What are the sexual cues between men and women?

You met in the vast sea of people and met at a certain moment. Then, hormones attract each other, and everything seems to indicate a special moment ... and then, you say ... (it may be him or her, of course). What kind of language can make you transition to the next critical moment with the most accuracy and lethality? After investigating 40 couples of men and women, gender psychologists have listed eight most suggestive sentences for you before men and women go to the "sexual life stage".

"I think you are tired. Do you need a rest? "

Five out of 40 men and women chose this sentence, to be exact, it was basically chosen by men. It seems that the pressure of men in this society is too real, and having sex with a woman you like may be a way to relax, so when a woman gently says, "Do you need a break?" Their thoughts are easily brought to bed. Of course, the most important thing is whether there is a woman to accompany "rest".

Meaning: ★★★★ lethality: ★★★ fun: ★★★

"I feel very lonely now."

Of the 40 men and women surveyed, only 3 chose this sentence. Everyone's reason is that everyone will feel lonely. Compared with other sentences, this sentence is more like a poor expression trying to arouse each other's love than a seductive hint; And this sentence is easily understood by some people who like to think in a roundabout way as: "I feel very lonely with you" ... isn't that counterproductive?

Meaning: ★★★★ lethality: ★ fun: ★★★

"You look like my old flame."

The seven men and women surveyed said that as soon as they saw this sentence, they remembered what Miss Bao said to Fang Hung-chien in Fortress Besieged: "You look like my fiance". At that time, Mr. Qian explained: a woman says that you look like her fiance, which means that she is not engaged, and you are entitled to her love; Or, she has another fiance, and you can enjoy the rights of her fiance without fulfilling the obligation to marry her. Similarly, looking like an old lover may imply that you can be your current lover with her (him). Because he (she) is so persistent to his old lover, but he is an old man after all, so let's focus on the present.

Meaning: ★★★★★★ lethality: ★★★★ fun: ★★★★★

"I guess you are wearing white underwear now?"

Psychoanalysis, when people hear this sentence, their first feeling is to look down on their bodies, so there is no doubt that nearly half of the 40 men and women admire this sentence directly "touching the second skin". I want to see the underwear you are wearing. Of course, white is just a metaphor. Black, red and gray ... color doesn't matter. There is a real example. A woman guessed on MSN that a man who had never met but felt good was dressed from the outside to the inside and looked not bad at all. The man was surprised and immediately had the idea of being close to the woman. After all, clothes are an extension of the body.

Meaning: ★★★★★★★ lethality: ★★★★ fun: ★★★★★

"Do you want to come in for a drink?"

Super classic seduction sentence, the corresponding sentence is: "Don't you want to invite me in for a drink?" Don't think they are vulgar. For men and women who are only one step away from going to bed in two of a kind, this sentence will become the key language to pierce enough. So this line has been used in more than n foreign movies. Of course, it is more popular in real life. No wonder, 12 men and women think it is one of the most lethal languages.

Meaning: ★★★★★★★ lethality: ★★★★ fun: ★★★★★

"I live alone"

Living alone means being single, meaning being dissatisfied with sex life and being infinitely open to the outside world, so if a heterosexual looks you in the eye and says, "I'm wearing makeup alone, 65,438+0,000% of sexual cues will be revealed directly. More than 25 of the 40 men and women voted for it with the deadliest votes.

Meaning: ★★★★★★★ lethality: ★★★★★★ benefit.

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Then the body.

Non-verbal communication in husband and wife's life can make sexual life more imaginative and appealing, and give people implicit beauty enjoyment. Non-verbal communication is a kind of silent information transmission, which expresses feelings and wishes through touch, smell, vision, hearing, body movements and postures. If you are not good at capturing the clues of each other's inner passion from many subtle signs, or you don't know anything about it, it will destroy the beauty of sex between the two sides and bury the hidden danger of uncoordinated sex life. This requires us to learn to accept each other's sexual cues-the communication of action language.

Intimate movements, hugs, kisses, affectionate eyes, and lingering whispers are all conveying courtship information to you. In sexual excitement, the strength of the other person's hug can convey the information of the severity of the action. More specifically, when I hold you tighter, or when my body is closer to you, it means that I need more stimulation. When I slowly push you away, it means that I feel uncomfortable. Both men and women can also make an appointment in advance, convey the secret code of sexual feelings, and adjust the posture and amplitude of sexual behavior with eyes and gestures, which is both rapid and accurate.

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Other women's

Many wives admit that they need caress and long for caress, hug and kiss, but this requirement does not mean making love. Husbands often misunderstand what their wives mean. When they saw that their wives had expressed their enthusiasm, they thought that their wives wanted to have sex, so they were ready to move, resulting in a situation of "an arrow on the string had to be sent". At this time, the wife had to show the boat. As a result, the husband thought he had met his wife's requirements, but the wife felt that her meaning was misunderstood.

Both men and women with normal body and mind are eager to get sexual satisfaction through sexual contact. However, men and women have different requirements for the purpose of sexual contact. Generally speaking, all the caresses that men do to women after arousing sexual desire are towards the goal of sexual intercourse. And women are passive in arousing sexual desire. When they are hugged, kissed and touched by men, they will only feel emotional satisfaction at first. Before sexual desire is aroused, these physical contacts can also make them feel good, and they don't have to have sex.

Psychologically speaking, women often have "self-love psychology", that is, they want to be loved by others. Therefore, women tend to hint at this demand to men intentionally or unintentionally. In fact, sex focuses on psychological satisfaction, not sexual intercourse.

Therefore, men should know that women's requirements for sex are often no less than sexual intercourse, and they should also know that they often get better feelings in sex (not sexual intercourse), which is completely different from men.

As far as women are concerned, when giving a hint that they need to caress, we should think about whether the hint itself will mislead men. You should make this hint clear, don't be stingy with language. Even if the man understands your hint, you should pay attention to the rhythm and intensity of caressing, and a little carelessness will backfire.

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Research shows that when two people communicate face to face, 70% of the information is transmitted through non-verbal channels, which is especially obvious in sexual life, especially women. Because women are gentle and delicate in nature and shy to attract many men, they show a subtle and hazy beauty in their sexual life.

Inner passion is never expressed directly, but metaphorically expressed through some actions. If the husband is not good at capturing the clues of his wife's inner passion from many subtle signs, or he is at a loss, it will destroy the beauty of sexual love between the two sides and bury the hidden danger of uncoordinated sexual life. This requires us to learn to accept each other's sexual cues-the communication of action language in husband and wife's life.

Non-verbal communication in sexual life can make sexual life more imaginative and appealing, and give people implicit beauty enjoyment. Non-verbal communication is a kind of silent information transmission, which expresses feelings and wishes through touch, smell, vision, hearing, body movements and postures.

How to do it in sex?

First of all, the other person's kisses, hugs, kisses, affectionate eyes and lingering whispers are all conveying courtship information to you.

Second, in sexual excitement, the strength of the other party's hug can convey the information of the severity of the action. More specifically, when your wife hugs you more tightly, or her body is closer to you, it means that she needs more stimulation from you. When she pushes you away slowly, you should think about whether you are moving too hard.

Thirdly, couples can also preset secret codes to convey their sexual feelings. They can use their eyes and more gestures. For example, the two sides can stick their palms together and adjust the posture and amplitude of sexual behavior according to the force on the other palm.

Fourth, female orgasm comes slowly, which often requires a long period of excitement and platform. It is a relatively difficult thing to grasp the late stage of women's platform and the moment of climax, so that both of them can enter the climax period, and not everyone and every one-time activity can do it. But it doesn't matter, the husband can wait for his wife's orgasm before ejaculation, and both sides will get the greatest satisfaction.

Here, you may ask, how do you know that your wife has an orgasm? What is written in the general book is that the vagina contracts involuntarily and rhythmically, which makes the penis feel pinched, the heartbeat is accelerated, the breathing is accelerated, the chest and abdomen are flushed, and the nipples are raised. But not everyone's reaction is so regular and strong. When the climax comes, you have no time to take care of it. The best way is to draw up a sex code in advance, quickly and accurately.