Can I ask my boyfriend to tell me what’s on his mind? How to do it?

I think it is necessary to let your boyfriend speak his mind. Because my boyfriend is my intimate partner, in addition to having the same interests and hobbies, we also need to have a spiritual harmony. Many couples get along abnormally. In fact, there is a communication problem. Communication is necessary to convey feelings between people, so I think it is necessary for my boyfriend to tell the truth to me. So how do you get your boyfriend to tell you the truth? This is a technical question that can be simple or complex. If your boyfriend likes to communicate and tell you the truth, then there is nothing technical to say. You just need to be a listener. But for those boyfriends who are not good at expressing themselves and don't like to tell the truth to themselves, we like some methods and techniques.

Perhaps for many friends, when they need their boyfriends to tell the truth, their first reaction is to study psychology or the art of recognizing people, so that their boyfriends can tell their true feelings. In fact, I think this is wrong. of. When I was in college, I liked reading psychology books and read a lot of psychology books. I always liked to use the formulas in the books to match the food I saw and heard. I started to observe the color of other people's socks and the look in their eyes... .....Later I found out that this is wrong. I think it is the most advanced thing, but in my heart, there are four words. These four words are empathy. Regardless of men or women, I think they are all human beings. In the general direction It’s sexual. When we encounter something, we put ourselves in someone else’s shoes, and then share the personality of the person you put yourself in, and we will understand how to get along.

Okay, back to the topic, then How can I get my boyfriend to tell the truth to me?

First of all, we need to analyze the personality of our boyfriend. If the boyfriend is the type who tells the truth without asking himself, we can just listen carefully. If your boyfriend is not good at expressing himself, like Jordan Chan, we shouldn’t ask him over and over again, because I think it will only make him resentful and not make him say what he really thinks, because it’s not that he doesn’t want to say it, it’s He really doesn't know how to express his tough guy image. In this case, our way to deal with it is to just learn to understand him, and don't force him to say it himself.

The other type is to express a type, but it requires us to guide the topic and use conversation skills. For this kind of situation, we first need to find a suitable scene to express our innermost thoughts. For example, when everyone is free, we can drink some wine with our boyfriends. Don’t talk about these things before we feel dizzy. Just talk about our daily happy things until we are almost done drinking. If you don't know, you start to say what's on your mind, and then guide him to say it. I always agree to use a sincere way of expression and don't beat around the bush. Some boys are actually very disgusted with this. I think it's straightforward to ask what you want to know.

Okay, that’s it for today’s answer, I hope it can help everyone!