You are not married to a person, but to a family!

Many people say that love belongs to two people and marriage belongs to two families. I didn't think this statement was right before. Marriage should be a matter for two people, but after some experience, I realized that marriage is not just a matter for two people! Next, let's talk about choosing the right person to live with you. A happy life is only half, and the other half lies in the situation of two families!

Qiu Qiu knows a sister who is very close to her. Her sister is a strong woman, while her brother-in-law is weak. Originally, they had been getting along very well. Although they often quarreled, there was no contradiction until they got married and had children.

Especially recently, there have been more and more contradictions, not only two people's problems, but also a family problem. My sister lives in the countryside. There are four sisters. My sister is the oldest. My sister's parents have worked hard all their lives. Although they grow crops, the economy is ok! My brother-in-law has two children. Brother-in-law is the youngest son and has a sister. Mom and dad are unemployed, dad often gambles, and mom is lazy.

Recently, the new house bought by my sister and brother-in-law is being renovated, and the economy is a bit difficult to turn around. But my brother-in-law's parents have been urging him to ask for living expenses. My sister's baby and brother-in-law's parents never took care of it, and they didn't take care of it the next month. All this is taken care of by her parents and sister. Moreover, in such a special period, the parents of the brother-in-law's family have been doing nothing, and they are not old enough to let their son bear everything. Are these parents? Although parents have worked hard to raise their children, are they really doing it for the elderly? Don't you think your life is meaningless? I always come whenever I want. Play with me when my grandson doesn't cry, and throw it to my sister when he cries. Do you think such parents are really qualified grandparents? The grandparents of other children regard their grandchildren and daughters-in-law as gold. Why are they different here?

Recently, the contradiction between my sister and my brother-in-law is also due to family problems in my brother-in-law's family. Every quarrel is annoying to two people. Yes, my sister is also thinking about how long she can live, and she will live alone with her children in the future! My sister is also distressed by my brother-in-law's pressure. My brother-in-law can't do anything because he respects his parents, but what about his parents? Selfish and incompetent!

The story continues here. Share this story with you today. Maybe everyone is surrounded by such people, maybe everyone is in such an environment. So you married more than one person. Maybe you are in love, but don't be carried away by love. I hope you all understand the family, family outlook, values, world outlook and outlook on life of both sides. Don't neglect your family because of love!

As a local dialect says, I hope you don't get married because you are stupid!

You are not married to one person, but to the whole family, including the customs and habits of this family, as well as all the pressures, influences, magnetic fields, social circles, lifestyles and the foundation of being a man!

May your marriage really accept your lover's family! May everyone be happy!