A strong mother-in-law does bad things behind her father-in-law's back. Should the daughter-in-law be exposed in front of the timid father-in-law

It is said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a pair of natural enemies, yes. In real life, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often becomes a universal existence, which is still difficult to solve. Many times, the two sides don't give in to each other, but once one side catches the handle of the other side, it often has the upper hand and becomes the winner. However, sometimes, even if you grasp the handle, you dare not say anything. Why?

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This happened to netizen Wang Xiaoxia. Wang Xiaoxia has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very serious. However, this is not a matter of principle. Mainly because the mother-in-law is too strong. Many times, many things are decided by her mother-in-law, while Wang Xiaoxia just listens. If she doesn't obey, it is often the beginning of contradiction. This is unbearable for Wang Xiaoxia, who has always held a grudge. I don't know how to deal with this powerful mother-in-law

Finally, the opportunity came. Wang Xiaoxia, who once stumbled upon her mother-in-law, seemed to have a disorderly life, and her relationship with a man who was familiar to her family was too close, which exceeded the relationship of ordinary people. Wang Xiaoxia told her husband about it in private, but her husband didn't react except telling her not to guess, as if nothing had happened. However, later, rumors spread in the village, and a lot of bad information reached Wang Xiaoxia's ears. Wang Xiaoxia thinks she has something on her mother-in-law. However, my mother-in-law knows nothing about this and is as strong as ever. There is no sense of guilt and guilt, which makes Wang Xiaoxia very upset. I feel that I don't retaliate against my mother-in-law, and my heart has been hard.

Wang Xiaoxia gradually changed, no longer submit to humiliation. I also have a lot of complaints about my mother-in-law not helping her with her children. When my mother-in-law was strong, I began to resist. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is intensifying. However, her husband has been suppressing her and is still very filial to her mother-in-law Ma Baonan. Wang Xiaoxia felt that her mother-in-law was too HuiLaiShi, behind a set of surface, have no sense of shame. The father-in-law seems to know nothing about the bad things her mother-in-law did behind his back, and even dotes on her mother-in-law. At home, my mother-in-law is the queen, my husband is too weak and a loser, and so is my father-in-law. They pretended not to know such a shameful thing and could bear it. When Wang Xiaoxia was short of breath, she really wanted to speak out impulsively and get back at her mother-in-law, but many times the words came to her mouth and she swallowed them back, for fear that the consequences would get out of hand. Therefore, she is very painful and bitter, but she feels uncomfortable. What should I do?

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Although the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is common, it should not be too intensified. After all, this is a matter of kinship and husband-wife relationship, so many times, if you can, don't be shy, because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will directly lead to the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, it needs to be handled very carefully.

Especially when discovering the mother-in-law's style, we should be more cautious. Don't expose it easily, it may be really difficult to clean up the mess. After all, these things involving personal privacy and reputation, if overdone, will lead to death, without complete assurance or very direct evidence, so don't label people easily. Therefore, this handle is a hot handle.

I think you need to subtly make her realize what you know, but don't say anything, make her realize that you have something on her but you won't say it, so as to contain her and kill her down a peg or two. There is no need to be impulsive and tell the truth. Maybe your husband and father-in-law both know that they have chosen to turn a blind eye. What makes you tell the truth? Learn to be a smart woman and skillfully use this gripper to help yourself.