Why can't you marry an honest man?

Actually, how can I put it? No one in this world is perfect, and no one can be perfect. Honest people also have many advantages worth learning. People can't marry honest people because some women don't like their major defects:

1, honest people are introverted, unlike those who can talk glibly and flatter others, who coax people with their mouths and make them happy, especially when dealing with love, they always keep their words in their hearts and do not express their love. Women will find it boring to be with such people.

2. Honest people are slow-witted. If a woman is cheerful, talking and doing things in a hurry, impatient men and slow-witted men are simply out of place. Honest people are slow to talk and do things, so slow-witted men will make women resent and quarrel together.

Honest people are too weak to be bullied easily and will not protect women. Many honest people did not receive positive education when they were young, and their parents often beat and scold. They must be made to obey their parents' orders. Over time, when they really step into the society, they will find that they are even worse than those who were disobedient and naughty when they were children. In other words, they are too obedient and have no opinions. Today's society is a society where people deceive others and eat people. Honest people often like to listen to other people's opinions and look at their faces. For the same job, honest people are often bullied by employees and bosses in the same industry because they are not good at expressing themselves, so they will not refuse decisively, so such people will give people a feeling of cowardice and bullying, and the boss will ask them to do the most tiring work with the least salary. To sum up, honest people can't even protect themselves. How can they protect women?

Most honest people are poor and have no connections, so it is difficult to achieve a career. If a person wants to be pushed to the climax of success, he must have enough contacts or have his own specialties to let others know your strength in this respect. Usually, honest people have few friends or even no friends. They always like to passively let others talk to themselves, and rarely or never take the initiative to talk to others. Such people get few opportunities. Because they don't have the support of nobles, it is difficult for them to achieve a career. Nowadays, many women in society like rich men, men who can earn money to support their families, and men who are the pillars of their families. If a person has no motivation at all,

However, honest people also have many advantages, but we don't look at them positively, such as:

1, an honest man is honest and won't make trouble.

Honest people don't make trouble in crowded places, such as friends' parties and dinners. The greatest advantage is honesty. Honest people generally do not take the initiative to deal with others, but passively let others deal with themselves. When people ask him questions, he is not sure. If he didn't, he wouldn't say, or even just say I don't know. Such people give people a sense of honesty, but it is better not to know than to say a bunch of useless mistakes. Therefore, in crowded places or large gatherings like this, honest people rarely or even hardly make trouble and will not be singled out by others.

2. Although an honest person can't express himself very well, his specialty will never be worse than anyone else.

Honest people are most suitable for their own specialties, because we all know that 360 industries are champions, such as some famous artists, vocal music and star chefs in the song and dance industry. Most of them are introverted, and it is their skills that make them successful in their careers that will attract more people to support and pay attention to them. For example, the famous Jay Chou is a very simple example, and Jay Chou is an introverted man. Before he became famous, he was afraid to face the camera. Faced with so many spectators at the scene, he was afraid of saying the wrong thing to offend the audience. But Jay Chou's singing is his greatest advantage. He will redouble his efforts, put his energy and feelings into singing, and finally become famous and spread all over China, so that more people can know him and pay attention to him. Now he has become a big-name star, and his life has been changed with the support of more noble people, including Ma Hua Teng of Tencent and Ma Yun of Alibaba.

3, although honest people are honest, it does not mean that work is worthless and can't work!

There are not a few introverts, such as logistics department, kitchen staff, library staff and computer designers.

These jobs don't need to deal with others too much, nor do they need to look at people's faces. They are most suitable for honest people. What they need most is such an environment. If they do well, they can succeed, earn a lot of money, and their lives will not be worse than those with cheerful personalities.

In fact, a cheerful person and an honest person can complement each other in personality and temperament. An extroverted woman can learn from an honest person's calmness, carefulness and seriousness. An introverted and honest man can learn from a woman's language expression ability and learn a lot from her speaking process. If both of them are short-tempered, or both of them don't like to talk, that's definitely not good. Only when their personalities complement each other can they live a perfect life. Everyone has imperfections and should be together. Some girls like this kind of honest man very much. After all, a person is so honest that he won't cause trouble. As long as you don't bully him, don't talk to him excessively or touch his bottom line, and don't make him angry, nothing will happen. Honest people love face.

So you don't have to marry an honest man. The reason why you don't marry is because you don't like such a person, but it doesn't mean that other girls don't like an honest man. Fate is predestined. When an honest man comes, he can find someone. Two people often run in together and chat together. The character of an honest man can also be changed. The most important thing is to find the right person with the same hobbies. So I don't think this statement is absolute.