It's not that I can't talk, I just don't want to talk to you properly.

Last night, I heard an article in the reading at ten o'clock.

I did listen, because I was busy with other things and didn't choose to read regularly.

The title of the article is "Will you die if you talk well?" This is a good article.

Will it kill you to talk well? Indeed, there are many people around us who can't talk or don't want to talk well! They either don't talk, or they can choke people to death when they talk. However, there is actually another kind of people who are good at talking, but what they say sounds so unfriendly to some people.

Why? I think, probably on purpose!

It's not that I can't talk, I just don't want to talk to you properly.

The day before yesterday, a colleague of a co-organizer came to the unit, took out a few pages and handed them to a colleague next to him, saying, "I went to the social security account, and this form needs to be filled out."

What she is talking about is the agreement signed by the social security institute, the bank and the unit. I snatched it from my colleagues before they dispersed.

I opened it and took a look. It's just the company name and bank information.

I looked at my colleagues in the co-organizer and said, we only do financial assistance and nothing else. I haven't handled the social security account opening either. There is a special person in charge of this. You can consult. In addition, if you are not sure and are afraid to fill in the wrong form, in my experience, you can choose to leave it blank and then go to the bank with all the qualifications and all the stamps. You can provide whatever the bank needs, and you can fill in whatever the bank asks you to fill in.

Then when I spoke, those pages were handed back by me very smartly.

I'm sure I'll fill out the form, and I know what to bring, but I don't want to tell you. It's not that I bully people, nor that I'm unkind, because I hate people who don't understand their relationships. They often don't know where you are. Obviously, there are some in the company system, and you have received on-the-job training. Obviously, it says who is in charge of qualification and clearly describes the reimbursement process. Obviously, some things can be consulted by telephone functional departments, and obviously some things can be Baidu.

But they didn't. They looked for qualifications and finances, and threw them to others without even signing their own expenses. If you help them once, they will be familiar next time, and they will still come to you with stamps. Even if you emphasize this, you need to find the administrator's seal and sign it yourself first. If I encounter similar things again, my mind will not take a detour and I will still find you!

However, few people look for me, because everyone knows that I am not good at talking. In fact, I am a very gentle woman and a very polite person. It's just that I'm afraid of being troubled, so I choose not to be good at some things.

Sometimes when you are free, you can take time out to solve problems. If you ask me financial questions, no matter how busy I am, I will answer them well and solve them well. On the contrary, you don't even know what I do. You always treat me as a knowledgeable person and ask me more professional questions from others. I really don't want to waste time answering.

Yesterday I went downstairs and met a girl from the next unit. She said, sister, my boss asked me for the national tax and local tax password. Is this the machine password for invoicing? I don't know the password either!

Exm？ I'm not your treasurer. You don't know the password. Did I? I'm not your boss either. How do I know what he wants? I really think so in my mind, but I say so in my mouth: first ask the boss what password he wants, and then ask the relevant personnel for the relevant password!

Well, I really don't want to waste time on these people who can't be independent. This is a trivial matter in itself. First, if you don't understand, translate it in your own words and ask which set of passwords you want. Second, find the password of the relevant position; Third, if you can't complete one, return all the passwords 1, 2, 3 to the boss and let him choose at will.

Don't want to talk well, it's not that we have enemies, nor that we have enemies. Everything is about things, not people. On the contrary, I am helping some people grow up and telling them that they can fill it out by themselves. Don't give it to my people to fill out. It can be solved one-on-one Don't complicate it. Find a microphone in the middle.

The boss hired each of us, arranged in different departments, and the salary was different. He wanted to be dedicated and love his job. Moreover, there is specialization in the industry, and finding more professional people can save more hidden costs. I don't take financial salary to wipe your ass.

I'm easy to talk to, but somehow I just don't want to talk to you.

You don't even ask for help, and you don't care if others are busy at the moment.

Even the subject and object are omitted. Tell me you are a professional as soon as you come up. You know, I will use your time. You are near this place. You run for me. You are good at literature, and you know the law. You help me write it.

Why should I give it to you when I have time? Why do I know that I am a professional and I should solve it for you? Why are you running errands when you are close? Why am I qualified to help you check the labor law because I know the law?

Trouble, my time is precious, I don't want to waste it on unimportant things and people!

Don't act like I know I owe you a job. I don't owe you!

Especially those who slap others in the face and ask a sweet jujube for help the next day, please get as far away as possible.

Anyone who has read my last article knows that when I was talking about workplace routines, I once said that I was detained and then called the police. The man who detained me and greeted my relatives called me again the next day, saying that he was apologizing, and then asked me to help provide the home address of the hospital leader.

I thought it was funny. Just begging? On the first day, I almost pulled my hand off, and on the second day, my attitude reversed 360 degrees.

However, my memory is not that bad, and people are not that cheap. Let me put it this way. If it was you who was scolded yesterday, would you accept this person's apology the next day? I won't help you and I won't accept your apology.

Later, he texted me, and I blacked it out directly.

Everyone has his own temper and self-restraint, and it is polite to talk well. But sometimes, it's also a courtesy not to speak well. It's the right to be polite to yourself and respond to your aggression with appropriate language. This is an independent person's right!