What are some words that are suitable for rotting in the stomach, because saying them will not benefit anyone?

Someone once asked why so many people now dislike posting on Moments, and more people would rather keep their words in their hearts than talk to others. In fact, human beings' joys and sorrows are not the same. Your joy may stimulate other people's sorrow, and your sadness may be drowned in other people's laughter. The achievements you are proud of may seem insignificant to others, and others cannot bear your heart-breaking sadness on your behalf. No matter good or bad, no matter how many people you show it to, no matter how many Moments you post it to, your own experience and your own life are, at most, nothing more than a small episode to others. In the end, you have to live your own life by yourself. Only you know the ups and downs, the joys and sorrows, and the countless tastes. What's more, most of the time we don't live well.

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Every family has sutras that are difficult to recite.

Every family has sutras that are difficult to recite. Even if a person appears to be extremely prosperous and happy on the surface, there must be an unknown sadness hidden behind him, but he just hides it well.

Leo Tolstoy once said: "Happy families are all similar, but unhappy families are each unhappy in their own way." ?Most families are unfortunate and are in misfortune. Many times, everyone can't really understand this sentence, but after experiencing some things and tasting some of the various things in the world, you can understand it. The moon waxes and wanes, and people have joys and sorrows. There is no perfect life, life is full of stumblings. In the American drama "Desperate Housewives", several seemingly beautiful and harmonious families all have unspeakable pain. Susan is a children's literature writer who has no ability to resist men. Her husband filed for divorce because of his cheating. Lynette is a standard strong woman who had a conflict with her husband over who would be responsible for taking care of the four young children at home. Bi Rui is a perfect housewife. She has high demands on everything she says and does, but always ignores the love needs of her husband and children. These families seem to be the perfect "American Dream", but behind these families are countless family crises. Every family has its own story. Some people are rich and wealthy but not necessarily very happy.

Some people live a simple life and are ordinary, but they smile every day. Life itself will have its ups and downs, and everyone has troubles, big or small. Even the happiest people will have helplessness in their hearts and bitterness behind them.

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People, there are always some sad things that cannot be said.

People, there are always some sad things that cannot be said. Keep it in your heart and let time fade away. In fact, none of us are as strong as we appear. We smile to cover up our sadness and not to worry those around us.

Over the years, I have seen a lot of people and experienced a lot of things, and I have gradually come to understand that not everyone is sincere. You say some things, and people take them as a joke; you say some things, and people talk about it behind your back. I've suffered losses, so I'm defensive; I've been hurt, so I know how to be silent; if you can get through it, you can handle it yourself, there's no need to tell anyone. Tell your parents, your parents are worried, tell your partner, your partner doesn't understand, tell your friends, your friends are worried, it's better to swallow it in your stomach and face the big and small things by yourself. Who can understand how much pressure is behind this desperate effort, and who can understand how much sadness is hidden behind the smile.

Only you know best whether the road of life is difficult or not; only you have experienced whether the tears in the corner of your eyes are salty or not;

03 Know how to comfort yourself in the midst of hardship< /p>

I once tried to tell others what was on my mind, but I found that others could never empathize with me, and I felt even more lonely when I said it than if I didn’t say it. So later I learned to be silent, to comfort myself when I was suffering, and to find happiness when I was lonely.

Life is a process of experience. Success or failure is not important, winning or losing is not important. What is important is that you work hard, cherish it, and have no regrets. When you are tired, stop, let your mind calm down, let your feelings cool down, and calm down to consider the issues, then you will be more comprehensive and thoughtful. I'm tired, say goodbye, you can't go back to the past, you have to continue in the present, face the things in life if you can, and learn to face the things you can't face. No matter what you encounter or what is about to happen, since it cannot be avoided, just let it take its course. No matter how old you are, or how bad your current situation is, as long as you set goals and move forward step by step, there is always the possibility of a turnaround in your life. To live a beautiful life requires great patience, without complaining or explaining.

Who doesn’t learn to be strong while getting hurt? When you wake up every day, you have two choices: 1. Wake up, go to sleep again, and continue the unfinished dream; 2. Wake up, stand up, and realize your dream. Some words are suitable to rot in the heart, and some painful words are suitable to be forgotten silently. Once you have experienced it and you have grown, you will know it.

Some words are suitable for rotting in the heart, some are painful and suitable for forgetting silently. Not everyone can integrate into life and give you the deepest warmth. Not every heart can understand your thoughts and give you the deepest love. Really cherish it. Birds choose trees to roost, and hearts choose people to guard. Those who truly care about you will be tolerant without a bottom line.