A woman's happiness should be created by herself.

A woman's happiness should be created by herself.

In the process of urbanization, women have never had the right to education, nor the right and opportunity to work; Similarly, women have to face the pressure and choices from the society. More and more problems require women to think, choose and act with more wisdom and cleverness. We will gradually realize that the original process of growth is a process of continuous learning; It turns out that happiness never has a destiny, and destiny is ourselves.

Pursuing happiness is an eternal topic. Every woman is eager to have a beautiful appearance, elegant temperament, sweet love and a happy marriage. However, happiness never falls from the sky, but is in our own hands.

Smart women know how to strive for happiness by themselves, rather than relying on charity from others; Smart women know how to get happiness actively, not passively. If a woman wants to be happy, she must rely on hard work, nine points of wisdom, seven points of inspiration, six points of curiosity and five points of luck, and the rest is our daily practice.

In fact, as long as you are good enough, nothing is a problem.

To be good enough, you need to explore all the possibilities, creativity, wisdom and insight in yourself, and look directly at the hesitation, fragility and infinite possibilities contained in yourself.

A woman's happiness doesn't have to be successful in her career or attractive. The key is a state of mind, wisdom and charm. Countless facts have proved that the key to women's happiness is self-esteem, self-respect and courage. When dealing with family and career problems, we should pay attention to overcoming the weaknesses of human nature, giving full play to the advantages of human nature, and giving full play to the potential intelligence of women, so as to obtain happiness in life.

Therefore, happiness is a feeling. If you think you are a happy woman, then you are happy. If you think you are an unfortunate woman, then happiness will pass you by. Grasping happiness is actually very simple. Happiness has come to you when you do housework or work happily with light tunes.

The inspirational classic of caring for the soul is the spiritual mentor of a beautiful life, which allows you to constantly cultivate yourself, realize your life with your heart, and become the happiest woman in the world.

Those warm and thought-provoking words will tell us how to position ourselves in the fierce social competition and how to deal with various problems in love and family. At the same time, this book also links Carnegie's insight into women with China's national conditions and real life, and analyzes the specific situation, giving everyone an accurate interpretation of the image and bringing practical happiness reference and considerate and warm care to every woman and female friend who is about to enter the marriage hall.

True happiness is simple, it exists in every detail of our lives. Face life with a grateful heart, and you will be the happiest woman in the world.

Mind Care: Woman, please nourish your mind.

In life, many women neglect to nourish their hearts, and such women will be imprisoned in a narrow world. A woman who can run a business will take time out, decorate herself, nourish herself and enrich herself in the drag of the world and busy all day. Only a woman who constantly nourishes her soul, life will get better and better.

Women are beautiful because they are cute.

Women are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute. As a woman, beautiful appearance is good, but beautiful appearance is by no means the only condition that constitutes beauty.

Since ancient times, women have been the symbol of beauty. However, with the continuous renewal of human concepts (including beauty vision, beauty feeling, beauty taste, beauty experience, beauty connotation, etc.). ), men no longer regard the intuitive beauty embodied in women as the only standard, but pay more attention to those accessories that can constitute beauty, such as romance.

It can be said that if a woman wants to capture happiness with interest, she should create a hazy book for herself with romance as the cover.

Our life can be plain and simple, but we can't lack interest. A smart woman with an orchid heart and a scheming mind must know how to extract colorful interests from the triviality of life.

Henry thoreau said: When we come into this world, we have reason to enjoy life. In fact, you don't need much material support to enjoy life, because there is not much difference between the poor and the rich in their feelings of happiness. We can cultivate the joy of life through photography, collection and walking.

Happy motivation

The art of living can be expressed in many ways. A gathering of family or friends, an ordinary gift can bring endless fun and vitality to our life.

A little comfort is better than being very sexy.

What kind of women do men like to get along with? The answer is comfort! Maybe you will be surprised, why not beautiful, not beautiful, not sexy, but that's it.

At the end of World War II, all the men who served in the army accepted a survey, which included the question: What is the marriage life you are eager to dream of? Surprisingly, all the tough guys in military uniforms have surprisingly similar answers. The marriage they long for is not the feminine and sexy body curve of a coquettish woman, but the simple and ordinary comfort!

Obviously, in the minds of most men, an ounce of comfort is worth a pound of sexy charm! If what men need is comfort, as a woman who loves him and wants his love, why not give them what they want most?

Easy-going and considerate

Dorothy Dix once said that the first condition for a man to choose a wife is to have a good temperament. You know, men would rather eat instant noodles in a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere than enjoy food with a woman with a sad face and constant complaints.

Indeed, women's easygoing and considerate have such great magic. A man once admitted that if he had to choose between a poor but happy and gentle woman and a rich bitch, he would not hesitate to choose the former.

Be good at adapting

Generally speaking, women don't do anything on a whim. Therefore, men will never understand why women plan a movie a few weeks in advance; However, when he temporarily decided to go to the suburbs for a holiday, women often refused on the pretext that she didn't have suitable clothes to wear.

Even if a man's sudden ideas will make a methodical woman feel bored, there is nothing to lose when a woman tries something new occasionally, and sometimes it can enhance mutual understanding and happiness. Conforming to a man's mood is a foolproof magic weapon to win his heart!

How to adapt to men's emotional changes, how to seize the opportunity in getting along with men, and how to skillfully resolve this contradiction all require you to study hard.

Be true to yourself

A girl who has always been quiet and introverted suddenly has some strange behaviors, such as laughing loudly in public, which she thinks will make herself the focus of attention at the scene.

However, men are not as stupid as you think. They know how to judge and tell the truth from the false. Being true to yourself is the only correct choice for mature women.

It is puzzling that many women who are usually smart are always confused in this respect. They think it is neither mature nor wise to confuse men just by changing their dress style. You know, a leopard cannot change his spots, and no one can change his character. It is better to admit it honestly, not to mention that there is nothing wrong with his character itself. Smart women can give full play to their own advantages, get rid of their own shortcomings, let themselves show their best style and show their true self.

Proud of being a woman.

In any case, if a woman thinks that all men are not good people and feels cheated by nature and human beings, then it is difficult for her to get men's love. But it doesn't matter, anyway, in her own words: I hate them, I don't care!

In any case, everyone should happily accept their gender. This attitude is healthy and a sign of emotional maturity. Without this attitude, it is difficult to talk about real happiness between men and women, and the most important marriage field in life will be reduced to a battlefield without exception.

The art of getting along with men can't be reduced to a set of precise formulas, because people's personalities are different, and men and women are very different in many ways. However, the principles we have described are summarized from the personal experiences of many women. Although it is not perfect, it points out some ways to get along with each other for seven days of loneliness.

We all hope that in this beautiful world, men and women will no longer confront each other like natural enemies, but hand in hand and heart in heart, work and play together in friendship and love, and live together forever.

Be capable, but don't act too capable. Obviously, men nowadays are completely spoiled. To have both, women need to be attractive enough, at the same time, they need to have a mind to do things, and if necessary, they need to take out their own income to support their families or his career. In other words, a woman should not only be a successful and independent woman, but also remember that she is still a woman.

In fact, it is not difficult to be an ideal woman in a man's mind. A smart woman will try to show that she is an indispensable right-hand man of the boss at work and a gentle and lovely little woman after work, so that she will take good care of you and never give up.

Women should rely on their own famous sayings

1. A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic.

2. Be confident, and then go all out. With this idea, nine times out of ten everything will succeed.

3. People with great tolerance should not be arrogant.

Let's turn our worries into thinking and planning beforehand!

Anyone who makes excuses for failure will always fail, although he is comforted.

6. Only those who keep looking for opportunities will seize them in time.

The most important thing in the world is not where we are, but where we are going.

8. Obstacles and failures are the most reliable stepping stones to success. If you are willing to learn and use them, you can cultivate success from failure.

9. Mediocre people will kill time, and capable people will kill time.

10, everyone is respected by his own ability.

1 1. In real life, every great undertaking begins with confidence, and the first step is taken from confidence.

12, many people are not enough to rely on, you have to live on your own.

13, confident people don't doubt others, others also believe. He who doubts himself doesn't trust others, and others doubt him.

14, a person dares to expose his weaknesses, which shows that he is confident and strong.

15, confident people can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic.

16, great undertakings are not accomplished by strength, speed and physical agility, but by the strength of character will and knowledge.

17, if the direction of life is wrong, stopping is progress.

18, when the external pressure increases, the internal power should be strengthened.

19, look at the sky, look at the ground and look at yourself.

No matter what stilts you step on, you can't leave your own feet.

2 1, a protagonist must be a genius. But genius lies in self-confidence and in one's own strength.

22. Successful people do what others don't want to do, do what others dare to do, and do what others can't!

23. The food earned by your own labor is the best.

24. Confidence and pride are different; Confident people are often calm, and proud people are often arrogant.

25. It is my self-confidence that enables me to float in the quagmire of life without getting into trouble.

26. Take life seriously and be lively.

27. Success requires cost, and time is also a cost. Cherishing time means saving costs.

28. There is a difference between self-confidence and conceit, but the word difference is a world of difference. I especially hope that I can be confident and not conceited.

29. Determination is the gateway to career, and work is a door-to-door journey.

Humor is a sign that employees have confidence in their careers and that they have advantages.

3 1, I would rather open the future on my own than seek the favor of the powerful.

32. The ideal of life is for the ideal life.

I only have one suggestion for you. Be your own master.

34. Self-esteem is not belittling people, self-confidence is not complacency, and independence is not isolation.

35. People should have the ability of self-confidence. When judging right or wrong, they should start from their own conscience, not everyone's right or wrong.

36. He has a kind of confidence and calmness under the restriction of reason. This is because he is broad-minded and ambitious.

Indecision without ideal is a sad psychology.

38. Nine times out of ten, those who can seize the opportunity to stay ahead will succeed.

39. Whether a person has achieved anything depends only on his self-esteem and self-confidence.

40. The food earned by your own labor is the best.

4 1, any point on the earth is at the same distance from the sun.

42. No matter how brilliant your talent and knowledge are, if you lack enthusiasm, it will be like drawing cakes on paper to satisfy your hunger, which will not help.

No matter where you are, your own happiness depends on your own creation and search.

44. Apart from personality, the biggest loss in life is losing self-confidence.

45. Only through hard work can we become good steel.

46. Try to pile up ordinary days into a great life.

47. Someone can make you suffer, which shows that you are not practicing enough.

48. Confidence is the conqueror of mankind; It overcomes people and exists in people's hearts.

49. Believe in yourself before others will believe in you.

50. Not being confident is not because of difficulties, but because of not being confident.

5 1, those who lose money lose less, those who lose health lose more, and those who lose courage lose everything.

52. The belief in success is like an alarm clock in the brain, which will wake you up when you need it.

53. Any qualitative change in performance comes from the accumulation of quantitative changes.

Although pessimists are still alive, optimists will never get old.

55. If you don't have self-confidence, it's really bad! If you don't believe in yourself or doubt yourself, it's nothing worse.

56. Life is a pain, and it is thought and philosophy that make it rise.

If we all do our best, we will really surprise ourselves.

58. The most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of you.

59. The curtain of the life stage may open at any time. The key is whether you are willing to perform or choose to escape.

60. Firm confidence can make ordinary people do amazing things.

6 1, firmly believe in your own ideas and believe that what you are looking for in your heart must also be suitable for others. This is a genius.

62. Lack of self-confidence often leads to some budding geniuses committing suicide.

63. Go deep into your heart and find that all miracles are in yourself.

64. People who depend on themselves and have everything can't be unhappy.

65. A person can't bring confidence to others unless he has confidence; Only the persuaded can convince others.

66. Every day is a beginning. Take a deep breath and start over.

No matter how long the road is, you can go on step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet.

Please be confident. You are a landscape, there is no need to look up in other people's landscapes.

69. The strongest person in this world is the one who stands alone.

70. Success depends on others, not on yourself!

7 1, don't forget the distance you decided to reach because of one setback.

72. It's never too early or too late to care about your soul.

73, relying on mountains to eat mountains, relying on the sky to eat. Rely on it and you will find it. In the end, you have to rely on yourself.

74. As a creator, I hold the attitude that I can constantly put forward new ideas and create my own works.

75. Courage is the middle road between self-confidence and fear.

76. Looking back sadly, you can look around and look up confidently.

Only with the support of great confidence can inventors have the courage to advance in the unknown world.

78. Happiness is the fragrance of the soul and the harmony of the singing soul. The most beautiful music of the soul is sympathy.

If you have no self-confidence, you will never be happy.

80. Endure the unbearable pain of others, eat what others can't eat, and finally reap what others can't eat.

8 1, the condition of success lies in courage and self-confidence, which come from a sound mind and a healthy body.

A woman should rely on her own sentences.

6. Don't refuse to start a new relationship because of the death of the old one. Life will make you understand that meeting anyone has its meaning. Sometimes it is a test for you, sometimes it is a use for you, and sometimes it is an instruction for you. But most importantly, some people will make your light go out.

7. When no one is with you, walking in a place where no one is there, talking to the open air and communicating with nature is your own heart injury, so you must learn to recuperate in silence; When no one is with you, you can have a Weibo alone, torture your soul, dissect your spirit, and tell yourself to go on bravely even if you are lonely.

8. Life is a process full of regrets. It would be a pity to speak disrespectfully and hurt relatives and friends; Dream, welcome, there will be regrets; Poor planning, efforts in vain, there will be regrets. Life regrets are all the time and everywhere. It doesn't matter if you have regrets. The important thing is not to complain or regret, but to resolve and delete regrets.

9. Work hard and live a comfortable life; Live comfortably and live hard. I want to send you a message that a good woman will not come to a good end unless you find a good husband. What makes us move on after constant disappointment? It is something called hope. Cool is not only music and packaging, but also an attitude towards life.

10, breaking up is not something you say casually. It hurts to talk too much. You and your man only have 1 break up, which means you really decided to break up in your heart. You've been thinking about it for a long time. You think this man is not suitable for you. It is a waste of time for you to continue. Breaking up for your own happiness is the most rational choice, and you have no regrets. So please say goodbye bravely.

Survival depends on one's own inspirational phrases

1, self-confidence is the essence of a hero. Emerson

2. Self-confidence and self-reliance are strong pillars. -England

3. Go deep into your heart and find that all miracles are in yourself. bacon

4. Everyone should have self-esteem, self-confidence and independence, otherwise he is a slave. -Xu Teli

5. Every point on the earth is at the same distance from the sun. Burton

6. Our confidence in ourselves will make others have confidence in us. Laroche Foucault

7. Apart from personality, the biggest loss in life is losing self-confidence. Pershing

8. A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic. -Bernard Shaw

9, firm confidence, can achieve ordinary people, amazing career. Ma Erdun

10, please savor everything left by the pain! Once the suffering is over, it becomes sweet. -Goethe

1 1, because your existence makes others happy, you call it a friend; Because of your existence, others stand out, you are a coach; Because of your existence, make others strong, and you are the leader.

12. The extent to which a thing hurts you has nothing to do with its origin, but depends on your attitude towards it.

13, 1 Everyone should have self-esteem, self-confidence and independence, otherwise he is a slave. But self-esteem is not belittling people, self-confidence is not complacency, and independence is not an arc. -Xu Teli

14, since God has given talents, let them find jobs! -Li Bai

Self-confidence is the first secret of success-Emerson

16, believe in yourself first, and others will believe you. -romain rolland

17, many people are not enough to rely on, you have to live on your own. -Napoleon

18, I only have one suggestion for you-be your own master. -Napoleon

19, labor makes people build confidence in their own rational power. Gorky

20. Believe in your own ideas and believe that what you are looking for in your heart must also be suitable for others. This is a genius. Emerson

2 1, whoever gives up halfway and has shaken confidence is a weak-willed person; Whoever makes up his mind and lacks flexibility is a fool. -Knowles

22. Humor is a sign that employees have confidence in their careers and that they have advantages. -Engels

23. Open your heart to vanity, speak for Kan Kan, gain the trust of others and exchange secrets. La Rochefoucauld

24. The higher the status, the higher the self-evaluation, the stronger the self-confidence and the stronger the ability. We can always show harmony and equality with the environment. -Herzlitt

25. A man is brave when he feels confident about the right thing at the right time and under the corresponding conditions. -Aristotle