The biggest misfortune of a family often appears after a few strange things. Should we be vigilant?

The biggest misfortune of a family often appears after a few strange things. Should we be vigilant? No one in the family is diligent and enterprising, and is lazy and extravagant all day long. In A Dream of Red Mansions, it is not without reason that the prosperity of Guo Rong's family will decline. In this family, most of the owners live in luxury, eating, drinking, whoring, gambling and smoking are outrageous. Next, we are also trying our best to harm the public and the private interests and pursue fame and fortune. When they are cocky or luxuriously enjoying life, they don't know how many people have been angered, and they don't quite understand how many sins and difficulties have been buried behind for this family.

In reality, the family from prosperity to decline is like a gorgeous stage; Many people are playing their own bridge with indifference and self-centeredness, and no one really pays attention. The end of this family is to maintain the harmony and prosperity of the family; Every family member will not consider progress. On the contrary, they get something for nothing. They are carefree, lazy and have no sense of urgency all day. After a strong vanity, they spend money lavishly. In this way, this kind of family will only make people mediocre and exhaust the efforts and achievements of generations in vain;

Tagore said: When a person is an animal, he is worse than an animal. If people in a family habitually sit and enjoy success, or don't create wealth and wait for others to invest, then the family will die sooner or later, with yellow leaves falling and doing nothing. At least one couple is addicted to extramarital affairs.

No matter what kind of family, the relationship between husband and wife is always the first; I ching said: two people are one, Taishan moves; How a couple unite will exert their great energy; In a family with children, the affection between husband and wife has a profound influence on children; They will also understand what love is from their parents' getting along. I learned how to love others. In the future, I will not be easily deceived emotionally, and my personality is open-minded and calm. In marriage, husband and wife are in relatively equal, even if the man is earning money outside, the woman is at home; Both of them are the pillars of the family. If either of them has an affair, it will be a fatal blow to the family.

Family, afraid of overstaffing, don't understand each other, don't care; There are contradictions and estrangements between husband and wife. Cheating and reneging after marriage will not only shake the cornerstone of marriage, but also continue to hurt children invisibly. When a family falls into the crisis of marital breakdown and cannot make up for it, then the family's career, physical and mental health, mental state and wealth happiness will be exhausted from now on; When either husband or wife is unable to extricate themselves because of having an affair with others, it means a tragedy.