When the second child comes out, who sleeps with the first child?

I'm honored. I am also a second-born mother. Dabao slept with us until she gave birth to her second child. After giving birth to the second child, it was her grandmother who took care of her in the hospital for a few days. Out of the hospital, I went to the Confucius Center. Considering Dabao's mood, I also asked in advance that the Confucius Center could let Dabao stay for the night. In this way, Dabao never left my side. Later, because I bought the mother-child bed first, I went home. The second shop bought a mosquito net for the boss and arranged it as a small game space, which was very beautiful. It turns out that we all sleep in the lower bunk. Suddenly one day, the boss said, Mom, my sister is a little noisy at night. I wanted to sleep in the upper bunk, and then I climbed up. Since then, the boss has taken the initiative to sleep with us. Before that, we never asked the boss to sleep in separate beds. In fact, with the second child, Dabao suddenly grew up, and the girl's mind became heavy, and she would have a psychological change from novelty to conflict with the new Bao Xiao. For parents, we should consider Dabao's feelings. Let her feel that mom and dad's love for her will never decrease because of having a younger brother or sister. Let her inner change from resistance to tolerance and love for Bauer. Only when she really feels that her parents love her will she show her love for Bauer. This process requires the division of labor and cooperation of us adults. My second treasure, also a girl, can climb now. Although I can't talk, I am the most sticky. Now the boss often says that you love me, but I love my sister very much. Mom and dad are gone, she and I will be good sisters, and I will take good care of her. Sometimes when she sees that I'm tired, she will take the initiative to say, Mom, you have a rest and I'll watch my sister for you. Our family never instills the so-called "boss responsibility" in the boss. If you are the boss, you should let your sister take care of her. To make her feel that she and her sister are equal, the boss also has the right to sayno. In this way, the boss will have a sense of responsibility and take care of the second child under the premise of love. This also deepens the sisterhood and makes the boss realize that it is not easy for parents.

In fact, don't perfunctory children's love and companionship. We all know that we love children. In fact, sometimes, we may forget that maybe your child loves you the most and even surpasses your love for her, because in her eyes, you are her whole world.

The second child is coming. Who does Dabao sleep with? Tell us about our family. When Bauer came, my Dabao slept with his father. Our bedroom is relatively large, with two beds. Dabao sleeps with his father and Bao Xiao sleeps with his mother, because my Dabao doesn't like sleeping with his grandmother.

Personally, I think Dabao should try not to live apart from his parents when Bauer comes. If he lives apart, Dabao will feel that his parents don't love him more and more, and he will become more and more rebellious and insecure. With Bauer, don't ignore Dabao, pay more attention to him, so it's better to sleep with dad as much as possible.

The second child was born. Who slept with the first child? This question may depend on the situation.

First, how old is Dabao? If Dabao is over three years old, he can sleep in separate beds. But sleeping in separate beds should be before Bauer was born, otherwise Dabao will think that mom and dad don't sleep with him because of the baby. However, if Dabao didn't sleep in separate beds when he was a child, he certainly couldn't sleep in separate beds. Separate beds are also for the elderly or Bao's father. However, some Dabao were too old when they gave birth to Bauer, so they slept in separate beds, so you don't have to worry about taking Bauer directly.

Second, is there anyone to help with the baby? There are two babies. It would be better if someone helped to take care of them. Let the people who help take care of them take one. It is best to help those who take care of the baby. Dabao is more sensible and needs his mother more. No matter who brought it, Bao Xiao was born. But if Dabao is also close to the person who helps to take care of the baby and is willing to sleep with the person who helps to take care of the baby, then leave it alone. It is important to respect Dabao's wishes. But there is no one to help take care of the baby. Dabao has no bed, so she can only take it herself. One on each side is also good, and it will be liberated in a few years.

Besides, I'm talking about what I'm going through. I am Bauer's mother, too. My eldest son is almost five years old and my youngest son is over two years old. Now I sleep with two babies alone. I wanted to have sex so badly that I wanted the younger one to sleep with her father. Finally, Dabao and her father didn't agree to give up, one on each side. It's hard, but only a few years.

Children should sleep in separate beds after they are three years old!

My first child is 2 1 year old this year, and my second child is1year old this year. Because of the age difference when I was young, I hardly have to worry about this problem. It is suggested that Ma Bao, who wants to have a second child, adjust the pregnancy interval and health, because she is in poor health, unable to keep up with her physical strength and energy, and prone to postpartum depression.

My eldest baby was born at the age of ten, and my second baby has slept alone. Erwa is young, sleep with me. Dawa invited his father to sleep with him, and I agreed. Mother and child bed, his father sleeps under the bed, and he sleeps on the bed. Occasionally he tells me that he wants to sleep with us, and I don't refuse. It's too crowded to sleep three people in a 1.5-meter bed. He offered to make a floor for my family, which was quite satisfactory.

Is this problem regional?

Sleep on the kang in the northeast! So, Dabao and Bauer sleep with me! One on each side! This problem is not a problem here!

If you sleep in the same bed, try to meet the needs of two babies sleeping beside their parents when they are not independent! In this way, the baby has a sense of security. When the baby can sleep independently, you can let the baby sleep by himself! Parents can tell stories and sing lullabies to their babies at the bedside! Then the baby sleeps by himself! This is also helpful to the child's mind!

One side of the soil and water raises one side! Many foreign children sleep in a room by themselves since childhood! Parents can rest assured that the baby has grown up like this! Therefore, this can also look at the baby's situation before making a decision! I hope I can help you!

When my family was about to have a baby, the older one slept with his grandmother. Because I was afraid that I would start at once, the child was frightened by this maladjustment. Also for a better rest, so I sleep everywhere. Later, I slept with my grandmother until I was two and a half years old before coming to sleep with me, one on each side.

Weaning time, the little one sleeps with grandma. Later, I found that children who don't sleep with their mothers have a poor sense of security and always wake up crying in the middle of the night. Sleep with me in the future, and you will be fine.

The boss always sleeps with me. The second child has a headache after midnight and goes to the hospital at dawn. Boss saw me in such pain that she cried. She shared a bed with her father in the hospital that night and slept with me the next day. Now the eldest is 3 years old, and the second has slept together for 6 months.

My good friends around me basically sleep by themselves after giving birth to a second child, and the second child sleeps with my mother or mother-in-law.

At that time, I was also wondering whether the second child should sleep with himself and the first child should sleep with her mother-in-law.

Since my good friend explained it to me, I understand, because I slept with my mother for a long time. If I suddenly slept with my grandmother, she would keep crying and basically understand. If you don't let me talk to my mother, I'll make trouble until you compromise.

Seeing the second child is basically not knowing who to sleep with, which is easier to talk about.

There are friends around holding two children, one on each side, but that will be very tired.