How to comfort my sister who failed in the college entrance examination?

I know how you feel. My grades are not bad, and so is my sister's grade in Grade One. She often calls me, writes papers and reads them to me on the phone. Some boys like her, and she doesn't like being asked what to do. It's really much. Meeting a good sister is closer than meeting a girlfriend. It is of course urgent for my sister to meet her sad brother, but sometimes we need to grasp the way and degree of our love.

Caring for comfort from her own point of view is not entirely love. From her standpoint, what she actually needs is not only comfort, but also inner "problem solving"! A series of "I don't know" expressed her inner confusion, not pure pain, but more worry about herself. From her heart, what can I do if I don't pass the undergraduate course? . This shows that her knowledge and understanding of social occupations are biased and narrow.

You need to find a direction that can completely get rid of the shackles of undergraduate schools and build her confidence. This direction is easy to grasp as follows: if you really want to help him, you must grasp the latest social trends, combine her hobbies and specialties, and understand the contemporary emerging majors and development prospects. Only new things can catch your appetite. English accounting, secretarial and other "girls' majors" are old-fashioned and have no future. So many ordinary colleges and universities graduate from English departments of good universities, and the competition is too great.

Find her a new direction. A few years ago, tour guide was a good major. There are too many people now. I specially checked the information of the national talent plan. At present, the employment rate of Russian, Portuguese, Japanese, German and Arabic is 100%. It is a hundred times easier to learn than English. I am teaching myself Japanese now. Maybe it has too much to do with us in China, hehe.

On the other hand, there are many opportunities to study small languages abroad. Of course, the actual situation depends on the unit and post, but you can comfort her like this. The actual situation of the minor language major is really optimistic.

Another thing, the study of this "small language" is my suggestion and an example for you. You should draw inferences from others and look at other professional materials that seem cold, but they are not. If you enlighten her, you must provide her with such a promising direction that is not limited by the high-voltage line of undergraduate courses. Nowadays, many professions are unknown to people, such as illustrator, talent scout (this profession is not mysterious, ordinary people are rich), vinegar mixer (fruit vinegar), landscape detective (tourist landscape detective has never heard of it), editor (there are many kinds, not just writing), and many other professions that you definitely don't know. It's time to help my sister and myself. Learn more about the new industry and help my sister solve the essence that she really needs "comfort". Very detailed. Can be understood. I wrote everything that can be written in words. I wish you success and your sister happiness and confidence!

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