Mother-in-law was angry and went back to her hometown.

Every child is the treasure of his parents. When he grew up, he married alone in other places, and only his husband was a familiar person. For her husband's family, no matter how good you are, you will always be an outsider. This kind of life is lonely and uncomfortable.

Married for a long time, wronged or bullied by her husband's family, parents can't get to you in time. If you are alone, you can do nothing but cry.

A woman's life is only loved by her parents. Once married to her husband's family, she changed from a child to someone else's wife. It's tiring to take care of the family, understand the world and deal with relatives.

If you are married to a distant place, wronged and bullied, and your parents are not around, the only person you can rely on is your husband. If your husband doesn't protect himself, life will become more and more painful.

It is said that a daughter who marries far away is doomed to be a child lost by her parents. If a woman can't guarantee that she can still be held by her husband after marrying far away, it's best not to choose to marry far away.

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Xiao Ying University is studying in the north. After graduating from college, I stayed to work in the local area, and then I met my current husband.

After they had been in love for a while, Xiao Ying found herself pregnant. Originally, Xiao Ying didn't intend to get married so early, and she was still far away, but her husband told the news to his family, and Xiao Ying couldn't say anything.

After meeting her mother-in-law, Xiao Ying found that her mother-in-law is a very strong person, and she is responsible for everything at home. After learning that Xiao Ying was pregnant, her mother-in-law immediately bought a plane ticket to meet Xiao Ying's parents in the south.

Originally, Xiao Ying's parents didn't agree with this marriage, but Xiao Ying was pregnant, so she had to let go and put forward a bride price twice as high as the bride price custom here.

Hearing this, the mother-in-law looked at Xiao Ying's stomach and said firmly, "We have never given such a high bride price, and our family doesn't have that much savings. Xiao Ying's belly is so big, let's solve it quickly! "

Husband is also persuading that although the bride price is not high, he will buy a house to get married and live, and then his family will have a place to live.

Xiao Ying's parents looked at Xiao Ying's belly, but they couldn't let Xiao Ying get married pregnant, so they agreed. Soon, the couple got married, and Xiao Ying married away.

Unexpectedly, after marriage, my husband didn't buy the house he promised to buy. The couple live with their mother-in-law. Xiao Ying doesn't like what her parents-in-law eat every day, so she asks her mother-in-law to cook some hometown dishes for her.

However, her mother-in-law said, "How can I cook your hometown food? Some are delicious, but they are also picky eaters and want to eat and cook. "

2.

The attitude of her mother-in-law made Xiao Ying a little chilling. She married so far away and was pregnant with their child. Not only did she not get any care, but her mother-in-law didn't even cook what she wanted to eat. This is too much.

Xiao Ying wants to call her parents to complain, but after thinking about it, what can she do? On second thought, forget it.

At that time, Xiao Ying was almost seven months pregnant. She went to the supermarket with tears in her eyes and bought food. When she got home, she cooked a meal for herself. After giving birth to the baby, the mother-in-law helped her to sit on the moon, which was also done according to their habits. Xiao Ying doesn't like it at all.

After the second month, the mother-in-law did not buy gold jewelry and bracelets for her children, but also lent her savings to her sister-in-law to buy a house. Her husband's attitude is exactly the same as that of her mother-in-law, and he also speaks for her.

During the Chinese New Year, Xiao Ying went out to visit relatives with her husband, and relatives did not give red envelopes. Instead, my sister-in-law went home and her mother-in-law gave a lot of red envelopes.

After the New Year, Xiao Ying said that she wanted to take her children back to her parents' home. After all, her parents have never seen the child. However, the mother-in-law said, "Your mother's family only needs to see the children come by themselves. It is inconvenient to take the children back, and it is also a waste of tickets. Don't go back if you have nothing to do in the future. "

Mother-in-law's words are too selfish. Xiao Ying lost his temper with her mother-in-law for the first time, and they had a big fight. Her husband seemed to know that Xiao Ying was afraid to do anything, and he didn't persuade her.

Seeing the attitude of her husband and mother-in-law, Xiao Ying found that it was a mistake to marry far away. She was bullied and had no family to comfort her. She wanted to go back to her mother's house to hide, but found it too far away. In the end, she had to lock herself in her room.

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It's not that all girls can't marry far away, but that if both husband and mother-in-law are not good enough to guarantee a happy marriage, it's best not to marry far away.

After all, if you gamble on getting married all your life, your in-laws will treat you badly and your husband will not cherish it, and your marriage will be very painful. Such a marriage means nothing to you.

Once a woman gets married, her parents can't always be around. They should learn to take care of themselves, get on well with their relatives in-laws, communicate with each other and help each other when something happens.

Everything should be reasonable. If the husband really goes too far, be tough. It is not easy to get married far away. Never let your husband bully you, but you can't make things difficult for your husband. It is best to live in peace.

If you quarrel with your mother-in-law and your husband doesn't help you, then your husband certainly doesn't care about himself, and there is no point in continuing the marriage. At this time, you can consider divorce.

Woman, don't marry away casually. It's foolish to gamble on a man's love for you with his whole life's happiness.