How to get rid of the habit of wrangling

Love to wrangle was originally a self-protection mechanism (to maintain self-esteem or to show that you are not so ignorant), and gradually developed this habit. In fact, in my opinion, habits are the most difficult to change, and it is unrealistic to completely change them unless you have suffered losses in this respect. However, there are a few tips you can try, even if you flatter others, it won't be too offensive. The first rule is that words don't hurt people, which is very important. Talking too much will make the other person think that you are unreasonable. If you talk lightly, others will think that you like to wrangle at most, but not so annoying. The second is to pause for three seconds before speaking, which means that you answer the phone as soon as the other person's voice drops. If you stop for three seconds and organize it in your mind, it will become a debate (normal discussion). Once you are brilliant, others will admire you and won't think you are unreasonable.