In the friendship of three people, there is always one person who is redundant.

In the friendship of one person or three people, there will always be one person alone.

When three people travel, there are always some paths. Two people are in front and one is behind, watching them hand in hand.

There are always some topics in the conversation between three people. Two people are in high spirits, one is smiling silently, listening to two people talking and laughing.

When three people have a holiday, there are always two people who agree, and one person can only compromise and watch them in high spirits.

Geometrically, triangles are the most stable. In girls' friendship, triangles are far less stable than straight lines. The friendship between three people, even if everyone tries their best to maintain it, is difficult to balance. If you are not careful, you will lose your balance.

I have experienced the friendship of three people. When I was a sophomore, I introduced two good friends and gradually formed a three-person group.

Love is not the first, so is friendship. My two good friends were surprised to find that they have the same hobbies and similar views. Slowly, I can't get in their words, I can't squeeze in.

I became a redundant person.

I still remember three people riding bikes to the library together. I dropped the chain of my bike. Tell them to wait for me and start fiddling with it. When I looked up again, I saw that they had already rode away, talking and laughing all the way, and I was sad. A person slowly followed me to the library, maliciously speculating that they wouldn't find me alone, vaguely expecting that they would come back for me. It's just that no one found out in the end.

Two, three people's friendship, cut constantly.

I regret introducing them to each other very much, trying to prevent them from further friendship and trying to maintain the friendship between the three people. The whole person is tangled and contradictory:

Obviously care, but still pretend to be generous, pushing one person to another and saying, "I don't care, I don't care."

Obviously, I don't want to bring another person, but I still echo my friends, pretend to persuade another person enthusiastically, and say that "many people are lively, and many people are lively."

I regard them as my best friends, and I am just one of their friends. I'm not too small-minded, just because I only have them.

I refuse a person, but also a person unconsciously. I'm trying to win friends, but at the same time I want to give up the trio.

More and more, I am offline, sometimes walking, they are on both sides of the road.

Class is in groups of two, in groups of three, and I am alone. Watch them discuss problems together, make research directions, and stick together after class. I told myself that I would do better than them.

After reviewing the final exam, it was agreed that three people would sort out the main points and review the questions with each other, but it was not my turn at a time. The last person looks back and forces himself not to listen to their discussion. I told myself that my club was higher than theirs.

The negative emotions brought by one person have turned into excessive competition. I told myself over and over again that one person can do better than two people. Just contrary to expectations, homework and grades were crushed, and the final comfort was shattered.

Friends are good girls, considerate, take care of the overall situation and try to take care of three people. But at that time, I was almost driven crazy by negative emotions such as loneliness, jealousy and inferiority. A word, a smile, a casual action will cause my jealousy.

I stopped myself from hurting my friends, resisted the impulse to hurt and destroy this relationship, and told myself again and again: if we can't be good friends, we will still be friends. We can't be friends, but we are still acquaintances. Don't let once close friends become strangers.

Sooner or later, I will be unable to suppress the darkness in my heart. I can't solve the contradiction between three people. The only thing I can do is leave it.

Third, it's not that you are not good enough, but that they are more congenial.

Reviewing the biography of Zhen Huan, I have more sympathy for An Lingrong. In the draft, Ling Rong was humiliated and Zhen Xuan helped her into the palace. Since then, Lingrong has regarded Zhen Xuan as her closest sister.

After entering the palace, Mei Zhuang led the Rong Triangle Alliance to support each other in this secret palace. Ling Rong would do anything for her, but she heard and Mei Zhuang discussing her cruelty. Ling Rong gave the collected gifts to Zhen Xuan, and these gifts were all given to the maids by Zhen Xuan.

This is the advantage of the queen. Then, the mausoleum was blacked out to compete with Zhen Xuan to make Zhen Xuan feel better. How grateful I was at the beginning, how much I hate now.

Are you jealous of Zhen Xuan or the friendship between Zhen Xuan and eyebrow zhuang? Are you really unwilling to be trampled on or always unwilling to be excluded?

It's not that LingRong doesn't deserve them, but that Mei Zhuang and I have known each other since childhood, and their identities match and they have deep feelings.

Trust and tacit understanding cannot be cultivated overnight. Lingrong is never as strong as Mei Zhuang in Zhen Xuan's heart, and she is always an outsider in Mei Zhuang's heart.

All the efforts are not enough.

At first, I tried my best to maintain this three-person friendship. I took the initiative to walk between the two, but I was finally squeezed out; I actively participated in their topic, but in the end I had nothing to say; I was willing to compromise, but in the end Lian Xiao couldn't laugh.

I tried to sow discord and save my friend. I used to wander on the edge of darkness, glad that I kept the moral bottom line and chose to leave.

Please don't blame yourself for being lonely in the friendship of three people. It's not that you are not good enough, it's just that there are three people, and there will always be two people with similar interests. So, please don't turn yourself into the old me-lonely, sensitive, suspicious, frustrated and inferior.

Fourth, break through the small circle and see the outside world.

I overestimated the status of these two friends in my heart. I just happen to be friends, but they just can't be each other's best friends. This is just a stage in my life. I will meet many people and make different friends. Maybe my bosom friend is waiting for me somewhere.

I began to follow my heart, no longer compromise, refused to wronged myself. Persist in reciting words early every day and running at night. In my spare time, I soak in the library, reading books and listening to songs. I did a lot of things I wanted to do before, but because my friends didn't do it, I naturally drifted away from them.

For a long time, I was alone. Life is dull and I often feel lonely. It is this loneliness, unlike the loneliness when I have two friends. I can accept it quietly and enjoy it hard.

Slowly, I also learned to keep myself busy. I joined interested clubs and took an active part in activities. Get a fitness card and keep exercising; I signed up for an English tutorial class, rain or shine, and insisted on attending classes.

I am busy every day, and I am not in a hurry to find new friends and circles. Gradually, I have a group of regular friends to do activities, exercise or practice English together. I became a person with a large circle and many friends.

In retrospect, the friendship between three people, once thought to be their world, is actually just a small matter.

Leaving a small circle of three people does not mean that you are old and dead. I still go shopping with these two friends occasionally, but I don't over-interpret one of their actions, I don't doubt that they are malicious to me, I don't always think about whether I have done something wrong, I don't always think about competing with them, and I don't resist the relationship between them.

Maybe I have learned to leave some space for each other, maybe I have made like-minded friends, or maybe my circle of friends is bigger, so I get along with them more easily and harmoniously than before.

Don't give up the whole forest for one tree. The world is so big, why should we stick to a small circle of three people?

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