Conscience says: I know, do you really know?

Chapter II Knowing without Doing, Just Unknown —— Tell children to realize the unity of knowing and doing.

The source of the allusion: "Knowing without doing is just unknown" comes from the fifth part of Notes. "This has been cut off by selfish desires, not the ontology of knowing and doing. Those who don't know but don't do it, know but don't do it, just unknown. "

Practical explanation: Many parents are troubled by this phenomenon-children know everything when they tell the truth, waste everything when they do things, or often just talk and do nothing at all. Why is this? A Xing and A Zhi said to Xiao Yi and Xiao Liang, "Knowing but not doing is just unknown", and we should truly "integrate knowledge with practice". Only in this way can we become a trustworthy and reliable person.

I know the first part. Do you really know?

"Small good, don't you turn off the TV? Say a good hour, you see, how long has it been now? " Emirates said to Xiao Liang sitting on the sofa.

"Dad, just let me watch it for a while." Liang Xiao stared at the TV screen, and the battle between Altman and the monster was in full swing.

"You are going to primary school soon, so you should be prepared to be a primary school student in advance. The other children are in the young transition class. If you don't work hard to wait for elementary school, what should I do if I can't keep up? " A xing said.

Liang Xiao is now in a big class in kindergarten. In September this year, it's time to go to primary school. Many children in their class have signed up for the young bridging classes offered by the kindergarten. A Xing also wants Xiao Liang to be a junior. A Zhi didn't think it was necessary. She believes that young bridging classes teach children all the contents of primary schools in advance, and it is easy for children to lose their freshness in the primary school curriculum and let them go to large classes normally.

There is a rule in A Zhi that children can watch TV for one hour, educational programs for half an hour and programs of their choice for half an hour after school every day.

The study task of primary one is getting tighter and tighter, and the homework should be written until 90 o'clock in the evening. Therefore, she voluntarily gave up the "right" to watch TV, only occasionally for a short time.

Liang Xiao is not. Because there are not as many courses and homework as young transition classes, Xiao Liang has more free time. During this time, he always tries to put off watching TV. Azhi got a job as a translator of books. The task is urgent. He is too busy to catch up with the progress and has no time to stare at Xiao Liang.

Emirates is worried that Xiao Liang's failure to attend the transition class will have an impact on her future primary school attendance. He is even more worried now that he is addicted to TV. But there are many things in the company recently, and I often have to take some work tasks home to do it. In this way, the couple's management of Liang Xiao has been in a vacuum.

Playing is a child's nature. Once you are addicted to watching TV, it is worse than playing. Liang Xiao, who is in a management vacuum, is more and more addicted to TV, and the rules formulated by his mother have long been forgotten by him.

When Emirates was tired from work, he went out of his room to relax and see Xiao Liang. At first, Liang Xiao exceeded the prescribed time. When he saw his father coming out, he immediately turned off his cell phone and waited for his father to return to his room, then turned on the TV and turned down the volume. Later he simply ignored his father and buried himself in watching TV. No, it was the second time that Emirates reminded him to turn off his phone.

Xiao Liang's mind was completely occupied by the intense pictures and plots on TV. It seems that he didn't hear what his father said to him. He just responded perfunctorily: "I know, Dad."

Looking at Xiao Liang's ecstasy, Emirates realized that no matter what. However, he has a lot of things in his hand, and the boss of the company just sent a WeChat asking him about his work progress. He's really not in the mood to talk to Xiao Liang. Most importantly, Xiao Liang grew up under the care of A Zhi. Emirates Music should be a shopkeeper of cutting. Apart from playing with him occasionally, the communication between father and son is really limited. In Xiao Liang's mind, dad is more like a temporary playmate than a strict father. So, even if Emirates talks to Xiao Liang with a straight face, he won't take it seriously.

It's time to invite Aki. A Xing thought for a moment, then pushed open the door of Azhi's room and said, "Dear Xiao Liang, this child is addicted to watching TV. I called him several times, but it didn't work. You have to take care of him. "

Azhi looked away from the manuscript, rubbed his temples with his hand, looked at A Xing's helpless expression and said, "All right. You do your thing. I will take care of him. "

Azhi came to the living room. Xiao Liang was still watching TV intently, but she was not found.

"Liang Xiao." Chi's voice is not high, but there is a trace of majesty.

Liang Xiao turned to look at his mother, quickly hid the TV remote control behind him and made a face at his mother and said, "I know, right away." Keep your eyes on the TV and keep watching.

Chi's heart thumped. Unexpectedly, the child is so crazy about TV. Although I tried to delay the shutdown before, I did something after all. Now, just ignore the existence of mother.

At this moment, Ah Zhi suddenly realized that due to his negligence, Xiao Liang became dependent on TV, which is what A Xing said. He was addicted.

O knows it's useless to tell him anything at this time. The only way is to force him to turn off his phone. She walked up to Liang Xiao, blocked his sight with her body, stared at him and said quietly, "Turn off the phone."

Liang Xiao shook her little head back and forth, smirking and trying to break through her mother's block. His efforts were in vain. When he saw his mother's serious expression, he realized that her mother was angry.

Liang Xiao took out the remote control from behind and reluctantly turned off the TV.

O know with a straight face, without saying a word, pull Xiao Liang up from the sofa, take him to Xiao Yi's room, gently pushed open the door and motioned for him to look at his sister who was concentrating on her homework. Then, Gui took him to Emirates' room and motioned for him to see his father who was busy at work. Finally, Aki took him to the room and showed him a mountain of manuscripts, reference books and related translation materials on the reading table.

"Xiao Liang," said Pell, "did you see it? My parents and sisters are busy with work and study, and you are the only one watching TV in our family. Mom doesn't object to watching TV, but is it stipulated that we can only watch TV for one hour at most every day? Say it yourself, how long have you been watching it? "

"Mom," Xiao Liang said, "I know your rules. However, I think TV is good, so I forgot the time. Besides, I don't have so many work and study tasks to complete like my father, sister and you, so let me watch TV for a while. "

"Do you really know?" Azhi asked, "If you really knew, you wouldn't break our rules. As I said, there is a fine for watching TV over time. Do you remember? "

"For more than five minutes, reduce the time of watching TV for half an hour the next day; More than ten minutes, cancel the qualification of watching TV the next day ... "Xiao Liang replied.

"How long have you been here?" A Tong asked.

Xiao Liang looked at the wall clock on the wall, broke his little finger and began to calculate. He mumbled and replied, Twenty-five minutes. "In fact, Xiao Liang just guessed that he didn't pay attention to the specific time when he began to see it. However, in order to show that he remembered the time, he deliberately said a number with a score.

"Then you say, how can I punish you?" Aki asked.

Xiao Liang snapped his fingers and began to count again. However, this problem is obviously beyond his knowledge. After a long time, he didn't get the answer either.

Xiao Liang stared at the TV screen, feeling a little tangled. He thought that if he carried out this plan, he would not be able to watch TV these two days. According to the second plan, you can watch it for half an hour every day after all. So, he said, "Mom, I choose two. Starting from tomorrow, I will watch it for half an hour every day. "

After reaching an agreement with Xiao Liang, Aki returned to his room to continue his busy work. Liang Xiao found a pile of picture books and read them.

Home is calm again.

Conscience says: it's useless for children to reason with great probability when watching TV. You told him that watching TV is bad for his eyesight, and he didn't feel it directly; You said that watching TV affected normal psychological growth, and he didn't realize it. Those experts' opinions about how harmful children watch TV are only for parents. Parents understand that watching TV is not good, that's not good, they feel anxious, so they try to stop or control their children from watching TV, but it's no use talking to them for a long time. Because, all the adverse effects are gradual, and they all happen without children's awareness.

Since it's useless to reason, we should make rules.

Some parents completely forbid their children to watch TV. In order to prevent children from watching TV, they simply don't buy TV at home. Some parents don't care whether their children watch TV or not, as long as they don't get into trouble for themselves. These two practices are too extreme and belong to no rules. The former doesn't have to stand, and the latter is too lazy to stand.

Aki allows children to watch TV, but he makes rules. One hour, half an hour of educational programs and half an hour of optional programs every day. Children also obey the rules. Because if you don't follow the rules, you will be punished.

However, when Xiao Liang lost its supervision for a long time, the previous rules gradually lost their binding force. This is because Xiao Liang abides by the rules, because he is afraid of being punished by his mother. This punishment must be in place and cannot be done.

Why doesn't Emirates talk? Because, in Xiao Liang's view, dad is not the maker and executor of the rules, so he is not afraid. Even when his mother appeared, he still delayed turning off the TV. That's because his mother probably hasn't restrained him for a long time. He is a little indifferent to the rules.

"I see." This sentence has become an excuse for many children to delay. Do they really know? Of course not.

Mr. Yang Ming said, "Knowing without doing is just unknown".

If children really know the consequences of one thing, they will definitely take active actions. For example, when a child was walking in the street, a vicious dog came at him. Without parents' reminding, he or she naturally knows how to dodge and escape. Because he (she) knows that if he (she) doesn't run, he (she) will be bitten by a dog. This is true knowledge.

If children want to truly understand, act decisively, and truly integrate knowledge and practice, they must set rules. If you want to make rules, you must speak with consequences.

Fortunately, Archie made the rules, and when the rules were about to be forgotten by Xiao Liang, he stood up again.