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Reflections on filial piety to the elderly

She is an ordinary rural woman, but she is also a model of respecting and filial piety for the elderly. On her life path of respecting truth, kindness and perfection, she not only contributed to the construction of a new era, a harmonious society and a harmonious family, but also set a brilliant example. It also won the honorary titles of "Five Good Families Award" awarded by Yuzhong County People's Government, "Five Good Civilized Families Award" awarded by Yuzhong County Women's Federation, "Excellent Women with Double Learning" in the county and "Harmonious Family" in Lanzhou City. But in the face of all these honors, she just smiled. She said, "These are all things I should do." And she is Pu, a 46-year-old villager in Nanguan Village, Chengguan Town, Yuzhong County, and one of the top 100 filial stars in Lanzhou City. Pu was originally from the triangle urban and rural areas, and got married in Nanguan Village in March 1992. After her marriage, her husband Tan Dunhui went out to work all the year round, changing the difficulties of family life. As a result, the burden of caring for parents-in-law and elderly grandmother fell on Pu. It is said that her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law-

"My grandmother is my mother-in-law's mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law has always taken care of her, which makes me very moved. Now that my mother-in-law is old, I naturally want to take better care of my grandmother and parents-in-law. This is a fine tradition of our family and our standard of living. " Pu's simple words made the reporter feel her simplicity. The love passed down by two generations of mother-in-law not only set an example for her, but also set an example for her.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious.

It is said that the living habits of young people and old people are very different, so many young people don't want to live with their parents-in-law now, and Pu has lived with two mothers-in-law for 20 years.

A few years ago, Pu's mother-in-law unfortunately fell, resulting in a comminuted fracture of her knee. Pu Yinxia took the initiative to take her mother-in-law to the best hospital for treatment and asked the best doctor for treatment. Not only that, she also reads newspapers and chats with the elderly every day, giving them more psychological warmth and spiritual comfort, so that the elderly will not be too uncomfortable and lonely during their illness. She repeated the nursing day after day, but Pu never complained. Day after day, Pu and her mother-in-law have been living together, and they have lived happily for 20 years. At home, when the meal is ready, Pu always gives it to her parents-in-law and grandmother first, respectfully to the old people, and tells them to eat it while it is hot, so as not to hurt their appetite. When the steamed bread is cold, it should be changed into hot one. When the food is cold, it should be reheated. When the noodles are soaked, they should be cooked.

Faced with the meager income at home, Pu resolutely made a decision: I would rather suffer myself than the elderly.

These two years are the time when the family spends the most money and needs manpower the most. Due to the financial difficulties of the family, in order to treat the mother and provide for the children to go to school, the husband had to go out to work. The burden of life suddenly fell on Pu's weak shoulders. She has to do farm work in the field, tidy up trivial housework, and take care of school children and sick mother-in-law. My father-in-law is old. I can only help her with some simple and relaxing housework. Mother-in-law unfortunately fell into a comminuted fracture in 20 14 years, and was ill in bed with hyperosteogeny in 20 14 years, resulting in the elderly being completely unable to take care of themselves. But under such circumstances, Pu still insists on giving the elderly the best nutrition. She takes care of all the daily life, combs the hair, washes clothes and cooks for the elderly every day, and carefully arranges their diet. She brought tea and water, and when she was hungry, she brought hot soup and hot rice bite by bite. Although it is difficult, in order to make her mother-in-law better, she still tries to cater to her mother-in-law's taste through three meals a day. In life, she carries urine for her mother-in-law, wipes her body and washes dirty clothes. She washed her feet and massaged her body before going to bed, and her mother-in-law didn't go back to her room until she slept. Every year, she buys her mother-in-law some clothes that fit her, which makes her mother