Those who are kind to you, don't treat them with dinner! Learn the following four ways to repay.

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As an ancient saying goes, "I live in three provinces every day". Being alone can make a person live more soberly, see himself clearly, reflect on the past and become stronger and stronger.

it is the normal state of life to be born lonely and live lonely.

We often say, "When a person becomes strong, he starts from being alone."

only when people are helpless can they meet their strongest self. Real strong people often like to be alone, and they understand that the best connections are hidden in themselves, not relying on others.

In fact, no one can really achieve "everything is Dont Ask For Help", and it is inevitable to deal with people, and get what they want and realize their wishes through cooperation and mutual assistance.

to be a man, you should be grateful and never push your luck. The grace of dripping water can't be forgotten, and it is appreciated by others and taken to heart. People who don't know how to be grateful are like baiwenhang.

It means that when a person is running out of food, you give him a bucket of rice and let him live. He will be grateful and regard you as a benefactor. But if you help him all the time, he will develop dependence and take your help for granted. Once you don't help him one day, he will treat you as an enemy.

many people, after getting help, will choose to treat them to dinner in return, thinking that everyone will get together, eat and drink, flatter each other and tell their hearts. After dinner, send some gifts, and this kindness will come to an end.

Actually, everyone is very busy, so we don't have much free time, so we can eat and drink together. There are also some people who don't like to show their faces, or it is not convenient to appear in some places at the same time with the people being helped.

If you invite someone to dinner, you will often be rejected, or it took you a few days to invite the right person. It's embarrassing.

in this life, you should remember those who have been kind to you.

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First, only those who know how to be grateful can get help from noble people.

Gratitude is a person's best virtue. When something good happens, learn to be grateful, because it shows us hope; Learn to be grateful when encountering bad things, because it has taught us to grow.

In life, we must learn to be grateful when we meet people who help us.

historically, before Han Xin became the king of Chu, he experienced many hardships and often went hungry.

In a place where Han Xin often fishes, I met a kind-hearted woman. Seeing his pity, the woman often gave him help and food. Han Xin was very moved by the woman's relief and expressed that she would repay her if she got ahead in the future.

Later, Han Xin made many contributions on the battlefield and was named King of Chu.

He went back to the original fishing place, found the woman and gave her daughter in return.

Rousseau said, "Without gratitude, there is no real virtue."

Only a grateful person can achieve great things and get the help of noble people.

everyone, in this world, can't rely on themselves.

people need to associate with people around them and be grateful, so that they can be recognized by others and get help from God.

in life, sincerity is rare and kindness is precious.

On the road of life, there will always be unexpected warmth and the support of family and friends. We should learn to be grateful and cherish, so that our life will be full of happiness. Live every day in a down-to-earth way and cherish all the experiences, because these are all for our growth.

A vicious person, if he still has a sense of shame, still retains a trace of kindness. If his kindness is discovered, he will change his image and continue to get better.

If you are a person who often complains about society and wants to meet Bole, you should continue to get better after receiving help.

In Nanning, Guangxi, there was a young man named Zhou. He stole a battery car and was caught. He said something shocking: "It is impossible to work, and it is impossible to work in my life. I won't do business. "

Later, with the help of the police, he repented, joined a business team and gradually became rich.

In order to be grateful to those who helped him, he went on a TV program, telling his own story, helping more young people and getting lost.

with a good heart and a changed image, it's a hundred times better than having a dinner party. A grateful heart will make a person have more sunshine and slowly change his destiny.

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Second, "help each other" and hold a group to keep warm. Help each other when they need it.

I'll tell you a story about one good turn deserves another.

when I was a child, my grandfather was the old son of the landlord's family. He said that he was a landlord, that is, a rich farmer. He saved some money for food at home, but later he was targeted by his beard and tied him up to raise money at home.

He had money at home, but he couldn't bear it. Grandpa is a fifth-year-old, and there are many sons in the family. He is too late to send money, so his beard will give some color to see. Tie my grandfather, cut off an ear, and sharpen his knife. When the second husband comes back, he stops, saying don't do any damage. What should I do without the ear baby?

Later, my family raised money to redeem my grandfather. After 2 years, when Changchun was trapped in the Liberation War, my grandfather met the second master, who was in his prime, and he was short of food and clothing in his twilight years. Grandpa gave him a small bag of food.

Those who are kind to you may encounter difficulties, and see you again tomorrow. After you know his situation, take the initiative to help him. This gratitude is "great kindness".

when you are in trouble, you can see the truth. Give others what they need most, and you will be noble. If you meet a rich man and give him 1 yuan to eat delicacies, it seems insignificant.

wait slowly, and one day, the nobles will encounter difficulties. If you still don't know the gratitude of others, then continue this feeling and your next generation will continue to be grateful.

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Third, "understand other people's intentions", make ideal achievements, and make those who help feel gratified.

There are many people who have helped me, such as teachers, family members, relatives, friends and strangers, but what I remember most is a stranger!

when I first went to college, my family gave me 5, yuan to pay my tuition. I put my wallet and cash in my girlfriend's bag, and all her money was in her pocket. We both took a tricycle on the side of the road, only to find that our pockets were left in the car when we got back to school. For a time, we were sweating in a hurry!

The worst thing is that we didn't find our wallets, and we were scolded by our parents that day. At that time, I wanted to quit school and felt that I had made an unforgivable mistake.

who would have thought that when we went to the canteen for dinner the next day, the school broadcast rang and called my name and asked me to go to the office to get my bag. At that time, I was a little confused and ran over, so I was so excited that I almost fainted!

I really remember the feeling of getting it back. That stranger, I am very grateful to you! It is because of these talents that the world is better!

after being helped, a person can follow the trend, and prove himself with his own achievements and conquer the public with his character, so those who help him will be sincerely happy. For example, in the workplace, if your boss promotes you, you will make achievements without losing face to your boss, which is a hundred times better than giving gifts to guests; If your relatives lend money to do business, you can do it in a down-to-earth manner, make yourself rich and win face for your relatives.

Don't be a "mud can't paste on the wall" person, or those who help you will be chilling.

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Fourth, kind people "bring their own lucky light" and pass kindness on to the society.

"beginning of life is good in nature". Kindness is rooted in everyone's heart. It is because of kindness that the world has warmth and hope. However, kindness also needs wisdom and the edge of reason. Ignorant kindness is stupidity.

Once upon a time, a Zen master was meditating at the water's edge when he suddenly heard an unusual noise. It turned out that a scorpion had fallen into the water and was struggling desperately. The Zen master reached out and fished up the scorpion, but it stung him. He reluctantly put the scorpion on the ground and continued to meditate.

in a short time, the scorpion fell into the water again, and the Zen master reached out and fished it up again, and was stung by the scorpion again. Later, the scorpion fell into the water again, and the Zen master reached out and fished it up, and was stung by the scorpion again.

A fisherman saw it and asked the Zen master, "Why did you save the scorpion from stinging you again and again?" The Zen master said, "Sting is its nature, and compassion is my nature."

At this time, the scorpion fell into the water again, and the Zen master was about to reach out for it. The fisherman picked up a branch and the scorpion climbed up along it. The fisherman said: "compassion is right, but first of all, you must be merciful to yourself and protect yourself well before you can be merciful to all beings."

kindness is a good thing, but it needs the edge of wisdom. People's hearts are complex, the world is difficult and dangerous, and ignorance and irrational kindness will only make insatiable people push their luck, give people with ulterior motives an opportunity, and ultimately hurt themselves.

in this world, sincerity may not be exchanged for sincerity. Your kindness to greedy people will only bring disappointment and chills; Your kindness is given to ungrateful people, and you will only be ruthless. Kindness should not be blind, but should be given to those who deserve it.

I like what Tu Lei said in the program: Life really turns around. You don't know when a piece of fate and kindness you met will turn into a greater warmth in the future.

each of us should thank the people who have helped us in our lives. No matter how big or small, there is a love behind every help, and we are always grateful!

Be a clean, honest and kind person.

Some people walk on the road to harvest flowers, while others walk on the road to harvest saliva. Without comparison, there is no harm.

A beam of light can illuminate the road ahead of you, and also make people beside you walk more steadily with the help of light.

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Conclusion

This society is indifferent, dark and unfair; But there is also warmth, light and fairness!

don't forget those people who have helped us. They are important people in our lives.

contact and greet each other on holidays and give them a hand when they are in trouble.

hatred will last, so will love!

It is a lifelong thing to repay others and be grateful to the society. Eating can connect feelings, but you can't pay off your kindness. If you want to repay a debt of gratitude, you should be conscientious and kick out all evil thoughts.

This society is indifferent, but more warm and moving.

to be a man, we should use our feelings properly like timely rain.

to be a noble person of others, you will meet noble people everywhere in your life.

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