How should parents treat lazy and selfish children?

Edison said, "Genius is 99% sweat and 1% inspiration." Indeed, if you want to achieve something, diligence and dedication are essential. Many parents complain that their children are lazy and don't want to go out to play when they are young. What can they do when they grow up? To help children overcome laziness, we must first find out the reasons for laziness: 1. The harder parents work, the lazier their children are.

If parents arrange too many things, children's self-care ability will become worse and worse. Everything depends on children, children are protected everywhere, and children are placed at the core of the family. All kinds of practices lead to stunted limbs, poor independent living ability and dependence on parents everywhere. Once he meets difficulties or his demands are not met, he will get angry and lose his temper. The more diligent parents are, the more considerate they are to their children.

It is inevitable that their children will form the bad habit of laziness. 2. One parent is lazy, so it is difficult to cultivate a diligent child. Some parents lack the concept of time and have no diligent behavior habits. "Words and deeds are more important than words and deeds", which seriously affects the formation of children's "diligence" habit and good behavior, and promotes the occurrence of laziness. Parents are children's first teachers, and their behavior has a subtle influence on children. Some parents also have the bad habit of being lazy. Children will be slowly influenced by it.

Parents don't have a decisive and agile style, and children will naturally follow suit. Therefore, parents should be diligent if they want their children not to be lazy. 3. Old people take care of children, and children may be lazy. According to a national survey, nearly half of the children in China grew up with their grandparents. In the garden of the community, we often see several old people standing there chatting for hours with their children in their arms, while the children in their hands are silly, motionless and silent. In fact, such children are not "normal" and should not be so quiet.

The normal performance is to leave crying. Because the elderly are old, they like quiet and don't like sports, so the way for the children brought by the elderly to get in touch with the society is to go to the streets or play in the community. On the one hand, there is little exercise and lack of physical exercise; On the other hand, the family's lack of knowledge and contact with new things may lead to lack of vitality, fear of facing strangers and inability to handle affairs by themselves.