My mother-in-law wants to take the child over and let her take me. I don't agree. What should I tell her?

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different parenting concepts, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions in raising children. Many women don't want to throw their children to their mother-in-law, because the elderly are backward in thinking, only spoil their grandchildren, are not good at communication, and want to take their children with them. But there are also some mother-in-law who forcibly interfere with their daughter-in-law. They are reluctant to leave their grandchildren, hoping to take care of them in person, which will inevitably lead to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. When the mother-in-law insists on taking care of the children, the woman can reply to her mother-in-law in the following ways.

Explain to my mother-in-law first that she has the energy and time to take care of the children, so she wants to take them herself. Don't be too stiff between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. We must communicate in parenting and gently tell our mother-in-law what she thinks. If you quit your job to take care of your baby, try not to ask your mother-in-law for help, otherwise it will only lead to unnecessary contradictions. If your mother-in-law is a smart person, she won't interfere in your family affairs too much.

Second, asking mother-in-law to take care of children is a matter of physical and mental exhaustion, and the elderly should focus on health care. The health of the elderly is deteriorating, and it is a headache to take care of children. They have no energy to take care of their grandchildren. At this time, you can take a caring attitude to communicate with your mother-in-law, and you can buy her some supplements to keep her healthy. Only in this way can you live a long and happy life.

Third, when you take care of the children, take time to see your mother-in-law and tell her that her grandson always misses her. Mother-in-law is most afraid of her grandson alienating herself, so they always want to keep her grandson around so that life is no longer lonely. As a daughter-in-law, you should understand their good intentions. You can take time to keep in touch with your mother-in-law when taking care of your children, so that she can know that you have always missed her, which can also deepen the feelings between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.