Have you ever seen a particularly capable mother? How about telling their stories?

The newlywed son won't let his mother live in the wedding room: you are married for the second time! Mother sued her son 14: compensate me for my mental loss!

75-year-old Luo Wanxiu is a famous local strong woman. When she was young, she married her visually impaired husband for a job. After marriage, with years of hard work, she not only earned a considerable family business, but also helped her two sons find jobs, get married and have children.

Unexpectedly, because of the contradiction with his eldest son Jia Yi, Luo Wanxiu, who should have made a fortune and enjoyed his old age, went to sleep every night.

In desperation, Luo Wanxiu chose to ask for help from the media!

Everyone says that you are a capable strong woman, who can do business, roll around and swear all over the street. You are notorious!

Your old man's personality is distorted, his moral character is low, he belittles others and elevates himself. He is selfish, unscrupulous, ruthless and well known!

The phase is born from the heart, the heart has changed, the phase has also changed, and the eyes have become triangular eyes, full of narrowness and treachery.

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No one can imagine that these extreme words and intense tone were actually said by a son to his mother.

That's too much. I can't read any more. It's ugly. No, the son said his mother!

However, on June 6, 2004, my son got married and everything changed.

The old man said that his son had a wedding in Loudi Hotel on his wedding day, and he also gave his daughter-in-law a red envelope of 1000 yuan. However, the night after the wedding, the son said in front of him that he was married for the second time and could not live in a new house but in a hotel.

When the son gets married and the mother can't live at home, Luo Wanxiu naturally can't accept it. However, the son not only ignored his own ideas, but also threatened his mother with his father-in-law:

If you don't leave tonight, I'll throw you off the fifth floor!

In this way, Luo Wanxiu was driven out of her new house by her family. From that day on, her position in her son's mind plummeted!

Luo Wanxiu: Before my son got married, I was a qualified mother, a kind mother and an amiable and lovely mother! But since 2004, even his house can't get in.

During the Chinese New Year, he only took his father to Loudi for the Chinese New Year. When I went, I called to say that I got married for the second time!

Mother was not allowed to live in a new house on the grounds of the second marriage custom, and was ignored by her mother for 14 years. Is what Luo Wanxiu said true?

Luo Wanxiu suggested that his daughter-in-law Xiaoyu works in a nearby company and can let her son come forward through her daughter-in-law.

At the gate of Xiaoyu's unit, it was confirmed by colleagues that Xiaoyu was in the office for a meeting. However, Xiaoyu came out. She didn't want to see her mother-in-law or contact her husband.

The son even told his colleagues that it doesn't matter whether the mother wants it or not. This sentence, even in the light rain unit, is known to many people.

Knowing that his son and daughter-in-law didn't want to meet, Luo Wanxiu suddenly got emotional and cried at the door of her daughter-in-law's unit. It was not until the unit leaders and colleagues came forward to appease them that they calmed down a little.

As my mother, I feel ashamed. You can record my words. In our family, in our whole family, she is a person who recognizes money and denies people. All she can think about is money.

She is a very selfish person. She either beats my grandmother or scolds my father and my brother. It's the same for me.

She and her father have been getting divorced, and they even want to seize my family's property, saying it's all her own, which makes my father leave home very clean. The point is, dad is disabled, and he has no fault!

On the phone, Jiayi said that her mother was selfish and self-centered, and there was no need to communicate at all.

Jia Yi: No, she makes trouble at work once a month on average. She went to the unit to make trouble without reason and knelt down to the unit leader. I can't do anything about her, so I have to go with her!

She is a psychopath, or an old woman with personality disorder. I can't communicate with her normally.

In order to achieve the goal of eating coarse grains, I found a 72-year-old disabled person who worked all day and night.

In the 1980s, I was the first batch of self-employed individuals, the first batch of ten thousand yuan households.

Handfuls of sweat and tears support this family. I have never complained about this family. My son didn't listen and had nowhere to say, so he had to cry in the middle of the night where no one was there.

I get up at four o'clock every day to buy breakfast. I pay sweat and tears for them. When I get old and my son gets married, I will disown my mother.

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A thick stack of scattered yellowed diaries records Luo Wanxiu's sadness.

Luo Wanxiu said that because she married a disabled person, she had no sense of security, no dependence and could only rely on herself!

Luo Wanxiu is high-spirited and a famous local strong woman. In order to support her family, she makes clothes, runs a sewing shop, pulls carts during the day and does business at night. She is so busy all day that people who know her don't admire her!

These diaries were written off and on after she fell out with her son:

I don't feel well. I write alone at night. Only one person can write so many words at night!

Luo Wanxiu also said that she was very tired to make a living and really neglected to take care of her disabled husband, but she never abused her.

Seeing Duan Xintian, Luo Wanxiu was emotional, claiming that this in-laws had ruined his home. If he hadn't stirred up trouble on his wedding night, his son would never have treated himself like this.

Duan Xintian said that before marriage, the relationship between mother and son-in-law was not so tense. On the contrary, her mother and son have deep feelings.

Because the son-in-law is the first official and cadre in the village, the mother is very proud. So, they go out shopping and often hold hands.

Today's deadlock is actually caused by Luo Wan Xiu himself.

It turned out that on June 6, 2004, when Luo Wanxiu was unforgettable, Duan Xintian proposed to arrange a hotel, considering that his mother had brought four brothers and sisters and that they would not disturb the couple's wedding night and everyone would live comfortably.

Unexpectedly, when this proposal came out, it was strongly opposed by Luo Wanxiu: See which one says, I can't live here?

Not only that, Luo Wanxiu also made a jaw-dropping move in her son's new house:

Bow to all the doors and windows at home, kneel down, pay New Year greetings, and recite spells!

The wedding day, my daughter, and my mother are actually doing these smoky things in the new house, which makes Duan Xintian unacceptable anyway.

So, after several times of dissuasion, Duan Xintian said, let Luo Wanxiu remember 14:

If you do that again, I'll throw you upstairs.

Luo Wanxiu didn't know how to give in, and even asked her son and daughter-in-law to divorce on the spot! At that time, the emotional out-of-control section of my heart added an extreme stimulus to my mother:

There is no habit of divorce in our family, unlike you.

In this way, due to different customs and their own considerations, parents of both men and women held their own opinions, attacked each other and hurt each other, and the wedding night broke up in discord.

That is, from then on, Luo Wanxiu began a long journey of complaining.

Duan Xintian said that he has repeatedly advised his daughter and son-in-law to have a good relationship with the elderly. On an old man's birthday, his daughter and son-in-law went to see the old man with gifts. As a result, she put a pile of shit at the door and wouldn't let her in.

Luo Wanxiu's extreme behavior and practices put Jia Yi in a very embarrassing position, and the natural mother-child relationship gradually alienated. 14 years later, they still don't know what this mother wants!

Under Duan Xintian's communication, Jia Yi finally agreed to meet her mother and negotiate to solve the problem.

Jia Yi said that her mother's personality was extreme and she did a lot of things that hurt herself and her family, which inevitably brought her some negative solutions. Now, it's not that he denies the mother. He will still do his duty as a son, visit her on holidays and support her when she is ill, but he can't do anything else.

Jia Yi: He said in front of his uncle that my father was not good enough for her, which delayed her life's youth. He also said that he would find another one. ...

Luo Wanxiu: Why was I a qualified mother, a kind mother and an amiable and lovely mother before? You held my hand when you went out four years ago. Why do you change when you get married?

Jia Yi: My father is disabled ...

Luo Wanxiu: I just want to ask why you have changed!

Jia Yi: Have you washed my father's clothes? Have you ever done your duty as a wife?

Luo Wanxiu: Who earned my money back? 1993 I have tens of thousands of dollars. Your disabled father now earns hundreds of thousands of dollars in a house.

Jia Yi: You are really a strong woman. You fought dozens of lawsuits, and next door 100 yuan you fought thousands of lawsuits! Quarrel with this, quarrel with that!

Mother and son stand on different channels and accuse each other of being wrong!

The mother emphasized her contribution to the family, while the son emphasized her strengths, competitiveness and impatience.

Luo Wanxiu said that he wanted his son to prove his innocence, and he wanted his son to apologize for the hat that was buckled to him in the text message and compensate for the mental loss since 14.

Hearing this, Jia Yi some mainly, said a sentence:

Mom, let's forget the past.

Unexpectedly, when he said this, Luo Wanxiu suddenly ran into the distance and said with a loud voice as he ran:

You must give me a dignity! You must give me an understanding!

At this time of the night show, emotional, two hands kept pulling hair, yet shouting, panting. ...

Jia Yi: Everything before was my fault. ...

The more the son apologized, the more excited Luo Wanxiu was. He kept beating himself, kept crying and poured out his difficulties:

How have I come over these years? ...

Luo Wanxiu believes that his tall image in his son's heart has collapsed, and his son's perfunctory apology can't make up for his hardships and grievances for more than ten years or decades.

The old man who calmed down said that he was an educated man. Although he was forced by life to marry a disabled person, there was no love between husband and wife, but she never resented it.

This is the devil who has plagued and tortured the elderly 14 years.

Speaking of this marriage, Lao Jia repeatedly shook his head. He said that for so many years, Luo Wanxiu, the husband and wife, was concerned about the outside world and didn't want to spend money, rice, oil and salt at home. The husband and wife quarreled constantly and eventually parted ways. According to the divorce agreement, Jia Yi is responsible for the support of his father and his younger brother is responsible for the support of his mother.

As for his ex-wife, Lao Jia said:

There are more than 800 people in this village, and no one dares to provoke her! Whoever speaks ill of her takes a shit in other people's houses.

Luo Wanxiu's character is fierce and well known, and many people have to blame him. As for the feud between mother and son, the neighbor said it should be split in two.

Neighbors say that Luo Wanxiu lacks care for her husband and her son, but the hardships and achievements she has made in working outside are obvious to all.

Also, in the relationship with people, Luo Wanxiu has a good mind, but her mouth is too strong and she has never beaten her husband. Many bad words my son said were imposed on my mother.

Finally, everyone summed up Luo Wanxiu: without her, this family could not have done it at all. There is nothing wrong with her principles.

The community secretary said that they actually mediated the contradictions between them many times. Luo Wanxiu means that the son can't admit his mistake in private, but must admit his mistake in public and restore his reputation.

By telephone, Jia Yi agreed to apologize to her mother in front of her uncle and untie her heart.

Luo Wanxiu came to the community with his relatives and his party. She also agreed that as long as her son lowered his head, she would not pursue the past.

But in the end, Jia Yi called and said that it is ok to apologize in person, but two additional conditions must be met:

First, my father is going to live in a new house (brother's house), and the old house can't be inhabited.

Second, she gave half of her retirement salary to my father. Because she married her father at that time, in order to solve the work problem. This recruitment index was given to her by her father. )

Jia Yi's parents have divorced and there is an agreement that parents should provide for the elderly first. Such a request is obviously unreasonable.

I didn't scold her, hit her or insult her.

Mediation failed. Luo Wanxiu, who had lost confidence in his son, finally decided not to look for him or negotiate, but to sue in court.

This is a capable and powerful mother I saw on the watermelon video (20 18). After @ 70, my uncle wrote here, and my heart was mixed.

The mother conceived in October and raised the child, but it ended like this. Is Luo Wanxiu's life a success or a failure?

From the perspective of supporting the family and contributing to the family economy, she is successful; Luo Wanxiu is undoubtedly a loser in dealing with the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between mother and child.

These two labels on Luo Wanxiu are all derived from her strength. Strength is not only the protective color of her successful life, but also the catalyst of her tragic fate.

Because she is married to a disabled person, because she wants to support her family, Luo Wanxiu must be strong. Only by being strong can she live, and only by being strong can she live!

Otherwise, the families of the disabled and the weak will not only have nothing to live, but also be ridden and trampled!

However, Luo Wanxiu, with her own strength and hard work, succeeded in making the family well-fed and impressed the neighbors!

This is Luo Wanxiu's greatest success, but the by-product of her success is that she inevitably ignores the care and care for her husband and family.

This should not be a problem. Because no one can do everything. We can't ask Luo Wanxiu to study both inside and outside!

If the family can treat this great wife and mother fairly and split into two, the family will definitely live a happy life!

It's a pity that Luo Wanxiu worked hard to cultivate an adult son, because of a friction at the wedding, and then she embarked on the road of opposition and confrontation with her mother!

It can be said that Luo Wanxiu's paranoia today is related to her strong personality and Jia Yi's attitude towards her mother.

There are no wrong parents, and there are no mothers who are determined to be enemies with their children.

If Jia Yi could concentrate on solving contradictions from the beginning, instead of focusing on her mother's mistakes, attacking her at will and expanding contradictions, her mother's heart knot would never become today's "demons"!

I hope Jia Yi can realize her mistake as soon as possible, put down her prejudice against her mother and return to the good time of walking hand in hand with her mother!