The child has lived with his grandmother for a long time, and recently the child lied. What should I do?

Some parents leave their children to the older generation because they have no time to take care of their children at work. In fact, this is not wrong, but the parents of the previous generation will more or less fail to keep up with the development of this society. There may be negligence in educating children. Leave it to grandma. As a result, grandma brought out the problem of lying. What should I do? I'll tell you today, don't beat and scold children in a hurry, but solve them in the gentlest way.

What makes children lie? Everyone will lie more or less in his life. Why did they lie? Maybe the child is avoiding scolding, and everyone wants to hear praise information. It is everyone's instinct to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. For growing children, listening to reprimand information can be quite scary. So children will choose to lie and cheat their parents. It is also possible that children's imagination is too rich, and children will add their own imagination when describing some problems or things. This kind of thing lies casually and doesn't even know it's lying. According to the research report, the earlier children lie, the smarter they are.

After a child lies, how should parents guide the child? The first parent should judge whether the child lies. In fact, it is also easy to judge, because children lie and improve. If it is really impossible to judge, then communicate with your child and listen to his thoughts. Like a partner with children. Talk, ask the child's needs and find out why the child lies. To sum up, don't kill every lying child with a stick. If the second situation lies because of imagination, then parents should help their children distinguish between reality and fantasy. Parents usually tell their children what is responsibility and what is imagination. What will appear in life and what can only appear in the mind. Children will gradually separate responsibility from imagination.

The author sends a message that parents must patiently persuade and educate their children to lie and never abuse and discipline them. It is very irrational for parents to beat their children in their temper for whatever reason. It is very irrational to control your anger and communicate with your children calmly. If children lie out of curiosity, parents should not punish them cruelly. Parents in the new era should pay more attention to persuasion education. The times are changing, so are parents' educational methods.