Be gentle and kind with all five poisons.

Forgive me for loving girls in my life.

love a good girl with five poisons.

A girl with five poisons is the most touching:

Independent values.

independent thinking ability.

unique lifestyle.

unique personality charm.

and love reading.

are there any such girls around you?

the orchid is so delicate, its fragrance is faint, its five poisons are all available, and it is a loner.

she came to this world as if she were on some mysterious mission.

? -Da Bing's "Ok"

This is a passage when Da Bing wrote "a beautiful girl and a strong man" little kidney bean.

In Da Bing's words, Xiao kidney bean is a beautiful girl who lives beautifully. In this world, there is no risk that she dare not take, and there is no life that she dare not die.

I admire her very much. She has walked through many places alone, seen many scenery I have never seen, and had many experiences and experiences I have never seen. But I must admit that such a way of life is still too far away from me after all.

each of us wants to live beautifully as much as we can, in different ways.

2

When Ode to Joy was popular, every character was pushed to the forefront of public opinion. Just like us in life, some people like you, others don't like you, and some even hate you. What attracts me most about this drama is its characterization.

Five beauties are different from the silly white sweetness in the youth idol drama, and they are not the ruthless villains in the drama. They have different backgrounds and personalities, but everyone can find their own shadow from them.

They are kind, but occasionally they show their selfish side. They all want to work hard to create a world by their own efforts, but they are often discouraged by the hardness of life. The contradictions and small thoughts that ordinary people have are all reflected in them.

None of them are perfect, but no one can say that they are not good girls. Because each of them is so real, so vivid.

I like Andy. Her rationality is the part I feel I have been lacking. I like little earthworms, she is naive and kind, and her similar experience has given me more understanding and love for her; I like customs clearance. I think this is what I look like in others' eyes-ordinary, but like her, I keep working hard because I am not willing to be ordinary; Like Sister Fan, even if her life is hard, she is still in the forefront when others encounter difficulties.

My favorite is Qu Xiaoyu.

3

When I first saw the words of Da Bing, the first person who appeared in my mind was Qu Xiaoyu. Of course, she only has four poisons, because she doesn't like reading.

As I said before, every role is controversial. Perhaps in the eyes of many people, she is unruly and willful, with no bottom line and no culture. But what I like is her free and easy, and her "evil spirit". Maybe everyone who is used to being a good girl has a rebellious heart.

I think she lives a very free and easy life: she can speak as she pleases, and she doesn't have to think twice before doing anything. I don't think her aura comes from her rich second generation family. Even if she is as ordinary as you and me, she still has the ability to live a free and happy life. That's an inherent temperament in her, born with it.

4

She has unique values.

When it comes to love, she is not as restrained as Andy, as timid as Guan Guan, as mindless as a worm, and as tired as Fan Jie. She dares to love vigorously, or she can break cleanly.

When it comes to money, she doesn't pretend that she treats money like dirt. She will be generous enough to admit that she loves money, and then try to meet her needs. She does have a better platform than ordinary people, but she doesn't sit on empty seats, but races against time to run the business one by one, because she wants to be recognized, and she also understands that "it's too shallow to get it on paper, and she never knows that it needs to be done."

She said to Wang Baichuan, who didn't want to cooperate because of the Chinese New Year, "My family is so rich that I am the most qualified to eat and die. I still drag my luggage around the world to find business. What is the New Year? There are opportunities to make money. What is the New Year is a cloud. "

She has a unique and thorough view of human behavior. She looks crazy on the surface, but in fact she knows it very well. When it's serious, it's serious, and it's noisy when it's noisy. It's unambiguous. She also knows that only with real skills can she be qualified to pursue everything else.

She said to the little earthworm when he was confused, "Yes, you have no temper, but if you have no real skills, who wants to see your true temperament?". The world is so cruel, what's the use of encouragement. In this world, no one has an obligation to make you happy except yourself. "

she has a unique thinking ability.

"falling in love for the purpose of marriage is all utilitarian. Fall in love, love to have no strength to toss, then get married. This is noble and the greatest respect for love. "

"You can't get rich if you are not stingy, and you can't get rich if you don't love money."

"Being a real man is the most tiring; Being a prude, people around you are the most tired; Being a man is not serious, but as long as you have real skills, others will say that you are true, but being serious is not the same as being serious. "

It seems absurd, but it's very intriguing to hear her telling you everything. Get to know this role more and more, and you will gradually find that what she has is not only the cleverness, but also the great wisdom of life. It's just that she didn't say it seriously.

She has a unique lifestyle.

During the day, she can ride the sea of business, deal with various bosses, and be invincible in business, and gain access to the world. At night, she can also have a good time with her friends in nightclubs.

interesting souls are one in a million because most people stick to a lifestyle and dare not try and change. And she, however, can be comfortable between the two.

she has a unique personality charm.

this need not be explained too much, and Dr. Zhao can be easily persuaded. It is definitely not the average person. ╭ (╯ ╰) ╮

5

Every time I see the barrage, everyone says, I want to have a friend like Qu Xiaoyu! I would think, would I want such a friend?

it's so tangled. To be honest, the domineering Qu Xiaoyu is beyond blx's control.

I will feel how humbled I am to be friends with her. She can be vicious, but she can't scold me when I just made a mistake and I'm at a loss. She can be mean, but she can't dig at me when I'm really sad.

but she is such a person, obviously very kind, but she always pretends to be bad. She is too clear about love and hate, and a little self-righteous. So at the beginning, many people didn't like her very much.

So, what made everyone really fall in love with her?

I have come to understand that we like Qu Xiaoyu, not her criticism after seeing the true nature of Sister Fan, but her enthusiastic help when the Fan family is in trouble again and again. It is not her cynicism when the little earthworm is sad, but her standing up when the little earthworm is bullied; It's not her self-righteous cleverness and so-called "Jianghu wisdom", but that she keeps her priorities clear at the crucial moment; It is not her seemingly frivolous behavior and words in the face of love, but her deep affection for the right person.

6

I think that I was criticized by a classmate a few days ago. Actually, before being said that, I always thought I was quite gentle ...

I reflected on myself, as if I had got used to it recently.

I remembered what I said before:

"I always think that people who are angry and scold, who are unwilling to agree with a word, and who spray when they don't like it are straightforward and true-natured.

But now I understand that the world is so big and there are so many messy things. Being gentle and kind at all times is a real ability. "

now I think about it, it's quite a slap in the face. I can write a lot of words, but it's really difficult to do. Being able to write warm words and being a warm person are completely two concepts.

it is more important and more difficult to be a warm person. Just like Qu Xiaoyu will never whisper to comfort you or write you chicken soup to comfort you. But around her, you will have a full sense of security, and you know that she will protect you.

From this point of view, Ququ is absolutely warm and kind.

Although I think it's harmless to laugh and curse, I know better that you should learn to let others see not only your "vitriol", but also your gentleness and kindness.

7

Be gentle and kind.

is it contradictory?

not at all.

Feeling echoes the Confucian idea of "be strict with yourself and be lenient with others". All five poisons are our guidelines for ourselves. Being gentle and kind is our attitude towards others.

If you really manage your life properly, you can not only enrich your life, but also bring positive energy to people around you, right?

May you live your life and love others.