The old lady next door is tired of interfering in my family's affairs and making my mother-in-law angry.

That neighbor is a warm-hearted, because he has known your husband since he was a child, so he feels very close, just like his family. You have to understand her kindness. As the saying goes, a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor, and a close neighbor is not as good as the opposite. You should get along well with her, and she will try her best to help you in the future. Even if there is nothing to help, it is warm to meet. It was a long time ago that you looked up and didn't bow your head. You must never hurt your kindness. If you hurt your kindness, it will do you no good. Regarding the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is important to be in yourself. As long as you do well, no one can destroy it. When you get along with others, think more about their feelings and needs. As long as you let them live well, you must believe that they will be rewarded.