Talking about making mistakes and blaming yourself.

First, people who make mistakes are actually full of self-blame, anxiety and shame in the face of mistakes. If the other party doesn't blame, it will give birth to some gratitude and relief.

2. I have been blaming myself. If I hadn't made a mistake, if I hadn't done something special in my mind, would the result be different? But it's long over. Let's go on, but it's not that easy.

Third, it is really difficult to control emotions in front of children, especially when children make mistakes. I keep yelling and losing my temper every day. If they don't obey me, I will either threaten or scold or yell at the prisoners. In addition, I really don't know what to do, because I don't have the energy to teach and reason patiently, but every time I lose my temper, I feel particularly guilty, especially sorry for my children. I am really not a qualified mother!

4. I suddenly feel that there are several hurdles in my heart, blocking me like a wall. I can't get out and no one outside can get in, but I only blame myself and feel guilty. I don't know when there is always a voice in my heart saying don't make mistakes, but I still keep it a secret. Alas, the recent disappointment is greater than everything. ...

Everyone makes mistakes. Absolutely, don't make yourself an exception. Think you'll never make mistakes. Think you'll never make mistakes. Thinking about who you are, how can you make mistakes? This is a very conceited performance! It will crush people. Don't blame yourself too much. Try to change it.

Sixth, I made a mistake ... this remorse in my heart! I completely forgot the most important point.

7. Life is so hard, but I gradually learned to be numb. I used to think I would be sad and blame myself for making mistakes. Now I am as calm as a god, not thinking about what others will think, but it is always difficult to complain and make a decision. Suddenly I feel that this year has been very difficult, and the next six months are even more painful. I never want my life to go faster. After all, people who can't be free and easy feel that they don't like to suffer losses. They can only say that they are cheap, have no courage and no ability.