What is the experience of accompanying your baby?

All along, many friends have come to ask Zhi Shijun about his experience of accompanying his wife into the delivery room, and have seen many prospective fathers struggle whether to enter the delivery room or not, wondering what will happen in the process of witnessing the birth of a baby …

Let's talk about the real experience of Zhi Shijun entering the delivery room at that time. Back in those days, Zhi Shijun made full preparations in advance, and he didn't admit that he got full marks until the doctor named me to cut the umbilical cord. ...

I couldn't bear to look directly at my son covered in blood, so I drank the energy drink originally prepared for my wife in one breath and finally got up the courage to cut the umbilical cord. ...

World War I became famous, and the embarrassment of cutting umbilical cord in delivery room became a permanent joke at home. ...

However, I chatted with other dads and found that both of them were from the end of the world, but their experiences were wonderful. Although they are accompanying the children, some dads seem to be the ones who gave birth to the children, and they are exhausted. Looking at the mother who has been exerting incorrect power, worried fathers may wish to change themselves.

Facing the baby who finally overcame all the difficulties, dad is also trying to use all the words he has learned in his life. ...

Of course, it is not easy to accompany the baby, and many dads have become the focus of "care" in the delivery room.

Even if the delivery time is too long, dad will be physically exhausted and carried to the hospital bed-_-#

But in fact, accompanying the baby is not as terrible as imagined. It is also a wonderful thing to make full preparations in advance and receive prenatal knowledge training. At this time, I can be with my wife, hear the baby's first cry and see his (her) initial appearance.

The baby is the most beautiful angel in the world, but the process of giving birth to the baby is really a naked journey of life, with no privacy and no so-called shyness. And if you encounter a difficult caesarean section, there will be many embarrassing things, and you really shouldn't let your husband accompany you. I don't think we need to know some cruel realities in this world, such as how the baby was born, and you don't need to really see it like a doctor. Just know some precautions. Just like we usually like to eat meat, we don't need to go to the scene to watch the killing of pigs. Although this metaphor is bloody, it is easy to understand.

There is a doctor in the delivery room, so don't worry too much. I just need to concentrate on the baby. My husband can wait patiently outside. If he sees the scene of the delivery room, it may have a shadow on his future husband and wife life. Why bother? Moreover, prospective fathers are timid, dizzy and grumpy. It may be that when they arrive in the delivery room, they will drag their feet and have to arrange doctors to take care of their husbands.

The delivery process is long and painful for pregnant women. If the husband's psychological quality is not good enough, it is particularly easy to lose desire for his wife, especially when the baby's head has just come out of the vagina, and then the amniotic fluid is still full of blood and meconium, which women can't accept, let alone the husband. It's ok for doctors to see such a scene, but it's cruel not to let her husband face it.

The husband stayed quietly outside and waited. When his wife comes out, he will be very happy if he gives her a deep kiss and comfort.

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My experience is that you can't eat it.

For me, a real foodie, it is really difficult to eat a meal.

I have been with my baby twice, in the same tertiary hospital. The first time was in 20 10, when my cousin was born, and the second time was in 20 12, when my own sister was born.

My cousins were in the delivery room when I gave birth for the first time, and I have been waiting outside. After six or seven hours, I didn't see any signs of being born soon. My brother-in-law said he was a little hungry and wanted to get some food and a camera from the ward, so he took off his isolation robe and put it on for me to have a baby. As soon as I went in, the midwife said that the baby was going to be born soon, and the medical staff were busy there. I kept holding my cousin's hand to comfort her until my cousin was almost half. ...

Accompany my sister for the second time, my eldest nephew, born on 20 12, is a dragon. There were many people who gave birth that year. My sister gave birth in the family delivery room, and we have been waiting outside. From the afternoon before the next night, I drank three bottles of mineral water, but I didn't have enough to eat. The reason why I can't eat is that I'm really worried. Many people think that giving birth to a child is a very common thing, but for our medical staff, especially as an obstetrician and gynecologist, there are too many examples to show that the mother and the child can't be safe, so I just can't help but worry about whether the labor process is smooth and whether my sister will not be born for that long. What preparations do you need to make if you want to switch to cesarean section? I'm worried about whether there will be serious postpartum hemorrhage after prolonged labor, and I'm also worried about whether my nephew will wait too hard. Everything can be summed up in one word, that is love, blood is thicker than water.

Every mother is great. I wish all mothers in the world good health and happy families!

Nutrition pirate bartender ~ Ren Hongye (attending physician of obstetrics and gynecology, nutritionist, fourth-stage student of Wang Xingguo nutrition special training class, psychological counselor, treasure mother who loves life).

It is a dangerous, tiring and painful process for a woman to give birth to a child. While stepping on the gate of hell, she also stepped on the earth. So many family members can accompany her and give pregnant women a sense of companionship and security. Because in the process of childbirth, it feels like stepping on the accelerator, but I don't know where the end point is, so one's company is so important.

What is the experience of accompanying children? Bao Da 1: I just arrived at the hospital and went to the internal clinic immediately. I thought it was done by a female doctor, but who knows it was done by a male doctor. As a man, I really feel unhappy. Men are like this, and there is nothing they can do. My wife is particularly jealous of showing it to other men. At any time, my mind is full of men thinking, why don't we use the machine for internal inspection? Later, I learned that it was not invented.

Bao Dad 2: When my wife suffers from uterine contraction pain, she sees redness and immediately drives to the hospital. When the doctor examined her, she had opened two fingers. Then the doctor suggested opening the cervix through exercise, and then she climbed the stairs with her wife to see her pain, but she didn't say anything. At that moment, I felt so useless. I was not as strong as my lover when I was working hard outside. I really see that women are weak, but being a mother is just strong.

Bao Dad 3: When I was working overtime in the company, my wife called and said that I had a stomachache and was bleeding. I immediately told her not to move, hold on, and told my mother to take her directly to the hospital. By the time I got to the hospital, my wife had opened three fingers, but I saw that each finger was open. She felt exhausted. She felt that she was burning with her life and giving birth. And then I really couldn't stand it. I asked the doctor to do it painlessly, and the wife in the back was much better.

Bao Da 4: Looking back now, it's really shameful! Near the due date, I vowed to tell my wife that I would accompany her when giving birth, but when I entered the delivery room, my wife bled for a while and then became a patient. What a pity!

Bao Dad 5: When the baby was born, the doctor asked me to come and cut the umbilical cord. I was a little scared, unable to start, and even shook my hand, because this was the only contact point between the fetus and his wife, for fear that something would happen to my hand.

Why don't many hospitals, sir, and their families give orders at random? When many men are with their babies, they just see that their wives have made efforts, but they can't give birth. When they are impatient, they know how pregnant women are born, and they don't care about the doctors nearby. How do they teach pregnant women to breathe and exert themselves? So doctors don't like to accompany their babies.

Second, the picture is too bloody. In the climate of childbirth, the picture is bloody, with blood, amniotic fluid and other secretions. In the process of natural childbirth, there may be tears or lateral cuts. After the fetus comes out, it is necessary to sew the needle. Pregnant women cry, and many men are particularly heartbroken.

Third, it affects the same room after childbirth. The man witnessed the fetus coming out of the birth canal. Some men still remember this process vividly. If the placenta does not come out after delivery, the doctor needs to peel it off by hand and reach out several times. Many men always recall this picture every time they live together, which affects their lives.

What kind of experience is accompanying childbirth?

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Many people think that parent-child relationship will affect the sexual life between husband and wife! In fact, I don't think that many men don't understand women's pain. Only in this way can he see the environment with his own eyes and let him feel it! Many couples who used to have a normal relationship! A man who is not filial to his parents may change a lot after accompanying his children! Only then will a man really understand his responsibility. Since then, he is no longer the child of a parent, but the pillar of this family. If conditions permit, I think my husband should accompany me.

Being with a baby is more stressful than having a baby yourself! My sister and sister-in-law have children, and I accompany them. My sister was born at night 10, in our county hospital. Not many people are usually hospitalized. Many people will choose to give birth in Beijing, so the hospital is more deserted at night.

My sister had a caesarean section, and my brother-in-law and I were waiting outside the operating room, and my parents were on the way. In the meantime, the doctor asked my brother-in-law to pay. I am the only one outside the operating room, and there is no one in the corridor except me. This made my heart beat drums, hoping that a doctor would come out and quickly take the child out. I'm afraid that a doctor will come out and tell me bad news. My mind is a mess and tangled.

The light outside the corridor is very bright, and there is no sound in the corridor. You can hear your own heartbeat. A little scary!

So I stared at the elevator hard, hoping someone would come to the operating room. After waiting for more than ten minutes, the elevator door opened, my brother-in-law and my parents arrived, and my heart was more practical. I think 10 minutes is too long. If I keep waiting, I don't know what I will do.

When my sister-in-law gave birth, I held the child in my arms. The doctor told me that there was something wrong with the baby. I found that the baby's breathing is not very smooth, just like a stuffy nose. I stared at the child, always afraid of something. I feel like I've never seen anything like this when I gave birth to my son.

Later, I checked and said that my niece had a little pneumonia and had to be transferred to Beijing. My brother and I also accompanied her. I'm worried about the child taking oxygen all the way, alas! Don't be so nervous!

This is love, right? It is estimated that when I give birth, my relatives waiting outside the operating room will be nervous as hell, but I am not nervous at all. Only by staying with the baby can you realize how anxious it will be to wait.

My husband is in labor. I broke the water first. I called my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law drove me to the hospital in five minutes, faster than 120. I checked that the entrance to the palace was open to four fingers. My husband left the red light open twice and ran to obstetrics. After signing, I didn't feel much pain when I opened the palace door with my six fingers. I just finished fetal heart monitoring, and I didn't feel anything until the palace door was fully opened. I didn't try hard, and the child came out without tearing or tearing.

I didn't accompany the baby, and I don't want anyone else to accompany me. The second-born mother felt that it was unnecessary for her husband or family to accompany her if she could.

The hospital service itself is thoughtful enough, and it is you who hurts to have a baby. If you let your grandmother watch you give birth, you may think you are melodramatic, and you may take this as an example in the future.

Moreover, there are always many people who think that they can accompany their babies and should let their husbands go. Let the husband feel that it is not easy to have children. Tell me it's you who really hurts to have a baby, and let your husband look at your painful face and think it might be better for you in the future? Not necessarily. Maybe I will feel sick when I see you in the future.

I saw a news report earlier that there was a couple who were very loving. The man forced a divorce because the accompanying wife couldn't stand the scene when her wife gave birth.

People forget the pain after healing their scars, and there is no real empathy in the world. We can only say that we understand your feelings. People who are good to you will be good to you, and bad people will be bad, and it is useless to accompany them.

Being with children is really one of the most important moments in life. It is suggested that a qualified husband must experience it personally in order to understand his wife's difficulties. I was lucky to witness the delivery. Fortunately, the midwife controlled the whole process, so I became a helper, distributing food and drinks, and helping with the nursing pads. To tell the truth, I was really in a hurry and stared at it with rapt attention. The midwife is really patient and constantly comforts my wife. When the child was taken out of the midwife's hand, my brain was really blank at that moment, so a little life was born. Appreciate everything.

We know that the mother's nervousness when she is about to give birth may be even more tense as a husband, and her palms are full of sweat. At this time, all she thinks is that it is better for me to bear the pain. Let's take a look at the netizen's answer:

@ bao31045 aoxie 260e

From the beginning of regular labor pains to the end of my life, my husband has been holding my hand and accompanying me. I am grateful to the hospital where the baby was born for letting me accompany her, otherwise I might not be able to hold on to it myself.

@ Liang Qiu Cherish Snow 55

My husband took the initiative to accompany the baby. I don't want him to be with the baby before he dies. I'm afraid he will stay there and not help at all. But the result was completely unexpected. He did a good job.

@ Tripping mxvsz73 1a8

When I went to the delivery bed, the midwife told me to relax and just listen to her instructions. I said bitterly, I don't want to give birth. My husband held my hand and joked with me, although I couldn't laugh. Every once in a while, he asked me if I wanted to eat some Snickers and drink some water, and encouraged me to speak quickly with the midwife, which was also difficult for him. Finally, at the moment when his daughter came out, he took a video with his mobile phone and told me happily that it was his daughter.

@ taoyuan jieyi uo69 103a6

After spreading my five fingers, I was painfully pushed into the delivery room. My husband has changed clothes and is waiting for me in the delivery room. At that time, I wanted to jump on him and hug him (I didn't even have the strength to walk independently because of the pain, let alone hug him). Not long after entering the delivery room, he was a little confused as I expected, because my hair was long, my face was ferocious and my hands scratched like cats.

@wdksiqxbd

During delivery, adjust the observation angle to see clearly. At present, postpartum has no influence on both sides, so what should be done? That's right ... the first time he sat by my bed, so he didn't see what the child looked like when he came out. My leg is blocked by cloth. The second time, he stood up and the baby came out ... especially ... even standing opposite me, that is, adjusting the angle mentioned above saw the whole process of the baby coming out! His appearance is no different, and there is no bad or favorable reaction afterwards. According to him, he just knows better what the baby will look like when it comes out ... ugly ... good ... I mean the baby.

@ Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting Tingting 20 14 1

When I went to the delivery bed, the midwife told me to relax and just listen to her instructions. I said bitterly, I don't want to give birth. My husband held my hand and joked with me, although I couldn't laugh. Every once in a while, he asked me if I wanted to eat some Snickers and drink some water, and encouraged me to speak quickly with the midwife, which was also difficult for him. Finally, at the moment when his daughter came out, he took a video with his mobile phone and told me happily that it was his daughter.

@ abortion haha 0 182f8

My wife held my hand and held it hard for almost 1 hour. I didn't witness the moment when the baby was born. Although I am at the bedside, I don't think most men will watch the arrival of the baby at that moment. I don't need to look away deliberately. My wife still holds my hand. The baby cried after cutting the umbilical cord, and my wife also cried. What I did was both exciting and sad for her.

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