New blind date conference: 30-year-old doctor of medicine "single mother and fetus", what do you think?

The seventh session of the new blind date conference arrived as scheduled. I just watched the seventh video. There are many highlights in the program, and there are also several controversial issues that attract people's attention.

One of the most impressive things is the beginning of the program. The first high-quality male guest was 30 years old, but she said that her feelings were blank and her mother was single.

Boys who have never been in love once seem to be rare now, right?

Some girls are particularly interested in his emotional attitude, but they are disgusted because he brought his confidante to the show for blind date.

I don't know if you have seen this program. Do you remember this?

First, the highly educated male guests with "zero" love experience, single mother and fetus have their own confusion and persistence.

Liu Guangyuan, a 30-year-old post-doctoral student in dentistry, graduated from a well-known Canadian university and worked on "Qian Jing is great"; She has a gentle temperament when wearing glasses. As soon as she came on stage, she was loved by Kang Xin, the 5th female guest.

Such a boy has so many excellent conditions that it seems easier to get rid of the confusion of being single in any environment.

But this male guest is a little different. He is 30 years old and still single. I only dare to like girls, but I dare not take the initiative to confess with girls, thus missing the only hazy love in adolescence.

When she told me that she had not been in love at the age of 30, the female guests were surprised and even unacceptable. )

The male guest himself said in the VCR:

When I was in high school, my academic performance was very poor, so I was dismissed by the school. I had to transfer, but for the first time, I was full of affection for girls.

This is a very beautiful and excellent girl. The male guest completed the academic counterattack for this girl, and studied hard just in the hope of getting closer to the girl's footsteps.

But who knows, the male guest's own grades went up and got better, but the girl disappeared, just like being erased from his life feelings.

Because I dare not take the initiative to express my good feelings, I missed such a beautiful feeling of adolescence. Since then, male guests have never been in love again.

The male guest is a very passive person emotionally. He only dares to like it and dare not act.

This experience reminds me of a youth film made in China, the girl we chased in those years. Shen Jiayi is a schoolgirl, while Ke Jingteng is a naughty schoolgirl. But because of love, Ke Jingteng studied hard with the help of Shen Jiayi, and finally both of them were admitted to good universities; It's a pity that Ke Jingteng didn't take the initiative to confess, and Shen Jiayi missed each other while waiting for him to express his pursuit.

Ke Jingteng didn't realize it until she attended Shen Jiayi's wedding: We missed our whole life.

There is such a classic line in the little thing of first love:

Num said: "The senior is like the inspiration in my life, he let me know the positive meaning of love;" He is like the driving force that keeps me going, which makes me what I am today. "

Indeed, a beautiful love and a kind heart can make us better each other.

However, when you hesitate, this hazy feeling will slip away from your palm.

Second, bringing a "confidante" to the stage for blind date caused unanimous disapproval from female guests and parents.

There is such an episode in the program:

Finally, it's time to introduce relatives and friends. The male guest said that because her parents were in Canada, her mother was in poor health and had no time to accompany them on the show. So I will bring my confidante who developed in Shanghai to accompany me on a blind date.

When this statement came out, it caused quite a stir. The female guest said directly: I can't accept this kind of relationship, and friendship is paramount when the lover is not full. This relationship is very dangerous.

But fortunately, the confidante of the male guest clarified all this in time:

I don't like him at all. His education is too high and his words are too short and detailed, so we are just friends.

But all this did not affect the love at first sight of No.5 female guest Kang Xin; In the whole program, Kang Xin did something particularly decisive, such as:

As soon as the male guests came to power, Kang Xin directly exploded the lights; She is waiting for any opportunity to know more about the male guests and then express her love in time.

Although it is not appropriate to bring a confidante to the stage for blind date, we can have friends of the opposite sex when we are single, but after getting rid of being single, everyone will tacitly alienate each other, because this is the unspoken rule of adults.

3.30-year-old boys who have never been in love, is it a plus item or a minus item?

Male guests revealed four key points in the VCR:

1, I am 30 years old and have never been in love.

2. Because of my timidity and lack of initiative, I missed the only chance to have love in adolescence.

3, with his girlfriend in the future, as long as the quarrel is right or wrong, he will choose to take the initiative to apologize and admit his mistake; After every anniversary, we will send flowers and gifts to her.

I am a boy with no secrets.

Murphy directly hit the nail on the head to say:

The four information points you revealed in the VCR actually attracted these female guests the most, maybe the fourth one, because you are a boy with no feelings and no secrets.

The funniest sentence is that Morphy commented on the attitude of male guests:

You think you can do this now, but after falling in love and getting married, you may regret your idea for life.

We can tolerate a girl and our wife unconditionally, but if we meet a girl who is particularly unreasonable and special, we must weigh the pros and cons and weigh our bottom line: tolerance, not bottomless connivance.

In the program, male guests were also asked to make a choice:

A: Girls, like you, are emotionally a blank sheet of paper.

B: Girls are experienced in love.

C: Girls have had some love experiences.

Faced with these three choices, male guests bluntly prefer to choose A or C.

In fact, this is also the choice of most single men. Because they have never been in love, they don't want their future girlfriends to have rich love experiences.

As can be seen from a set of data released by zhenai:

Nearly half of people who have single mothers and fetuses hope that the other person's love experience will not exceed three times, so there seems to be no exception in the choice of male guests; Because for most single people, they don't want their other half to have too many love experiences.

# Dating someone who has never been in love # This topic has caused some controversy here.

Murphy said:

Sometimes it is not a good thing not to have been in love once; Because women always want to find the other half, which has a certain leading role in their own lives.

On the 5th, the mother of Kang Xin, a female guest, showed her attitude towards this, which was regarded as some efforts for her daughter:

My husband and I are also each other's first love, so the love experience is blank and has no influence at all; Besides, our family belongs to a family of doctors, many of whom are doctors and have a very suitable family environment and three views.

Does a boy who has never been in love really have a great influence on blind date and mate selection?

I have seen the data of a survey report on single mothers and fetuses released by zhenai:

Among them, 30% of the respondents have single mothers and fetuses, of which 42% are men;

It can be seen from the age distribution that the proportion of single mothers and fetuses aged 25-29 has reached 46.28%.

In other words, nearly half of these people whose mothers and fetuses are single have been single for more than 25 years.

There are so many single mothers and babies that those who have never been in love don't have to feel inferior:

You just haven't found a way to get in touch with the opposite sex for a long time.

The last question and answer session, facing the question given by the male guest: You use this plasticine to express what your love and marriage look like.

Among them, Kang Xin gave the answer:

In fact, it is the way I hold it in my hand. Love, I want to hold it in my hand.

It is this sentence that makes Liu Guangyuan more determined to hold hands with her.

Fourth, is it ok to fall in love with single mothers and fetuses?

1. When you fall in love with a person whose mother and fetus are single, you don't have to worry about the other person's complicated emotional experience, because he didn't have any secrets before meeting you.

Both men and women are possessive animals, especially in feelings, many people can't tolerate sand in their eyes; And if you are with someone who has never been in love, you don't have to worry about each other's emotional life at all, and you don't have to worry about each other's private life. They will only associate with themselves for so many years.

2. Similarly, you also face some difficulties, such as:

You should teach a person with blank feelings, learn to love and learn to be loved; You must put your hand on a piece of white paper to write your love.

Maybe in the process of falling in love, you will be tired, and you should let the other person adapt to love better bit by bit; Without love experience, the other party may not even be able to solve a little contradiction in the relationship, but will be in a hurry.

In fact, this has both advantages and disadvantages. As long as you love each other, you will go further and further on the road of feelings.

As Kang Xin said to Liu Guangyuan at the end of the program:

I can apply for a doctorate in Canada for you; I want to know the little boy in your heart and introduce the little girl in my heart to you.

Since your relationship is blank, why don't we all get along like children?

That's what emotional things are like. They all make progress through mutual support and find the most suitable and comfortable way to get along with each other through mutual love.