I can't stand your nephew: Does being born in a family really affect a person's life?

In this life, some things can be chosen, but some things can never be chosen.

For example, we can all choose feelings, friendship and love. We can choose who to make friends with, who to stay with and finally get married, but we can't choose our relatives.

Blood relationship is the strongest thing in the world, which we can never control. Whether you like it or not, your parents, brothers and sisters came to you without arrangement.

Being born in a family has a profound influence on a person. A good family can create a good life, but a bad family can also ruin a person's life.

Fan Meisheng in TV series is a living example. In fact, there are similar cases in real life. They are very capable and have been working hard. If they live in their own way, they can get a very good life.

Unfortunately, they came from a family that dragged their feet, so that they ended up living a very unfortunate life.

If they can meet a well-born family, the result will be completely different. Some people have average qualifications and poor abilities, but they can live a happy life because they have not only the help of their parents, but also the help of their brothers and sisters.

Everyone loves each other, no matter what, it won't be too bad. The influence of family background on a person is really beyond everyone's imagination.

Wang Tao, 32, has not found the other half of his life yet. Some people may think that the reason why he didn't get married in his early thirties must be because of poor conditions, but this is not the case.

Graduated from a regular undergraduate course and worked as a department head in a company. His annual income is around 200,000 yuan. He has a house and a car in his name. Although he needs to pay off his mortgage and car loan, and his life is relatively easy, even so, he still has a hard time on the way to blind date.

As for the reason, we should start with his family background. Wang Tao was born in a very bad family, and his father was an irresponsible man, so he didn't care much about the two brothers since he was a child.

His mother is a very virtuous woman. She suffered a lot for their brother and finally brought him up, but she didn't expect his brother to be a particularly disappointing person.

When I was in high school, my academic performance was very poor, so I simply stopped studying after I finished my first year of high school. At that time, Wang Tao had been persuading him, because for a family like them, reading was the best way out, even the only way out.

But his younger brother just wouldn't listen and went his own way. Having no choice, Wang Tao had to go with him. Unexpectedly, his brother later made a girlfriend, and the two looked inseparable, as if they were also rushing to get married.

It's a pity that they chose to separate after a year of marriage. As for the reason, they have to guess for themselves.

My sister-in-law resolutely doesn't want a child, and Wang Tao's younger brother doesn't want that child either, because he can't afford it, so Wang Tao's mother takes care of the child alone.

How could Dao give up his mother's hard work, not to mention that she is his nephew anyway, so he decided to help raise his nephew.

Everyone has feelings. He has a good relationship with his nephew. He feels like a real father and son. On the contrary, as the younger brother of his biological father, he never cared about this son.

Over the years, Wang Tao has become accustomed to living with his nephew, and he decided to raise his nephew for life. After all, nobody cares about him How can he settle down as a child?

However, living with my nephew is not an easy task. Although I have never been married, I always feel married twice. After all, he wants to raise children, and he will always be responsible for their life and education.

Wang Tao once said that he would raise his children until they graduated from college, which made many girls feel terrible.

When a person shoulders the family background, he has admirable things, such as a sense of responsibility, but he also has frightening things, such as the pressure on his shoulders.

After all, getting married is not a trivial matter. If you marry him, it means raising your nephew with him from now on, and this kind of raising is not temporary, but long-term. The point is that this child has nothing to do with the woman.

Having a house and a car with an annual income of 200,000 is a good condition for an ordinary unmarried man.

But if you put it on a man who needs to raise a child, the result will be completely different, which is why he has been dragging on until now and can't find the other half.

If he didn't come from such a terrible family, his fate would naturally be rewritten and he would have a very happy family. So far, all his children are soy sauce makers.

Unfortunately, he met an irresponsible father when he was a child, and an irresponsible brother when he grew up, so he had to help him clean up the mess, so he ended up in a mess.

A poor family background is an obstacle to happiness.

Everyone who lives in this world longs for happiness, and everyone is full of beautiful expectations for the future. Everyone wants to get a relatively good ending, but there are some things that everyone can't stop to choose.

There are always people who say that it is a big deal to meet a family with a bad background, so that all problems will be solved. Onlookers can never feel the same. Imagine what you would do if you lived in such a family.

If your parents can't work because of illness, they need to spend a lot of medical expenses every year. What should you do at this time? Can you leave them alone? The answer is no.

No one can leave their parents behind. In fact, many things are necessary.

Although some things depend on the situation, in the face of parents and relatives, everyone can't stand by and watch, whether intentionally or unintentionally, as long as what happens to them, no one can ignore it.

This is a very selfish thing in their eyes. Although they know that this will affect their lives, they are unwilling to leave their responsibilities for their own lives.

Sometimes family responsibilities are just a mountain on your shoulders.

Everyone who lives in this world has a different fate, and most people must be very aware of this. Some people have never experienced the hardships of life from birth to the end of their lives.

They are the luckiest people in the world, but few people are so lucky.

Most people have experienced pain, especially when facing their families, but even so, they will try to stick to it, because if they don't go on, there will be no way out.

Family responsibility is not just talk, it cuts the relationship between chaos and chaos, and it endlessly interferes with everyone's happiness. Sometimes kindness and responsibility also need to pay a heavy price, and there is no choice at all.

If you can choose, everyone wants to live in a beautiful family, and everyone wants to have a relaxed life, but the reality is never as beautiful as everyone thinks, and some things are inevitable.

Only Rainbow said that if he had a choice, he didn't want such a father and brother, but he couldn't help it. People living in this world are often forced to do something.

Since there is no choice, there is only death. There are many such people in the world. They are all dying and living hard.

They are unfortunate, but there are many such unfortunate people in the world.

If you want everyone to be the luckiest person in the world, the best way is for everyone to be a responsible person, so that the happiness of his family is not affected by himself.