What is the truth of a saying in the countryside that "the rice in the bride's family is fragrant, but the rice in the husband's family is long"?

This proverb means that the food a woman eats at home is the best, but she can't finish it all her life. Sooner or later, she will get married, so when she gets married, she won't be so formal about eating at her in-laws' house, so this is her home for life. This is the meaning of this sentence about her family's good eating, and it is also telling some girls who often live in her parents' house not to regard her home as their own.

Second,? Comparison between mother's family and husband's family

In the past, the requirements for getting married were not too high, as long as the lover is good to himself, as long as he has enough to eat and wear warm clothes. In their own homes, people may think their parents are particularly nagging. After I married my in-laws, I realized that my mother-in-law was the most nagging, so I thought of my mother's family and missed life there. Therefore, it is especially fragrant when eating at home, because a person is carefree and doesn't think about other things at all. It is different in one's family.

Third,? Things are different.

In my own home, if there are some contradictions and unpleasant things with my mother, my parents are easy to talk to and don't care what my daughter says at all, but it's different in my husband's house. My husband's family must have rules, and I can't be small-tempered. If so, I will think of my parents.

Even if this proverb is to remind married people, don't always think that a good husband's family at home is the place where you want to live your whole life, and don't go to her house at a trivial matter, which will worry your parents, so you must adjust your mentality and change your opinion in that way.