How to treat a person with negative energy?

People with negative energy are like a spiritual garbage dump, which can turn your sunny mood into a dark cloud in 3 minutes.

There are three ways to deal with a negative energy person.

1. Keep your distance and reduce interaction.

Simply put: not to be taunted, but to be able to hide. Especially when you feel that the other party is going to spread negative energy again, find a reason to retreat quickly. Because it is no good to associate with people who are psychologically negative. A strategic retreat can at least keep us in a good mood.

2. "Two-minute quick communication method"

If you have to deal with people with negative energy, you can take the following three steps:

1 Say hello with a smile. You can simply compliment the other person, such as "You look good recently", "Congratulations on your promotion" and "Your child has grown taller".

② Complete the task. Make sure the conversation is as simple and clear as possible.

(3) Xie tui. You can thank and compliment a few words: "Thank you, thanks to you this time!" " "

You can take advantage of the "Benjamin Franklin effect" in psychology.

Benjamin Franklin, one of the founding fathers of the United States, delivered a speech in the House of Representatives to promote his ideas. However, a member of parliament completely opposed his views and even publicly attacked him.

What would he do?

Franklin wrote a note to the congressman, saying that he wanted to borrow a very precious book belonging to him. The congressman sent the book at once.

A week later, Franklin solemnly thanked him when he returned the book. A few days later, when they met again in the parliament hall, the senator took the initiative to greet Franklin, which was very polite.

From then on, the two men turned their enemies into friends, and their friendship lasted forever.

This is the famous "Benjamin Franklin effect" in psychology:

The best way to make others like you is not to help them, but to let them help you.

Finally, keep a positive attitude and make sure that you are not the one who is troubled by the unavoidable negative energy of others.