaoli's mother-in-law is a person with high emotional intelligence, and we can also see Xiaoli's mother-in-law's high emotional intelligence through some other little things in life.

After Xiaoli gave birth to the baby, before she could let her mother-in-law take care of herself, she came to Xiaoli's home to take care of her. When she was in confinement, Xiaoli's mother-in-law could do everything. Let others find no problem at all.

And when the child is a little older, Xiaoli's mother-in-law also took the initiative to help Xiaoli to take care of the child, because Xiaoli's mother-in-law knew that Xiaoli was reluctant to give up her original job, and Xiaoli's mother-in-law saw this and took the initiative to explain it directly.

And when Xiaoli's mother-in-law and Xiaoli live under the same roof, Xiaoli's mother-in-law never asks about Xiaoli's private affairs, which is a principle of Xiaoli's mother-in-law.

In fact, many times the so-called mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem is because one of them is too overbearing and stubborn, which will lead to the deterioration of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In a family, whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be handled well depends on whether the scale between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law can be properly grasped. No matter which side is too overbearing, it is necessary to make the other side submit to its own. If both want each other to listen to themselves, then naturally there will be more contradictions between the two people.

And if two people can get along well with each other in the so-called mother-in-law relationship, and pay attention to each other's attitude and ideas in many things, will there still be the so-called intractable mother-in-law problem?

And once Xiaoli's younger sister has been staying here for half a year, but Xiaoli's mother-in-law has always been very caring and caring for Xiaoli's younger sister, and there is no dislike in it.

Xiaoli was also afraid that her sister's staying here for so long would cause her mother-in-law's unhappiness, so she went to explain the reason to her mother-in-law, but Xiaoli's mother-in-law said that it didn't matter if she was a family. Besides, she can be my companion when she comes. I'm worried that I'm too bored here.

For Xiaoli's family, no matter how long she stays, Xiaoli's mother-in-law has no problem, and she has a consistent attitude towards them no matter how long.

In fact, it can be seen from this that Xiaoli's mother-in-law has a high emotional intelligence. Nowadays, many people's mother-in-law can't see their daughter-in-law's relatives living in their own homes for too long, even for a few days, and they will be embarrassed.

and a person who doesn't even respect his daughter-in-law's family, let alone respect and understand his daughter-in-law? Naturally, it will be bad for her.

and no matter who, a person who is not good to you, how can you be good to them? In this way, the so-called mother-in-law problem will not come out again?

So as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can understand and respect each other, there will be no so-called mother-in-law relationship.