I never know how to make a decision for myself. I always look forward and backward.

Do you know what determines your life? That is, you should learn to recognize what should be done, and don't waste your energy on trivial things easily.

"With a clear goal, all obstacles can be eliminated." disraeli.

A serious decision is not just an expression, it means that you don't think about it except doing so, just like saying, "I decided to quit smoking." It means that you will never touch any cigarettes again, even if you don't consider breaking the rules under any circumstances.

If you are such a "standard" person, I believe you can understand what I said above. Unfortunately, few of us make such a decision seriously.

"Life is doomed at the moment you make a decision." Anthony Robbins

If you want to be happy in life forever, you must make an important decision, that is, make good use of everything life has given you. If you really understand the goal of your efforts, if you really want to work hard, if you know what is effective, if you can adjust your practices in time and make good use of what God has given you, then nothing is impossible in life.

Want to be depressed, can you do it at once? I believe it's no problem for you, as long as you focus on the things that made you unhappy in the past. Each of us must have had some sad experiences. If we keep thinking about these things deliberately and keep thinking about them in our hearts, we will soon be troubled. I don't know if you have seen some horrible movies. If it is really bad, will you watch it again and again? I'm sure you won't be so stupid, because watching that bad movie won't do you any good. So why do you often recall those memories that make you feel unhappy in your mind? Why do you always want to play your least favorite role? Why are movies with career failures and decision-making mistakes repeatedly staged? Of course, these bad films are not limited to the actual experience in the past, but also include things that have not happened and are worried in advance.

How can you die when you are born? Obviously, between life and death, through choice and training, they become what they want to be (can you allow a natural doctor to see you, or a natural lawyer to defend you in court). In fact, we will never see a woman give birth to a winner or a loser. She can only have boys or girls. I once saw a man stand up and say, "I am a self-made man." But I have never seen anyone say, "I made my own failure." They always point their forefinger at others and accuse them. Some of them said, "My parents delayed my success." Someone said, "My wife (or husband) doesn't understand me." Others blame teachers, missionaries or bosses. Say they are too old or too young, too fat or too thin, too tall or too short, or they were born in the wrong place. Incredibly, some people even complain that their birthdays and constellations are wrong. I firmly believe that "excuses for losers" are considered rubbish. Stop making excuses for yourself, you can make a difference. Others pointed the finger at the society and complained that everyone affected his success. Now remind you of a problem. When you point your index finger at others and accuse others, more people point their index finger at you. Your success and happiness can only begin with yourself.

The saddest thing in life is to hear someone say, "If only I could walk, run, jump, sing, dance, think and concentrate like others." That actually means: "If I can have other people's abilities, what else can't I do?" Friend, if you don't use your own ability, you can't even pick peaches with the help of others. You are deceiving yourself.

Life will tell you that the more you use your talents, the more it will flow; The less you use it, the more it will dry up.

Personally, I think that a good life comes from an ordinary life. They may be those who have polio or blindness, but they refuse to find any "excuses for failure" for themselves, thus becoming quite successful and happy. The story of their disability is the most wonderful story we have ever heard. These people are all.

Believe: "People are born with talents beyond mediocrity in order to achieve their career and enjoy success." When you accept this, you will find that we don't have to complain about anything in the face of any difficulties. In short, go ahead, because you are omnipotent. At work, I often see some people fail, but I have never seen anyone fail. What needs to be reminded is that you should know that the present and the future are in your own hands.

Don't be idle, you will lose your head.

Most people always wait for others to get everything ready before starting to do it. They don't want to climb trees, because they don't know that fruits are always hanging on branches, not falling down and being picked up. They don't want to bet on themselves. For them, the end of the game of life is the day when they completely fail. Their epitaph reads "Born in 1942, died in 1974 and was buried in 1997", and there is nothing else to write about.

Do you know those people who just want to lose weight, pursue advanced studies, attend public speaking classes, beautify lawns, go to churches and clubs, etc? , but never really do it? These people who talk but don't practice and don't do it tomorrow are always waiting and finally accomplish nothing. They waited for all the red lights to turn green before leaving home, and as a result, they would never leave home. In fact, just thinking about not doing it or doing it tomorrow means never doing it.

Really, you can get what you want. As long as you are confident, success is not difficult, but first you must be confident. You are on your way to success. Anyone who doesn't believe in himself and doesn't make full use of his talents is literally stealing himself and what he loves. Moreover, in this process, his creativity has declined, which is equivalent to stealing social wealth. No one will steal from themselves on purpose. Obviously, they were unintentional. Nevertheless, this kind of crime is very serious. Because the loss is as big as the loss caused by intentional behavior. The question is obvious: do you want to stop stealing from yourself? I am optimistic that you have started to move towards your goal.

If you think you are a valuable person, then you are valuable; On the contrary, if you don't think you are valuable, then you really won't be valuable.

If you want to be happy in life forever, you must make an important decision, that is, make good use of everything life has given you. If you really understand the goal of your efforts, if you really want to work hard, if you know what is effective, if you can adjust your practices in time and make good use of what God has given you, then nothing is impossible in life. We should learn how to save time and money, avoid detours and make ourselves have the ability to succeed in the future.

There are bound to be some problems in front of your life, but if you want to get rid of the fence, you can climb over it, you can dig through it, you can dig a tunnel through it, or you can find a door to walk through. No matter how long the wall is, it can't resist people's determination and perseverance, and it will fall down sooner or later. The human spirit is hard to restrain; As long as you have the desire to win, the desire to succeed, the desire to shape your life, and the desire to master your life, there will be no problems you can't solve, difficulties you can't overcome, and obstacles you can't cross. When you decide to control your own life, Zhan Zhan will no longer be trapped by your experience, but depends on your decision, your life will change and you will be able to control it. ...