The groom’s family will propose marriage directly to the hotel instead of visiting his home. Is this acceptable?

There is no acceptance or rejection of this kind of thing. It's mainly a problem between you two. You have to discuss it!

You are a woman, so you are doing something wrong. If you learn everything from home, isn’t this creating conflicts at home? After you find out about this, first decide whether you want to accept it or not. If you don't accept it, tell your boyfriend and ask him to do everything possible to convince his family to come to your home; if you can accept it, then you have to do everything possible to convince your family, even if your mother can't even describe it. No matter if you move, you still have to convince your family.

"Those who know how to behave should hide things from both sides, and those who don't know how to do things should tell both sides." If you continue like this, it will only cause conflicts between the two parties.

I suggest you go find your boyfriend. Let him do the ideological work at home. Because of the fucking heart disease he mentioned, this is no reason. If you can't climb the 6th floor, then you basically shouldn't go out! In addition, to take a step back, paying attention to your daughter-in-law is also bringing glory to yourself! Even if it takes eight people to carry my daughter-in-law home in a big sedan chair, I think it would be a honor to carry her home!

When you talk to your boyfriend, don’t be too tone-deaf and speak politely. As I said above, paying attention to the woman’s family is also a way to gain face for yourself.

Also, if she can’t go up to the 6th floor, you can give her a bench. Go to the 2nd floor first, sit down and rest for 10 minutes, then go up to the 2nd floor, rest for 10 minutes... Can’t you?

In fact, you know the situation best, and it is best for you to make the decision. But don’t let the two families conflict anymore. If you still want to get married well...