What kind of experience is it when your girlfriend is too grumpy? Can you elaborate?

1. It is more common to feel wronged, because in any case, the girlfriend you choose is spoiled by yourself. If you choose this girlfriend, his bad temper can only be chosen by yourself. We can't say that you gave her to others and let others accept her temper.

2. I think it is a very happy thing to have a girlfriend with a particularly bad temper, because such a girlfriend is usually indifferent in appearance, hot in heart, kind-hearted, and willing to pay a lot for you and everything for their family and everything they have. I feel very helpless. Sometimes when she is angry, I don't want to argue with her, but I don't want to have a powder keg around her, which will annoy her inadvertently. But these people are often sincere. Sometimes they feel that they cherish such a girlfriend, and they love and hate it.

3. This will be very contradictory. Usually, I think she is a person with special opinions and personality. She is still full of fun to fall in love with her. She doesn't feel bored every day. Occasionally, she will be stiff. If her temper is too sudden, she will feel more and more disgusted with herself and feel that she is impolite.

4. Ignoring the "equality principle" of emotion, we can see from your information that in the past, you were unequal. Your husband and mother-in-law have high status, but your status is very low. Once in a low position, it is equivalent to directly losing your position and being unable to gain any right to speak and the most basic self-protection ability for yourself.

5. Ignoring the construction of our own "comprehensive value", we often find that people with good looks will get better treatment. It is not because people judge people by their appearance, but because of long-term evolution that beautiful people can pass on better genes in offspring reproduction.

6. The basic law of interpersonal communication is that the higher the comprehensive value, the better the treatment. In the past, you almost completely neglected self-care. In fact, it will directly reduce your value. Once the value is very low, the treatment that the other party can give you will naturally get worse and worse.