Give it to my son who is about to travel.

In five days, you will leave for Nanchang, thousands of miles away, where you will live and study for at least four years, or even longer.

In fact, since I confirmed that you were admitted to the university, my mother's hanging heart has finally fallen, and more is excitement, joy and longing. Of course, I still have a very complicated mood, from babbling, to holding hands in kindergarten, to seeing you enter school again and again, to welcoming you back from school again and again, and seeing your big and strong boy who is now 1.87 meters tall, I can't believe it. I'm very glad that my mother looks at you. It's a good thing mom grew up with you. Fortunately, you are getting sensible, honest and kind, grateful and optimistic. I'm really happy and happy.

Before I graduated from primary school to middle school, my mother summed you up and told you my thoughts in calligraphy, but I didn't write to you in time after I graduated from high school. Many times I want to start writing, I always feel that I don't know where to start. Maybe I want to say too much. After all, you have grown up, and these three years have not been easy. It's getting closer and closer to the day when you travel and study. Mom always wants to tell you more things. Whether you want to hear it or not, let me go on!

Leaving home this time means a big turning point in life, because I have to go on my own in the future. No matter what happens, you must learn to face it independently and carry it yourself. Life is like this. Sooner or later, you have to get rid of the shelter under your wings and taste the ups and downs before you can gradually mature. Of course, my mother wishes you smooth sailing and happiness, but you can't escape this experience. Only experience can grow. This is an unchangeable law. I want to ramble on from the following aspects.

About the body: put the body first, because the body is the capital of the revolution. With a healthy body, you can study hard and live a good life. Of course, from the first year of high school to now, you have always had the habit of fitness. I hope you can keep it up. My mother suggests that you not only do strength training, but also build big muscles. Proper aerobic training will have a better effect on your health and quality. I hope you can get into the habit of getting up early and run in the school playground and nearby parks. Run for 30 to 40 minutes every day, and stick to it, and you will find that your brain will be clearer and more energetic every day. People rarely have the habit of exercising, and adhering to self-discipline will temper your perseverance and flexibility. The sky is high enough for birds to fly; The sea is wide enough for fish to jump. Only those who are highly self-disciplined can have greater freedom.

About learning: "university" probably just needs to study, and it is not necessary to engage in this major anyway; Universities don't have to study at ordinary times, but they can pass the exam by rushing, and they can mix a bachelor's degree casually; Universities still have goals and dreams, learn their majors well, arm themselves in all aspects, wait for opportunities, seize opportunities, and approach their dreams step by step. How to spend four years in college is your choice. Mom won't make decisions for you anymore. Your life is your own. You make your own decisions. I believe you will make the right choice.

? About life: take care of yourself. This is a cliche. Away from home/kloc-more than 0/000 kilometers. My mother is full and warm. My mother knows that you don't like dressing up since you were a child, and you have no idea about brands. Just get dressed. Of course, we are still students, and we don't need to dress decently, but we must be neat and tidy, and we must not be sloppy. This is also part of the quality of life. Stay away from Internet cafes, discos and bars. Smoking, drinking, gambling and whoring are prohibited. These seemingly distant things are actually around. You must never set foot in or try. These are minefields. Don't go even if your classmates and friends insist. You must have your own ideas. No one can change and shake you unless you want to.

? About love: Because you have reached this age, love is normal. If there is, cherish it and face it calmly. Remember, in love, don't covet vanity, don't exaggerate yourself for showing off and fighting for breath. You haven't entered the society yet, and you don't have your own economic ability. Most or all of you will still turn to your family for help. If you have no lover, don't worry. If everything goes with the flow, you will have more time to do what you like. Of course, it doesn't matter if you are lovelorn, it's normal, but you haven't met the right person yet. No matter whether you are lovelorn or lovelorn, mom wants you to keep a clear head, keep your eyes open, pull away at the right time, and don't indulge. Of course it's difficult. It takes time. But you have to remember one sentence: the person who can accompany you for a lifetime, you will have the same view, achieve each other, work hard to realize your dreams, shoulder difficulties together, share happiness together, and be relaxed and comfortable together.

? Respect people: respect teachers, communicate with teachers more, and ask questions more. After all, teachers are more experienced, and it is normal to maintain good relations with classmates. Then talk less and stay away. Everyone in the class can't be on good terms with you. Everyone has his own personality and habits, and there are thousands of people. I recommend a word, people are kind, and we should know how to protect ourselves. Relationships are good and bad, let nature take its course.

? About reading: this is also an important point that mom wants to tell you. Now is the Internet age. It seems that everything is inseparable from the mobile phone. Everything is too fast, and fragmented information is pouring in, which makes people impetuous. Of course, reading is not an electronic book, but a paper version. You must read it. People who can settle down to study must be those who can be alone, those who can stand loneliness and those who can think. Books are the epitome of society, the ladder of human progress, the guide of human life and the spiritual food of human beings. Reading makes people full of wisdom, open-minded, knowledgeable, reasonable and positive. In a word, it can make you analyze and deal with all kinds of problems in life more rationally and calmly, and it is the best way to succeed in life.

I hope you can remember this. More importantly, please tell your parents when you are sad or don't know how to solve it. We may be angry or anxious, but this must be your most reliable support.

I hope you will take dreams as a horse in the future, live up to your youth and set sail bravely and happily for the future. University life is to enjoy, not endure, but to enjoy the process of tempering and growing up, to make yourself more confident and like yourself, and to make those old sayings: kindness, self-esteem, self-respect, independence, self-confidence, strength and wisdom become a part of yourself. Full harvest, no regrets for life!