When a son gets hurt again and again! What should I do?

Baby, my eldest son was injured again from kindergarten. I am so distressed! He is asleep, and I feel uncomfortable watching him. It's really hard to look at the scar on his eyebrows! It is over one year old, and my friend's son Dong Haoxuan hit it with a coal shovel. At that time, his mother forced me to let her open an online shop, and I was worried that the two little treasures could not be outside. Jessica Hester Hsuan's mother said it didn't matter, so she dragged me into the back room. I just glanced at the computer screen. As a result, they were in the outhouse for a minute: I heard my son crying loudly and ran out quickly. I saw the child covering his eyes with blood in his fingers! If you have a heart attack, you will be scared to death. I am very scared. My heart is beating much faster than usual. I can feel plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop, plop. The child was crying all the time, and the doctor put some medicine to sterilize it and said it was nothing serious, so my heart was put back in my stomach.

At the health center, Jessica Hester Hsuan's mother also rushed over and said, "I thought my eyes were broken, but it's not my eyes!" " "I don't know whether she is too stupid or I am in a bad mood. I am still very angry. " I answered him. Isn't it because of disappointment? There is a lot of blood on the eyebrows. Doesn't it hurt? ! "Later, the doctor said it's okay, Jessica Hester Hsuan's mother also apologized, and things just passed! Looking back now, it was four years ago, but it seems to have taken root in my heart and I can't forget it for a long time! Besides, that shovel left a scar on my son's eyebrows. Every time I see it, I think of the scene at that time, and my heart is full of regret and love.

? Finally, when the baby is old enough to go to kindergarten, he cries his eyes out at school every day! I cried for more than half a year, and one day after half a year, my son suddenly had scars all over his face! My whole face is swollen and my eyes are black and blue. I went to the kindergarten and found the problem. The baby saw me crying and jumped into my arms. I looked into his eyes and wanted to ask the teacher what was going on. As a result, the kindergarten replied that the child said that it was accidentally hit from home. This kind of reply is really irritating. I said that even if I was really at home, my life would be swollen like this. As a teacher, you shouldn't ask what's going on. Do you have any medicine? Besides, the child didn't knock at home at all, so you'd better tell the truth. Under my compulsion, the kindergarten shuttle teacher said that the driver suddenly braked on the way to the park in the morning, and the child fell off the seat and hit his eyes on the backrest of the front seat! It's already half past five in the afternoon. The teacher took us to the hospital to check the baby's strength. The doctor said it would be all right if you didn't hurt your eyes. The swelling and pain are all skin injuries. The child recovered quickly and will be fine in a few days! Prescription drugs to relax muscles and promote blood circulation. The next day, the kindergarten called to overturn the admission the day before yesterday, saying that the child was injured because of the school bus! I had a fierce argument with the garden, and even said dirty words! Finally, they confronted the car pick-up teacher, the director, the director and the driver, and they admitted their problems. Begging to give them another chance to let their children continue to learn from there. I decisively refused, and I have nothing to do with that kindergarten since then.

After half a year's suspension, Bao Bei entered a new kindergarten. This kindergarten is good in all aspects, and the children are very happy to go. I like art teachers in special classes very much. I am very happy when I have art classes! I am also studious at ordinary times, with more knowledge and more friends. But one thing is that two little boys scratched the child's face several times, and I reacted with the teacher twice, but the child still came back with injuries on his face three times and four times! I'm really sorry. I asked the children to tell the teacher that the two children were always fighting. As a result, the child said, "Mom, I'm fine. This little injury is nothing. I am a man. It will be fine in a few days. Besides, it's hard for the teacher to see so many children alone, and I don't want to bother him. " It sounds like a child is very sensible, but being so sensible really makes me feel too distressed, too distressed, and the previous scratches have left scars!

The wound is on the child and the pain is on the mother. Do honest and kind children have to be bullied like this? What can I do to help him? I am sad. On the one hand, he is worried that the child will continue to be injured and wants to transfer him to another school. He didn't agree. On the other hand, I'm afraid I'm too stiff with the teacher, and I can't take good care of the children in private! Really tangled!

As night falls, the baby is sleeping soundly. I held him and looked at him ... it's really hard to say what I felt in my heart. The scratch is there, and my heart hurts! The scar is there, too. I blame myself. Tomorrow is another day. How can we make children no longer hurt? Although I say that "at the beginning of life, people are inherently good", I feel more and more that some people are very bad and selfish since childhood, while others are just stupid, kind and simple! In such a small world as kindergarten, it is also "the law of the jungle, bullying the weak and fearing the hard!"

How I hope my baby can quickly understand that "only when you are strong can you not be bullied and protect everything you want to protect!" " Tonight, I wrote to my son * * *, wishing us stronger and stronger in the future, stronger than not hurting ourselves a little, and stronger than trying to get everything we want!

Notes on 2018.4.1200:15

Finally, I wish every friend who reads the article: good night and sweet dreams!