Girls have no home when they grow up. Tell me about it.

Girls feel that they have no family when they grow up because they want to get married when they grow up. As the old saying goes, a married daughter is like spilled water, so after her daughter gets married, home is not home.

After a girl gets married, if she quarrels with her husband, she has no place to go, because her family is not her own home, she lives with her husband, and the house is not her own, so when she grows up, she has no home. But this statement is very one-sided. Most girls go back to their parents' home when they get married, but the feeling of going back to their parents' home is really different. After marriage, I also found that going back to my mother's house is different from going back to my mother's house before marriage. Before I got married, I could do whatever I wanted at home, except waiting for my parents to cook. But when you go home after marriage, you must help with housework, and you can't do whatever you want like before marriage. It seems that something is always binding you.

The feeling of going back to my mother's house before and after marriage is really different, which makes me a little sad, as if my mother's house is not my own. Fortunately, my mother is still very kind to me, just like before I got married. She still tries her best to take care of my children and will help me when I need it. After I got married, I found that I didn't dare to go home because I quarreled with my husband or got stiff, for fear that my mother would be sad. Because I quarreled with my husband, I didn't want to see him, and I couldn't stay at home, so I felt that I was not my home anywhere after I got married.

I think a girl must have her own career, make money and stand on her own feet before and after marriage, so that she can have confidence. A woman's confidence must be given by herself, not by others. There is no way to live a good life by relying on others to give her confidence. I think if a girl has the ability, she must buy a house by herself before getting married, so that no matter what happens, she will have a home.