The father works the night shift, and the 5-year-old child wakes up crying. How much sadness does a single father have with his baby?

Single-parent family is the most destructive thing in the world. You can't change it, you accept it, so you get stuck in the middle of your emotions and disintegrate yourself little by little.

Psychologically, it is a big problem. Without the love of parents, no one can do anything. Our growth is missing and can never be made up.

But there are many such situations in modern society.

This kind of psychological impact and change always spreads invisibly, and finally it is easy to blame yourself for the mistakes and make yourself miserable.

First, a single father is both a father and a mother, and he has to go to work in front of employees.

A single father has multiple roles and can switch between identities perfectly, but time is limited. After work, you get rid of that employee's identity, and you can only be a father or a mother. But what if the child needs your love while you are at work? You must be very painful, and this kind of pain is tormented in your heart, and it is also a kind of pain that can murder a person psychologically.

Second, children need company, but if I leave my job, how can I make you grow up better! On the other hand.

Every child needs company. A psychological book says that if a child lacks the company of his parents for a long time, he will become withdrawn and strong, but this kind of strength is fragile, because he is too strong and thin, and may lose the courage to live at a certain psychological explosion point. This is a very intuitive question, but parents can't do anything about it.

Third, I don't have what others have, and children will feel that I don't deserve it from an early age.

Yes, children from single-parent families have grown up. When facing your spouse, the better you are to yourself, the more you shrink back. Why? Because he felt that he did not deserve such a good treatment and such a good life. All this is like a dream. You put all the twists and turns of your childhood on your spouse, with mixed feelings in your stomach and a thousand words in your heart.

I think the only way to reduce the emergence of single-parent families is to try not to get married until you have enough economic foundation. In that case, even if the child becomes a child of a single-parent family, you won't be without time.