Pull a black boyfriend and you'll know if you love him or not. Just give him a hand and you will understand.

Have you ever been in a relationship for granted? This feeling is like having an invisible hand, pulling the distance between two people farther and farther.

Alienation means separation.

In all relationships, no one should pay for it. Even with the support of love, it can't stand being used again and again.

We shouldn't expect others to keep paying. This is not a normal way to get along. Once the relationship loses its balanced blessing, it will face collapse sooner or later.

Sometimes, if you want to see a man who doesn't care about you, just hack him once.

0 1

"Can you come and help me first? I can't carry so much by myself. At least you should take the bowl first! " Qiao Rong glanced at her boyfriend sitting on the sofa playing mobile phone and said wearily.

"No, I just got off work, very tired, ok? Besides, haven't you been doing these things at home? " He didn't look up, the voice of the mobile game reached Qiao Rong's ears, and both of them were silent.

"Who just got off work? I haven't had a day off. " Qiao Rong muttered, but still put the food on the table.

"It's not hot now. Do you like it or not? " Qiao Rong dropped this sentence and simply ate it.

When Qiao Rong was about to finish eating, she saw her boyfriend slowly put down his cell phone and come over for dinner.

"Finished, I wash the dishes. I'll take a shower first. "

"Don't!" He interrupted Qiao Rong: "I'm almost finished. You should help me run the bath water first. After you put the water away, I'll take a shower. "

"What about me?" Qiao Rong asked doubtfully. It is hard for her to imagine why her boyfriend would say such a thing.

"Put the bath water to wash the dishes. You can wash it after I finish. Isn't this what it used to be? "

Qiao Rong felt a little wronged, and this state of her boyfriend has really lasted for some time.

It's not that she doesn't want to pay. Compared with paying blindly and taking everything for granted, she is more afraid of not getting a return and that what she takes for granted will get worse.

02

"How many times have I told you that socks, underwear and clothes can't be washed together? Did you take my words to heart? " Early in the morning, Qiao Rong shouted at her sleepy boyfriend.

My boyfriend may have just been woken up and said angrily, "shouldn't this kind of thing be solved by himself?" You didn't handle it yourself. Tell me about me. If you don't want to do it, just say so. You have to make so many excuses. "

It was because of her boyfriend's last sentence that Qiao Rong was completely angry. The grievances accumulated these days suddenly broke out, and she didn't refute him.

Qiao Rong threw a pile of clothes on the bed, got dressed and left home.

The sound of closing the door woke her boyfriend up completely from his sleep, but Qiao Rong had already left. Because of these things, the two fell into a cold war.

Qiao Rong took a few days off from the company, packed some things and started his own trip. She recently went to several places she wanted to go, but she didn't have a chance to go, so she relaxed for a few days.

In the past few days, her boyfriend has been calling and sending messages to her, but these have been interrupted due to the power failure in Qiao Rong.

She is betting whether her boyfriend realizes his mistake. If she wins, the relationship between the two people will definitely depend on a flight of stairs. If she loses the bet, the result will definitely be a breakup.

Although these troubles were temporarily put aside, sometimes Qiao Rong still felt flustered. Because she still loves her boyfriend, she doesn't want to lose him.

03

After two people quarreled for a week, Qiao Rong went home again. As soon as she entered the door, an attractive smell of rice floated out. She closed the door gently and saw her boyfriend busy in the kitchen.

At this point, it should be just after work. His bag was thrown casually on the sofa, and he had put on an apron before taking off his suit.

He seems to be studying a new recipe. After reading a few words on my mobile phone, I began to mix the ingredients awkwardly. Qiao Rong smiled and coughed gently. Looking back wearily, he found Qiao Rong back with a smile on his face.

"You come back? Come and see the new dishes I have learned, and I will be able to eat them soon. "

He took Qiao Rong's hand and just wanted to drag her to the kitchen. This seems to remind him of something: "by the way, I also bought a small washing machine to wash underwear and socks."

not yet

When Qiao Rong said something, her boyfriend continued, "I just put the bath water away. Do you want to take a bath before eating? "

In this way, Qiao Rong didn't say a word, she has been arranged by her boyfriend very clearly.

Neither of them communicated further about the reason why they were angry. Because at this moment, her boyfriend's attitude and behavior make Qiao Rong feel very at ease.

For him, this is not the case-his girlfriend left angrily, and he realized what was wrong: the love he deserved would be separated sooner or later.

No matter when, two-way love is more meaningful. It is because of each other's efforts rather than taking it for granted that more people will go to the end and more people will reap happiness.

So, what is true love? What are the key elements of a good love? How to love a person to get the sincerity of the other person? How to pay to make a relationship fruitful?

In fact, we all need to have the most basic understanding of love before we love someone. The so-called know yourself and know yourself. Only when you know how to love can you not do things that you regret in love.

To understand love, start with the following book, Psychology of Love, and read it if you have time.

It will lead you to analyze love in detail from different levels of love, understand the correct way to love someone, learn to deal with unexpected situations in love, and understand what kind of person is best for you.

When we really understand love thoroughly, then when facing the person we love, we will naturally not be reckless, understand each other's words and deeds, and know what we should do.

This kind of love can be called rational and mature love, and of course it is easier to get a perfect ending.