Will middle-aged people stand in the street and be looked down upon by strangers passing by?

A person who seeks self-liberation in loneliness

Confucius said:? Standing at 30, 40 is not confused, and 50 knows the destiny. ?

Each age group has its own goals to achieve. For example, a 30-year-old should get married and start a career. A 40-year-old should stop being confused about the future and have a clear life plan. Fifty-year-olds have reached the age of destiny. What they pursued and cared about when they were teenagers should not be so concerned at this age, but they have a heart that runs through life.

But I don't know when, many people are still at home at the age of 30, and they are still like one at the age of 40. Giant baby? Even at the age of 50, I am still worried about my career and life. For example, even if many middle-aged people have families and children, they still choose to set up stalls every day as the main income of an economy. They don't have their own shop and worry about the economy every day.

Especially recently? Spreading the economy? The popularity makes many people around us discuss and even brush the screen in the circle of friends.

It seems that everyone wants to join the excitement of street stalls, but the most talked about is not the experience of street stalls, but teasing.

It can be seen that many people just talk about street stalls and don't want to practice them themselves. It seems that this is a despicable business, especially for middle-aged people to set up stalls, so whether this middle-aged person earns money or not, it seems that he will be crowned. Losers? Label.

Not long ago, I saw a question on the Zhihu:? Do you look down on middle-aged vendors? ?

Actually, that's what I want to ask. Would you?

Although it is difficult to be exposed to the wind and the sun, this is not the key that makes most people afraid to go. More people are afraid of meeting acquaintances.

Lose dignity

Even if you can't get paid and eat because of the epidemic, you still have to live in the lining and be proud.

Truly successful people never put dignity and face on the road of their current job.

Dignity is not given by others, but face is earned by yourself.

Zheng Banqiao once said: Go your own way, eat your own food, do your own thing, and rely on your ancestors. This is not a hero. ?

In my eyes, middle-aged people are more worthy of respect. Because he is trying to find a way, not to eat to death for useless face.

The road of life is your own, and no one can help you go on. When encountering setbacks, you may be temporarily silent, but this is also a process of accumulation.

But you can't just be idle in the process, so setting up a stall can not only see the needs of people coming and going, but also hone your mind so that you can get started faster no matter what you do in the future.

It is not easy to set up a stall, which requires stronger professional ability.

Many people like magic, but for magic, the most difficult thing is not the program that changes the living or the extreme survival, but the close-up magic on the spot.

In the street, the audience surrounded you to watch your performance, and there was no chance to start again. Everyone is being observed, which requires not only more superb means, but also strong psychological quality.

The same is true for stalls. Facing all kinds of guests coming and going, you not only need to attract them, but also need to explain them clearly enough in the most cutting-edge language. If one copy is not sold out, another customer may come at once. At this time, you need to receive many people at the same time, but the language should not be chaotic and the temper should not be bad.

Everything needs to be done in a few minutes, which is a strong test of psychology and professional knowledge.

A middle-aged man has been a street vendor for many years. Therefore, for such a middle-aged man, there is only admiration in my heart. On the one hand, he admires their persistence, on the other hand, he admires their ability to run a vendor for so many years. He must have excellent qualities.

The ancestors said:? 360 lines, each line is the best. ?

Street stall is actually one of these 360 lines, and great thinkers have also said:

Only the social division of labor is different, and there is no distinction between high and low. ?

So setting up a stall is also one of the respectable jobs, and as long as you have excellent professional ability, you can still do the best, even more than many seemingly owned ones? Iron rice bowl? People who work earn more money.

After all, dignity is directly related to how much money you earn. Does the economic base determine the upper class? This can never be wrong.

Therefore, I respect vendors, especially middle-aged vendors. No matter what reason these people come out to set up stalls, in the final analysis, they live their true selves and are no longer entangled in the so-called face.

To tell the truth, if I see a friend setting up a stall, I only admire him and even want to go out with him every day. There is no romance and elegance here, the only purpose is to make money.

Yes, the purpose of setting up a stall is to make money. There is nothing to look down upon.