Honey, talk about drinking and smashing cars.

In the TV series "Love in Ruyi Palace", it is easy to die completely in the face of the emperor's repeated suspicions. You not only cut off your hair as a sacrifice, but also ruined your portrait.

Later, the emperor came to the Yikun Palace to find her, and when he saw her face was cold, he answered a few words.

Many netizens commented that this scene felt like a dead heart, and Empress Dowager Cixi was so indifferent.

0 1 Women are silent because of disappointment.

I have a colleague who has been married for 10 years. Recently, she said that her husband is becoming less and less talkative. When everyone comes home, they just silently bow their heads to play with their mobile phones and become strangers under the same roof.

In the past, they always talked and laughed, talked about the interesting things that happened in the unit and talked about the children's study life.

Later, slowly, she told her husband about the problems she encountered at work. He was indifferent and was ill, so he was asked to buy medicine to go home. He got drunk in the middle of the night and completely forgot about it.

Many times, colleagues think it doesn't matter. She went to work alone, cooked after work, went shopping with friends on weekends, and took care of herself when she got sick. The communication with him is just the sentence in WeChat:? I won't go home for dinner tonight, okay? .

She said that marriage is really the grave of love, and the more you cross it, the less spirit you have.

02

A really powerful woman has long learned to be silent and give up her emotions. Stella in Perfect Relationship caught the clue of Cui Yingjun's betrayal of marriage. She didn't confront him face to face, nor did she cry or complain to anyone. A man collected evidence of his betrayal.

Smash a car to get evidence, and? Third party? Negotiate, finally showdown with Cui Yingjun, and decisively choose divorce. There was no quarrel with Cui Yingjun in the whole process, and everything was going on in an orderly way.

When Cui Yingjun denigrated that he had an abnormal relationship with Ye Donglie, he also chose silence, consulting a lawyer to discuss countermeasures, and keeping the situation within the minimum harm to himself.

She knows what her purpose is. On the one hand, it cannot affect her normal work. On the other hand, she just wants Cui Yingjun to be punished and let him take nothing away.

A woman like Stella knows that crying can't solve the problem, but she can free herself. She has to find a way to solve all the problems and her marriage crisis.

If something goes wrong, no one can really help themselves. Only by keeping his mind steady can he see the clouds and see the moon. Such women are often invincible and can achieve great things.

A truly powerful woman has long since stopped complaining and given up negative emotions.

When a woman is controlled by her emotions and must vent her anger with words, she will always be a loser, not to her opponent, but to herself.

03

40-year-old Zheng Jiao is quietly looking for happiness.

Zheng Jiao doesn't have Wei Fang's strong workplace ability. Faced with her husband's betrayal, she fought back in another way.

After discovering her husband's betrayal, Zheng Jiao decided to have a long talk with her husband, but in exchange, her husband hoped to maintain his despicable thoughts today.

Unexpectedly, her husband, who once made a vow of eternal love with her, turned into the devil wears Prada today.

Zheng jiao was unwilling, and then she negotiated with her husband again and again, but she couldn't change her mind.

Finally, Zheng Jiao chose silence and began to look for happiness again.

However, Zheng Jiao is not extremely irresponsible to herself like a betrayed husband. During the silent period, she was just looking for a really good single man around her.

Many things happen, and Zheng Jiao also met a man whose feelings were as badly hurt as himself. Both of them have a crush on each other.

At this time, Zheng Jiao officially announced that she broke up with her husband. In the face of Zheng Jiao's refusal, the heartbreaker regretted it and knew it was too late.

Silence made Zheng Jiao start her life again. Before the heartbreaker knew it, Zheng Jiao rediscovered the other half who cherished herself.

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The two chose silence in the derailment, and they also learned to endure and accumulate hair in silence, and also learned to plan for themselves.

Many betrayed men often think that their wives' silence is tolerance and compromise. In fact, silence is really the most powerful.

Because the real determination and accumulation of hair broke out in silence.

Silence is the best way for a woman to recharge, and the moment you break it is also the time for your rebirth.

Woman, in the face of her husband's betrayal, please put down your obsession, think carefully in silence and choose the most appropriate way to deal with it, so that you can always be invincible in life.