How to deal with the old man's psychology of "looking for a daughter when something happens and looking for a son when he dies"?

In our life, it often happens that old people like to call their daughters when they have something to do, such as spending money when they are ill and hospitalized. But after his death, the old man will leave all his legacy to his son. In this way, the old man should be a typical son preference. In fact, to treat this kind of old people is not to change their mentality, but to really change their sons. So how should daughters and sons deal with such old people? Let me talk about my opinion in the following small series!

For her daughter, she has parents-in-law. If something happens to her biological parents, she will find it herself, but her in-laws can't say it. If you don't save yourself when something goes wrong, you will be called unfilial by others. In fact, the daughter is the most entangled, but in many places, it is the son who needs to bear the main responsibility for the elderly, not the daughter. Therefore, when such a thing happens, you can discuss it with your brother or younger brother first. You have to tell them that it is unreasonable to always come to us for something. If your brother is really a director, of course they will understand.

As a son, you should take the initiative to take this responsibility when you encounter such a thing. You need to support your parents, and if something happens to your parents, you also need to take responsibility. If your parents have been looking for your daughter, it is reasonable that you must leave part of your inheritance to your daughter after the old man dies. If something happens to your parents, your sister is spending money to take care of them. When the old man dies, you won't get any benefits, and others will gossip.

You need your son to persuade you to treat such an old man. If you can't convince them, you should take care of them when they have an accident. Even if they find their daughter, you shouldn't ask them to take care of them. In fact, there are many such phenomena, which have also caused many family conflicts. Old people should understand that their daughters are married and should not always rely on them. They also have their own families, and the burden is quite heavy!

What do you think should be done to persuade such an old man? Welcome everyone to leave a message!