My mother-in-law taught my husband how to deal with me privately (I guess so, but it was similar, because I heard my mother-in-law call her husband and say what she said.

A mother-in-law is a mother-in-law She is an elder and your husband's biological mother. You said mother-in-law, your husband won't like it. If you still love him, you must learn to tolerate everyone. You should step back, not for them, but for all of you. Mother-in-law's help to children has no merit but also hard work. Be tolerant. People are full of meat. In the future, they will be moved by your understanding and humility, and your efforts will be rewarded.