What if there is no topic to talk about between boyfriend and girlfriend? There is nothing to talk about between lovers.

This often happens in the early days of love, when two people are not familiar with each other, and they have concerns in their hearts, afraid of talking about the wrong topic and making each other unhappy. There is another situation, which is caused by people's personality. They are not good at talking and don't know what to say from beginning to end. Here are a few stupid ways to help couples solve the embarrassment when there is no topic to talk about, so that you can keep talking, one after another.

First, praise each other more, ask each other how they feel and pay attention to some things about each other. When you have no specific topics to talk about, it is often effective to praise each other more. You can praise each other's clothes today, their colors today, their state and so on. In other words, when you are with a couple, you don't know what to say, just look at what has happened to each other and you can talk big. Sometimes, the other person may think your boasting is a bit far-fetched. You can explain that this is the case in your eyes. Perhaps beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Look at you. Everything looks fine. In this way, the other person will be in a good mood and you don't have to find a topic. Another person may talk about Kan Kan. I'll just talk about how he/she feels about what you praise. In this way, the topic slowly opened.

Second, prepare the topic in advance and make an outline in case there is nothing to talk about. Some people get nervous when they are with their partners. This may be due to personality or inferiority. I can't let go, and I have concerns in my heart. Although I really want to say something, I can't say it and I don't have the courage. Sometimes, when you are in a hurry, you forget everything and don't know what to say. It's embarrassing to have nothing to say. So what should we do? This stupid method can help you slowly open your mind. In other words, every time you get together or want to be together, prepare a few topics in advance. I am alone at home, thinking about what I want to say to each other today, what I want to say to each other, and what I want to know about each other. Then, what do you want to discuss, and so on. In this way, when you are together, if you really have nothing to say, take it out and peek, remind yourself and let yourself know what to say.

Third, find a topic on the spot and don't worry. According to the circumstances, say what you see or think, and don't worry. For example, in the street, I saw a shop, so I can say, what about this shop? Is the product selling well? Is it delicious or not? You can also criticize someone for being uncivilized. When you see something interesting, you can also smile, talk about your views and exchange views with each other. That is to say, what you saw at the scene was relayed to the other party to attract the attention of the other party. If the other person doesn't want to say what he thinks, you can also talk more about some things you have encountered in your life and share them with each other. Then in the process of sharing, find more opportunities to let the other party participate in the topic. For example, have you ever had this situation? How did you handle it? what do you think? Do you think I did the right thing? Is it really stupid? And so on, tell more about the situation, expand the problem, throw it to the other side, let the other side interact and respond to you.

Fourth, try chatting online to avoid the embarrassment of direct face to face. If you think the above three methods are still not feasible, then you can't do it, or there is no topic to talk about. Then try this last stupid way more, that is, avoid meeting each other, and don't meet more first. You can try chatting online more often. Communicate with each other through mobile phones and the internet. In this way, we can have room for thinking, find some interesting things from the internet and communicate with each other. For example, when you browse the web, you can type in entertainment news, interesting videos or your inner feelings with each other. Generally speaking, people who are not good at talking have more inner feelings and chat smoothly online.

In fact, as long as people are not stupid enough to have nothing to say. If there is no topic for a period of time, there may be many factors. Practice according to the above four stupid methods. After a long time, with the deepening of communication, there will be more and more topics. People who have feelings for each other and love each other are often endless. Of course, if there is still nothing to say, it means that this relationship may be really inappropriate. Then you need to re-examine your relationship. Often there are not only no topics to talk about, but also other problems.

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