A clever mother-in-law will treat her daughter-in-law as a "daughter"?

Nowadays, there are always endless topics about the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It seems that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a pair of natural enemies, and few people can handle the relationship well. It is true that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a pair of contradictions. Want to get along well, not a person's business. It requires the joint efforts of both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Then, as a mother-in-law, I think I should get along with her daughter-in-law with the mentality of treating her daughter-in-law, which will be conducive to the harmony of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Treat the daughter-in-law as a daughter. It is a fate that a daughter-in-law can marry her son and enter your home, which is generally satisfactory to you. Although the living environment of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was different before, coupled with the age gap, their cognition and handling methods of some problems were different. As a mother-in-law, we must first recognize our daughter-in-law, treat her as our own daughter, and treat her as our own daughter.

When the daughter takes care and care as the main treatment, if the daughter-in-law is unwell, she should be caring and attentive in time, and pay more attention to diet and clothing in her life. Remind her when she has a cold, and remind her to dress and take medicine when she is sick. Especially during pregnancy and after giving birth, we should take care of our daughter-in-law, so that her daughter-in-law can feel the warmth of maternal love and her own warmth. People's hearts will change, and I believe my daughter-in-law will not be ungrateful.

Treat the daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law. After all, the daughter-in-law comes from other families, and the relationship with her mother-in-law is separated by a piece of paper. Coupled with the age gap, it is impossible to meet the wishes of her mother-in-law. Although the mother-in-law does not treat her daughter-in-law as an outsider, she may feel that she is between her mother-in-law and her husband in this family. Therefore, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be careful when getting along.

A mother-in-law should respect her daughter-in-law's living habits, young people's views and ways of dealing with problems. She can criticize her daughter-in-law without thinking that she is a mother-in-law or an elder, let alone slap her in the face. The more you treat your daughter-in-law, the less you can get her understanding and respect. Therefore, your mother-in-law should find her own position and not be above herself. You respect others by one foot, and others respect you by one foot. Daughter-in-law will understand this

Mother-in-law should not only care and care like a daughter, but also treat her with courtesy like a daughter-in-law. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, no one is dominant, but as a mother-in-law, we must first find our own position and handle the relationship in the right way. As long as she works hard, I believe the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along well.