Daughter-in-law's mother-in-law was ill and didn't show up. She didn't know her mother-in-law was dead until she came home from the hospital. How does her daughter-in-law feel?

Your first consideration is, why didn't my family come to see me when I was in hospital? Nobody takes care of me. I didn't think about anything else during my stay in hospital, so I studied this matter. What I did to you, you treated me like this, uncomfortable, even painful!

As a result, when I learned the news of my mother-in-law's death, I realized that I was thinking too much. My mother-in-law is in hospital and her life is dying. My husband and family are busy with my mother-in-law in the hospital. I was slightly ill and never showed up, which is understandable. When I heard that my mother-in-law was dying, I told my family not to tell myself, which was even worse. People are thinking about me when they die, but I am calculating right and wrong and how much I have to pay!

First, there is no deep hatred between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law! What do you think will happen at home? My mother-in-law won't help me with my children. My mother-in-law won't give me money. My daughter-in-law is too lazy to spend money indiscriminately. If one day you understand and want to let go, that's nothing!

Because I threw a garbage bag, my mother-in-law was heartbroken and said a few words to me casually. I was angry for several days. I am educating my children, and my mother-in-law is interrupting me. I am very angry. You said a year is 365 days. Am I worth being angry with her every day because of a dime? Finally, there are cysts on the liver and fibroids in the uterus!

Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be eased! When I was young, Zhang's parents and Li family heard too many stories about mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This mother-in-law is an old monster and that mother-in-law is a devil, so there is no good mother-in-law. When I got married, my mother-in-law was also excluded from my heart. Plus my mother-in-law is a strong woman. What kind of daughter-in-law does she want me to be? What does she want me to do for their family!

In order to live a good life, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law must be good. For my husband and our family, my mother-in-law is strong and I am weak. I can wash clothes, cook and take care of my children. I will give her a present during the Spring Festival. It's okay if you don't like me. I moved her with my actions. My mother-in-law has been so kind to me over the years, at least she no longer dislikes me!

Third, the truth that the daughter-in-law should understand! I am more open to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I never expect my mother-in-law to do anything for me. I don't ask her to look after the children for me, nor do I ask her to wait on me in the confinement. I can do these things by myself. If it really doesn't work, I'll ask for a new moon. I don't care about other people's mother-in-law. I only care about myself. My mother-in-law did not give birth to me. Why are you obedient to me?

But I want to be nice to my mother-in-law. Why? Because I love her son, I want to live with her son forever, and I want his son to be kind to my parents. It's as simple as that, so even if your mother-in-law is not dead and you are sick, she shouldn't visit you!

Summary: If you are a kind-hearted person and your mother-in-law is ok for you at ordinary times, then your mother-in-law will die and you will have 10 thousand apologies in your heart. Why didn't I take good care of you? If you want to go back to your hometown, I should accompany you. I should buy you that dress you like, and even hate myself. Why do you suspect the mother-in-law in hospital?

If you are not a good person and your mother-in-law is not a good person, then this kind of death is too coincidental, and you may even feel "just what you want"!