How to deal with children's addiction to mobile phone short videos? Knowing these three points, children will put down their mobile phones.

Does everyone have this feeling: "A short video can't stop."

Why is this happening? Summer vacation is coming. What should children do if they are addicted to mobile phone short videos?

In response to this topic, Xinhua News Agency interviewed several rural children. The reporter's investigation found that some rural teenagers are addicted to mobile phones, and some students use online classes to do their homework and play mobile games and social software for a long time.

At the same time, they are also very witty. They will not only switch between various game interfaces flexibly, but also prevent adults from viewing and quickly switching screens to "cheat".

Not only that, individual teenagers recharge their game accounts without their parents' knowledge.

Several such incidents have been reported on the internet, and parents have asked for help to see if they can refund the money.

Many parents have a headache. Children play mobile phones. Why is this happening? After understanding these three questions, children will put down their mobile phones.

1, the lack of family education

Children playing mobile phones, the first is the lack of family education.

Because parents usually do not form habits when educating their children, and their educational awareness is not great, they are usually too indulgent. This phenomenon was quickly exposed during the summer vacation.

In essence, parents' lack of parenting knowledge leads to children's inseparable from mobile phones. Because children can't understand from their parents' words and deeds: what else can they do without playing mobile phones?

Many rural parents lack psychological education for their children, and almost all children's education comes from schools.

But in fact, education in a complete sense should be composed of family, school and society.

Children can only acquire knowledge from school education and guide them to form cognition. Most education is accomplished through family education. If parents don't understand their children's psychology, there will be problems such as lack of communication and tyranny in family education.

The phenomenon of playing mobile phone fully reflects the disadvantages and influence brought by the lack of family education.

2. The child is sending a signal to his parents.

First of all, why does a child play with his/her mobile phone and what signal does he/she want to send to his/her parents? Many parents don't understand.

For most parents, how do parents solve the problem of children playing mobile phones?

A good-natured person will nag a few words: "Don't play with your mobile phone." If you have a bad temper, you will be beaten with a stick.

Conversely, look at the parents themselves. As soon as they finish their work, they immediately pick up their mobile phones to play games and brush short videos. ...

As the saying goes, "It is better to teach by example than by example". Children don't set a good example, why should they be self-disciplined?

Secondly, ask yourself: What can children do without playing mobile phones?

The child is sending a signal to his parents by playing with his mobile phone: "I am bored and I am lonely."

When parents don't know that their children send some kind of signal to themselves by playing mobile phones, they naturally have no way to educate their children: how to stay away from mobile games and short videos.

3. What do children want to achieve through games?

What do children want to achieve by playing games?

Because he is bored and lonely, he wants to vent his emotions and pass the time by playing mobile phones, because there is no entertainment or even nothing to comfort his/her restless mood.

To this end, Xinhua News Agency reporter called for: Save these rural children who have been "netted"!

1, enhance hobbies and broaden your horizons

In rural areas, it may not be as convenient as in cities, and the entertainment items that children are exposed to are not so complete. Is it true that rural children have no way out and are immersed in the network?

No, parents should learn to guide their children and let them know that there are many meaningful things in life besides surfing the Internet.

For example, let children do housework as much as they can, and let him experience the joy of life from housework.

This not only exercises the child's independent ability, but also takes up his time.

For example, make a study plan, in addition to finishing your summer homework, tell your usual preferences, or where you went to play, what interesting things you found, and write a few diaries or compositions.

When children have a wide range of interests, they will naturally bid farewell to mobile phones.

2. Let children experience life

When parents do business, they can let their children play the role of small cashiers and waiters, let them realize that it is not easy for their parents to make money, and then let them know how to be grateful.

Experiencing life is a key step for children to grow up. Teenagers who love life have unlimited potential.

Parents who farm at home can also let their children participate in farm work and let them experience the power of life in nature, such as the power of seeds breaking through the ground and the mystery of flowering and fruiting.

These are all good ways to inspire children to love life and let him put down his mobile phone.

3. Encourage children to visit relatives more.

The rural environment is very good, and it is the "Xanadu" that countless children in the city dream of.

Let children visit relatives more and participate in the communication between children of different ages, which can not only enhance their feelings, but also form their own social circle and improve their communication skills.

Many city children are envious of rural children, and there are small partners everywhere.

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Author: Hou's growing diary

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