Liu Yushuang talked about how to cultivate the quality of self-improvement based on his own reality.

First of all, we must understand what self-improvement is. Self-improvement is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Self-improvement is a spirit, a belief and a realm that supports China people to stand on their own feet among the nations of the world. It is the endless blood flowing in the veins of Chinese civilization and the treasure handed down from generation to generation by the people of China.

Try to be stronger.

After liberation, the people of China inherited the traditional virtue of self-improvement. Encouraged by Mao Zedong's call for "independence and self-reliance", they won a great victory in socialist construction. Today, with the development of socialist market economy, we must also carry forward the virtue of self-improvement to adapt to the increasingly fierce competition. Self-improvement ethics, that is, Confucius repeatedly emphasized "doing things for yourself." The so-called "self-improvement" and "self-seeking" mainly emphasize the following contents:

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Self-improvement first requires self-reliance, establishing the concept of relying on oneself instead of others, completely getting rid of the slavery psychology of blindly relying on others, drawing a clear line with the luck psychology of relying on others' gifts, and putting personal interests and happiness on the basis of their own efforts. Strive for your own interests, don't ask others to do it, don't ask others to give gifts. This is because the interests won by others are not real personal interests, and the dependence formed by the all-encompassing complex will eventually turn into attachment and form a new slavery relationship. Therefore, the standard of self-improvement requires not only yourself, but also others to stay out of it. Self-reliance requires autonomy, that is, being responsible for yourself, being responsible for yourself, and constantly striving for self-improvement.

Take your destiny into your own hands. Of course, the autonomy we are talking about is by no means self-enclosed, but emphasizes that the main aspect of contradiction lies in itself and the main responsibility lies in itself. Friendship and assistance are secondary and auxiliary in striving for their own interests. At the same time, only self-reliance can win friendship and assistance.

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The standard of self-improvement needs self-confidence, self-confidence, full understanding of oneself and confidence in one's own strength. Only confident people can be independent and have no illusions about others. People who are attached to others are often people who lack self-confidence. Self-confidence is strength, and strength comes from self-confidence. People shrink back because they lose confidence, and people stand on their own feet because they have confidence. Self-confidence is not arrogance and narcissism. Self-confidence is based on a comprehensive understanding of oneself. Confidence is not thinking that you can do anything, but believing in your courage, confidence and perseverance to overcome difficulties, and believing that you will do it as well as possible. The essence of self-confidence is a self-sworn determination. Confidence is not distrust of others. On the contrary, people who fully trust comrades and the environment will have real self-confidence. Full knowledge and understanding of the surrounding conditions and environment, and respect for friendship and support are the conditions for building self-confidence. Self-confident people will stick to their independent consciousness and the development of their potential. Self-improvement norms depend on the support of self-confidence, which is an essential element of self-improvement norms.

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Self-improvement norms inevitably require self-motivation, self-motivation, self-motivation and self-motivation. That is to stimulate their enthusiasm, as their own power source, to start themselves, start themselves. Whether it is self-determination or self-confidence, it is bound to stay in action, in a positive attitude towards life, and in the development of life full of hope and passion. A promising philosophy of life, an optimistic attitude towards life, active pioneering action and high-spirited spirit are the true meaning of "self-improvement". Don't be pessimistic, decadent, don't give up, mobilize the activity energy contained in your whole life to create life.

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Self-improvement requires self-blame. Self-reproach means self-reproach and courage to take responsibility. In social life, there are successes and failures, gains and losses, honor and disgrace, luck and misfortune. Self-improvement requires that success, failure, gain, loss, honor, misfortune and happiness should be attributed to oneself, instead of complaining about others, and find reasons from oneself. External cause is the condition of change, internal cause is the basis of change, and external cause works through internal cause. Although everyone knows this truth, it has become common sense, but when it comes to personal experience, especially when it comes to unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory situations, some people will blame leaders, colleagues and objective conditions, and attribute personal setbacks to objective environment, or take it out on others, and they will be suspicious. Or from resentment to depression, self-abandonment, broken pots and broken falls, willing to degenerate without knowing it, thus self-destructing the future. Complaining about others in the face of difficulties and setbacks is a fear and cowardice of difficulties, a doubt and distrust of one's own ability, and a long-term ambition of others to destroy one's prestige. This cognitive attribution will cause frustration and self-atrophy. A self-reliant person must be a person who dares to blame himself; Only those who dare to blame themselves can be self-reliant. The norm of self-improvement is not only the norm of personal cultivation, but also used at three levels. First, a country and a nation should have the spirit of self-improvement. Second, the norm of self-improvement is used at the group level. Every unit must constantly strive for self-improvement in order to be invincible. Third, self-improvement norms should be used in personal morality, and self-improvement should be realized in the journey of life.

-Baidu Encyclopedia

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